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moon_beam
Hi, Bobbie, thank you so very much for sharing with us how you're doing, and your beautiful love letter ot your beloved Trevor. I can so relate to what you share with us: "When humans are frightened, many times we try to hide behind a false bravato or get quite angry and lash out. We aren't nearly as direct as God's animals are." Our precious companions know how to keep things simple and straight to the point.

I hope today is treating you kindly, my friend, and all of your family. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, and that I always look forward to sharing how things are going with you and your treasured memories of your beloved Trevor.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam
Gretta's Mom
Hi Trevor (and your mommie)

We CAN do it - yes we CAN. You and little Benji showed us how to live an love in situations much worse than the one we may be facing now. Gretta, too, going out every day during the cold Minnesota winter to try to find enough food to keep herself alive. And almost starving to death and being on the death list and then POOF! along comes a wonderful lady, rescues her, nurses her back to health, and then she chose me - like you chose Bobbie.

It teaches us to "get up just one more time" or as the old song says "Hold on, just a little while longer, Everythign is gonna be all right."

We've got God to protect us and you guys to love and be loved by. We'll be all right - even though we can't QUITE see the path right now.

I love you Trevor - and I'm SO happy I could get you pillow made in time for your mom when she really needs it.

You're a champ, little guy. YOu're a champ.

Aunt jeanne
LoveMyMickey
Hi Sweet Trevor! wub.gif

I agree with your Aunt Jeanne, "Everything is gonna' be alright!" How do I know? Well, maybe just maybe, a little butterfly told me. smile.gif

My thoughts and daily prayers are with your mommy, aunt Jeanne, and your whole family.


I Love You All! wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif

Auntie LoveMyMickey XOXOXO
My Doxie and Me
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Bobbie
Good Morning, my Trevor!

It happened again, didn't it? Our friend found our theme and picture and now everyone can share in it! You know, that little duckling also represents YOU and all you overcame and tried over and over again, just so that you could have a good life with us. I must remember that and put it forefront in my mind. You, truly, are my sunshine! I can look at your pictures, and your special pillow from Auntie Jeanne, and the rest of the world and it's problems melt away into silence.

I should tell you about "your" pillow. Auntie Jeanne took two 18 inch squares from that old blue blanket you'd lie on. She found a special embroidery place that stiched an outline of a great big heart with YOUR NAME in the middle of the heart! Then she put blue gingham ruffles all around the pillow, no it's not too feminine at all. And stuffed it with pillow stuffing to just the right firmness. I sleep on or with it next to me every night and feel even that much closer to you.

I hope we get another gift soon - a poem! They are so soothing to my soul and racing mind. (I want to read and know all I can about my cancer, but then I do and get incredibly frightened.) The poems are like bits of magic that bring me around to peace and tranquility, especially since I have a knight in shining armor protecting us!

Yes, Trevor, God sent you to me for specific reasons and I thank Him every day. I miss you terribly and always will, but it is getting easier to talk to you and think of you with a smile on my face now. happy.gif YOU are my hero!

I LOVE YOU, TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
moon_beam
Hi, Bobbie, thank you so much for sharing with us how you're doing and your beautiful love letter to your beloved Trevor. I am sooo happy when you share with us: "Yes, Trevor, God sent you to me for specific reasons and I thank Him every day. I miss you terribly and always will, but it is getting easier to talk to you and think of you with a smile on my face now." I know your beloved Trevor is SOOOOOO HAPPY for you, his Forever Mom, and is smiling along with you as you talk to him and share your treasured memories with him.

Some people think that to smile again means they are being disloyal to their beloved companions - - that they will forget their beloved companions. But this is not the case. Being able to smile again doesn't mean that there won't be times when you share a special memory that there won't be a mist come to your eyes and sadness to your heart - - even years later in your continued earthly journey. It DOES mean that your heart can once again embrace the warmth of the eternal love you and your beloved Trevor share -- and enjoy it - - which can only bring a smile to your heart and face. And this is what your beloved Trevor wants for you, my friend. And I am sooo happy for you that you are now able to do this in your adjustment journey.

I hope today is treating you kindly, my friend, and all of your family. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, and that I always look forward to sharing how things are going with you and your treasured memories of your beloved Trevor.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam
LoveMyMickey
Hi There Sweet Trevor!!!!! wub.gif

Auntie LoveMyMickey signing in to say goodnight and that I love you!.....The pillow your Aunt Jeanne made for your mommy sounds so beautiful. That was so sweet of her to make it. I know it is a comfort to her and helps her feel close to you, especially at this time.

Now Mr. Trevor, you, Mickey, and Gretta be good little Angels and I will stop by again soon.

I love you Trevor and your mommy!!! wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif


XOXOLoveMyMickeyXOXO


My Doxie and Me
A poem i would like to share...More would be welocme;to help a special friend intime of need...

From Poems Junction

A Trevor's Dream <Slightly Modified>To my Friends Needs...
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When you allow angels to be part of your life, Miracels truly happen."
A loving angel came to me in my Dreams.
He showed me life's not always what it seems,
And brought me to a place where sweet dreams might Be...
He gave to me a gift that i now give...

To others so they might find their lost Sisters and Brothers...
As he whispers,"Take my paw i will lead you through
all of your pain that might be placed upon you in my time of need....
So this flight of dreams shines so bright we stand in are own Sorrow...
Close your eyes and open up your heart,
For then this flight of dreams so sweet can start
He brought me through the Darkness to the light,
Where Bright Colours wrapped around me with such Delight....<Angels Wings>
A patchwork quilt of true Beauty whithout seams,
Speak so loud Trevors Name i Truly Believe....
Each colour is a rainbow full of Dreams that we would Be...
<Miss Gretta I knew you had a beautiful heart even without Sight...Gretta Speaks through many it seems I can hear you;>

He led me through a hallway of pure sound,
With Doors flung open widely all around.
And from each room angels songs would play.
I wish with all my heart that i could stay,

As we drifted in the fragrance of the breeze,
To savor all of the flowers and the Angel Tree;s.
We tasted all of life that we could see,
As we felt it flow as one in Harmony.....

Then my Angel turns His eyes to me and Said,
Your the Keeper of my words for only you can speak in my time of need....
I will Dream of love and light, These Dreams
will lead you through the night...
As i;am the Keeper of these Dream, It's true,
For i offer all my Dreams to each of you, For a friend will speak intime when she sees..
The true beauty that shine even when words may be of pain...The very last thing i would
say to a friend that wishes;.. stay as Angels call my Name....
May all loving sweetness visit you each night
And fill your soul with love and Warmth and Light.

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Mr. Trevor i can hear your friends voice Thank you....
Gretta's Mom
I love you, too, Trevor. Thanks for helping your mom so much. Please keep doing that every day. I'll be away for a while but gretta and mickey and your brothers will be with you.

XOXOXOXOXOXO
Aunt Jeannie
Bobbie
Dearest Trevor,

Poof! Another beautiful poem from our friend! We are so blessed to have him, aren't we? And we will never take them for granted because each comes at just the right time with just the right message (help).

Tonight, I need your help, my love bug. I need your courage to face whatever is coming my way. I need your patience dealing with others who just don't seem to "get it". I need your fortitude to continue forward, marching headlong into a fray, the likes of which I have never seen. I need your acceptance of what is and what might be. I need your trust, just like what you had when you first met your daddy and me, that things will all turn out for the best. I need your gentleness to soothe my fears and nerves AND to pass that along to others, again like you did to me. Finally, I need your ability to LOVE, like no other, ever in my life before. So many reasons not to love shove themselves right in my face, just like you had. And yet, you continued to love and love and love until the very end and then your love transformed into an eternal, forever love. Me? I put up a fuss or have a pity party or get in a huff. Not at all helpful in the least!

Trevor, I know about the Purpose- Driven Life. YOU are the Purpose-Driven Dog who I was lucky enough to ask for and then demand, without even knowing what a great gift I was getting! That really is the best gift of all!!! Now, if only I could find your bit of hair to touch and draw strength from. It's got to be here somewhere! I'll bet Birney told you where to hide it that mommy would never find it.

Have a most wonder-filled night amongst the stars and the moons, with the saints and the angels. Every one of them loves you to pieces!

I LOVE YOU, TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
Bobbie
Dear, dear Trevor,

This morning I wrote you a beautiful love note and just as I was posting it, something happened with my computer and all was lost! I am so sorry. I will try to re-say what I wrote, but cannot do that right now.

Just continue to know that I love you with all my heart and soul, forever and ever and ever. You are the best "thing" that ever happened to me, right up there with meeting and marrying your daddy.

Have a great day in Heaven, with all of your friends and family, new and old.

I LOVE YOU, TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
LoveMyMickey
I Still Love You, Trevor
I Love You Now,
And I Will Love You,
Forever. wub.gif


Auntie LoveMyMickey XOXO
Bobbie


Dear Trevor, the love of my life,

How could I possibly not love you for even one second??? IMPOSSIBLE!!!


I LOVE YOU, TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
Gretta's Mom
Mr Trevor

Could you help me with something? Tell your mommie how sorry I am that I was so short with her on the phone last night. And .... please ask Gretta to send down some of heer infinite patience and understanding - her mom REALLY needs it.

Thanks, nephew

Auntie Jeannie
Bobbie
Hello my sweet, sweet boy!

I have missed you all day today and wished very hard that I could be with you. But I know in my heart of hearts that I must wait until our times are right. You are the sunshile of my life and that is why I'll always love you! You had that effect on only special persons, too. Those that don't have the perfect qualitites to love and accept totally had no idea what greatness lay right underneath your surface. Only by relieving your pain and removing all things scarey did your incredible love, patience and acceptance shine forth. And we were the lucky recipients of that - every day. And, Even though we knew it, I was still shocked at the finality of it's earthly end.

Oh, Trevor, you are such a dream come true! I WILL love you forever and a day. I look forward to every day that I can at least think of you and remember so many wonderful things. Thank you.

Have a restful night, OK? How's about a little slumber party with Gretta and Mickey and Hermy, Silas and any other pals you'd like?

I LOVE YOU, TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
My Doxie and Me
Wishing Well this photo represents Hope and thoughts of Well Being
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When are strength starts to fade and Hope falls by are side we look within are
Hearts to find are love that are friends have given us with Memories that let us Heal...
Hold your Trevors words that only you can Hear for he speaks only to you as i know
what you have writen that may be lost comes from the Heart and can always be found
Your friend will Guide you intime of need as you walk by his side he smiles for a friend..
His Teachings will be your Guide in your Own journey as Strength and Hope Become
Sunshine for your friend smiles down on you...

As i sit at my window and the sun will dance with the waters as shadows rain from the trees
A song bird stands on my window sill and begins to sing a beautiful song as i watch this little fellow
He sings with all he has..I wonder what he is trying to say as a thought comes to mind in time...


I move with the stars before the Night becomes Morning Light i walk to my Friends special Tree
Where i kneel and Words are spoken i say my peace as i lay my friend to sleep... I stand and bring
Gifts to life that surrounds me The Squirrels must be fed so the Bird feeder can bring great songs of Hope...
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Bobbie you have your own Song bird this one Sings as all can hear and has so much love and concern for your well being
Open your window look close and listen let the love fill your Heart for this Song bird only Sing for you...

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Your Doxie friend...
Gretta's Mom
Hi Trevor and Bobbie

Just sticking my toe back in a little to say I Love You to my sister and nephew.

XOXO Auntie Jeannie
Bobbie
Dear, Dear Trevor, my love!

It keeps happening! The mini-miracles shower us with love and hope! What better combination is there?

The gift-poem is very powerful and peace filled at the same time. And I love birdie songs!!! You didn't know this, Trevor, but I grew up with canaries and even had two of my own when I first moved out here. I wallowed in their singing, especially when the vacuum cleaner was running or I was talking on the phone! Many times I couldn't hear the person on the other end of the phone as the singing was so intense. I'd call them back.

Trevor, it's because of your ongoing love and patience that I think Auntie Jeannie wrote to you. You have always been incredibly trustworthy and never went back on your "word". Only in the beginning, when mommy didn't have a clue what was going on inside of you, did you have to be firm and even to-the-point with me (including trying to bite me and giving me the most hateful looks I'd ever seen from a dog). Again, once we figured out what was really going on, everything made sense and life settled into a loving, caring, trusting pattern. Wasn't it so nice then?

Trevor, I must try harder to learn your Life Lessons as they will help me immensely in the hospital and with my recovery. Believe me, I'm going to have them posted everywhere I look, including in my room where OTHERS can see them and read them! Our kitchen is starting to look like, hmmmm, I don't know what, because I have taped up so many wonderful sayings and phrases about good doggies and even a couple about not-very-good people. I do this because I have such a tiny short-term memory (problem). You know: out-of-sight-out-of-mind (in more ways than one). I should put your Lessons at my bedside so when I cannot sleep at night and the boogie-man thoughts come creeping by, I can hold tightly to your list and read,read, read them over and over again! I'm going to put them there right now!

I LOVE YOU, TREVOR! with everything I have now and all that I will have in the future (except a bit less colon) wub.gif
XOmommyXO
Gretta's Mom
Trevor
Your mom's right. I don't have words right now, only tears. But I just couldn't let so many days go by without telling you how muchh I love you. (And your mom and dad).

Auntie Jeannie
Bobbie

My darling Trevor,

Mommy was always there for you down here on earth and I thank you forever for always being there for me up in Heaven!!!!!!


I LOVE YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH, TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
Gretta's Mom
Hi Trevor-dog

I love you - your little face brightens every day. Thanks for working so hard for your mommie.

XXOXOOOXOXOOXX
Gretta and Rufus's mom
My Doxie and Me
To a Beautiful heart as words are weaved i wonder why they do not speak more but i thank you...

The Love you have for jen pours from your heart and shapes words that bring meaning and feeling to life
Life that once was and still continues now into Eternity...Thank you Seems your Catholic school girl ways
can speak in Harmony after all;)

One other has spoken words from the heart<Lee Jay> so i thank you both...Now for that Song Bird;)

It seems two Hearts walk the same path one with Great vocal concerns about all and a very special friend as i recall
Grettas mom sings the loudest for her friends...As how i have become to know Gretta as i write...My path started with
Lee jay touching words of Understanding as a hand picks me up from my own Grief I thank you so much i was truly lost...

Then i hear Songs of great will and power for this friend would not go untold and i listen very close and Gretta touched my heart
as all the love was given to My Hero the great Mr. Rufus as i find myself telling a story as i see from within my Heart as i just may
bring peace. My friend has taught me to look close at a singlle moment intime and bring meaning so much could be lost as i share this
with LS and Friends yes i have found dear caring friends on this site and i have strength once more to tell stories of the Great Warriors
that walk....And i smile for my friend sits by my side;)

I find myself running from my own grief as i have spoken for a friend that walks by my side in the shadows of the light
as snow falls without my friend as my shadow stands alone.... So easy to miss the meaning of words when there not
your own... So i ask others to see through your friends eyes and what they see in a day with a special friend in a park in a ...

So Bobbie i would like to say this i wish i had a song bird that will sing to me hold my thoughts and give me strength as we take flight...
so i might speak again Jeanne your heart may pale in comparison to your Voice as sometimes a friend just needs you to listen in a difficult time...
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This is the line i may have crossed i just wish to sit with my friend and watch the sun set so a storie can be told that will
not steal my breath...
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Bobbie and my dear friend Trevor i wish i had more words sometimes you need to open your Heart...
Can you Hear the Song Birds this one only sings for you.


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Bobbie
Dear Trevor,

WE have been invited to listen to our very own Song Bird by a very special friend! Let's do it! Even though Fall is approaching and many birdies are taking flight to warmer places, I really admire those that say behind and brave cold, hunger, lack of water and or shelter. They keep hopping around, ever so hopeful and just sure that their next meal is just around the corner. Actually, I tell as many as I can to go to Mr. Ralph's house - he has many, many feeders for all the animals and, warm running water in the winter and plenty of shelter for all.

I didn't write this weekend as I was very busy, thus extremely tired. But I am glad that I could visit Uncle Mark because he is so very sick. I showed him that he and I are together on the same bracelet that a good friend sent to me and he was amazed! I tried to give it to him, but he's a guy......... Then, Olivia and Ben......Miss Tornado and little hugger bugger! Grandchildren are wonderful!

I hope you had a great weekend with all your friends! You make them so easily and they are friends forever. Gretta (a relative), Hermy, Mickey, Silas, Tucker, Gino, Gina. Peanut, Muppie......the list goes on and on. I wish you could, once again, teach me how to do that. I used to be very good at that, but everything got taken from mommy with very little, if anything, returned. I ran out........ except for the real friends on LS. Sharing my current illness challenge has brought some of them back, but most are filled with words only. Nothing behind the cliche phrases. Can't even get a religious man to meet with me! Is that a great lesson of it's own? I never thought of it that way, until just now. O, Trevor, you are one clever boy! Of course, you always were. Even in your worst hours you knew how to get to mommy and tell her what was going on.

I love you, my Trevor Forever! I just can't say it enough. But I get many times during each day and try to take advantage of as many as possible. You do know that when I tell Dreamer and Kelley that I love them, you are included in that LOVE, too.

Have a beautiful day, honey. I will check in with you later today, OK?

I LOVE YOU, TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
Gretta's Mom
Hi Trevor-forever

I love you ... forever. Words are few but thoughts and prayers are many. Have a heavenly day! And ..... send down some rays to your mom, OK?

Aunt Jeannie
Bobbie
Dearest Trevor,

I miss you so badly right now that I don't know quite what to do. Should I cry? That won't bring you back. Should I scream? Wake the neighbors and scare daddy. I try to bring a picture of you to mind, but only get snippets of your incredibly soft, soft hair, so curly and so clean. I cannot see your face, but can get a glimpse of your paw - always in my hand. We held onto each other through thick and thin. The two people we knew we could trust were each other. that's it.

Trevor, I have to have a test tomorrow afternoon that will tell the doctor (and me) if there is more cancer in my body than we thought. It is a long and arduous (physically challenging) test and I am nowhere near certain that the results will be negative. Not too much, in my body, has been positive lately and I have no reason to think this will be, either. Mommy is scared, really scared. And, right now, YOU are the only place I can go to feel safe at all. I don't know how to explain it to other people, but I know deep in my heart that you understand completely for you have been in the same spot. That is why I can share all of this with you - even at the expense of others not understanding why or how. It just is. I just wish to God that I could find your little bundle of hair so that I could touch it briefly and gather strength from you. Even my locket is all tangled up and has to go to a jewelry store to be fixed, so I have NO part of you right with me all the time. I must sound like a huge cry baby, even a scaredy cat, especially for my age. But, again, It just is. I can ask you to send me some courage and love, but you already do that all the time. And I don't feel I should ask for more yet. I know there will be times down the road when I will need you and all your friends and brothers (& cousin) to send strength, courage, fortitude, etc. down this way.

For now, my sweet, sweet boy, just know that I love you with every fiber of my being, every beat of my heart and every breath that I take. Listen to the Bird's song tonight, for me, while I try to sleep. Then you can sing it to me in the morning. What I wouldn't give to be able to hug you one more time, my precious one. But, again, not if it meant you would be in even one second's worth of pain. Let mommy take that pain right now, that sorrow that pierces her heart. For I know that, one day, we will be together forever and ever. What joy that will be! For you and me and daddy and all your brothers and cousins and friends......................................

I LOVE YOU, MY TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
LoveMyMickey
Hi Sweet Trevor, wub.gif

I want to say I still love you and I'm remembering you and Mickey today, the 22nd.

Here is an Angel of Peace, Love, and Understanding I want you and I to send your mommy. We're sending lots of prayers too.

Love you all!

LoveMyMickey

Gretta's Mom
Hello Trevor Forever

Have your mom show you the picture of the Bobbie protectors (that's you mom's name, in case you didn't know). We will all make it through this dark place and again come into the light. You are the promise.

Aunt Jeanne
Bobbie

Dearest Trevor,

Please thank Auntie LoveMyMickey for the beautiful angel of Love. She will definitely help. And thank Auntie Jeannie for her bobbie Protectors.

Right now I know exactly how you felt when left alone or when waking up during the night in pain before waking me up. I'm so sorry that you ever had to go through that. Please forgive your mom, OK?

I LOVE YOU, MY TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
Gretta's Mom
Hi Trevor

Time to get your Musketeer suit on and start slinging your sword around! The big sadness has hit your mom and WE'RE not going to let it get her, are we? Whoosh - atta boy, cut that sadness in tiny pieces. Whoa ... look at all those heavenly doggies and bunnies and all kinds of other animals up there with you who suddently have swords ... oh ... and look at those Boxers with those boxing gloves on their paws. We're marching, Animal Army, we're marching!

XOXO Aunt Jeannie and Rufus XOXO
moon_beam
Hi, Bobbie, stopping by to say hello and to get caught up on all your beautiful love letters to your beloved Trevor. I am wondering how your test went yesterday and if you have the results back. I am so sorry, Bobbie, that you are having to go through this medical crisis. Please know you are frequently in my thoughts and prayers every day, my friend, and that I am here for you, with you, and beside you through every step of your journey - - offering my support along with your beloved Trevor.

I hope today is treating you kindly, and that you will have a very peaceful evening blessed with your beloved Trevor's sweet Living Spirit to comfort you. Thank you for sharing your beloved Trevor with us, Bobbie.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam
Bobbie
My dearest Trevor,

Mommy is so very tired (and incredibly sad) tonight. But NEVER too tired to love you completely and miss you like crazy. You are the BEST!


I LOVE YOU, MY TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
Gretta's Mom
Aw, Trevor - get out your pink tongue and furry ears and wipe up your mom's tears. Please!

Thanks baby,

Your Aunt Jeanne
Bobbie
Good Morning, Trevor!

Today is a better day, honey. The sun is shining and the A/C is on! I slept pretty well, too. THANKS for all your kisses and your LIFE LESSONS! Without them I would be lost right now.

Have a GREAT day in Heaven and say HI! to St. Francis, OK?

I LOVE YOU, MY TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
LoveMyMickey
Hi Sweet Trevor,

Just stopping by to send some love to you and your mommy.... wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif

LoveMyMickey
My Doxie and Me
Hi Bobbie and Mr. Trevor my thoughts have been with you and wishing well.


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i have come across a few poems Flowers in mind Thinking of you Bobbie
and always Mr.Trevor

I Miss Your Presence <Poem from Only Buddy>Modified

I miss your presence around me

With so many people i feel alone

I miss your touch, the touch of a beautiful Heart

I miss every moment when you hold me tight and Whisper in my ear,

I miss when i hold you in the night so you can see the stars so bright

I am like a flower without sun

I drink the water that brings life

I am the morning lights that kiss your hand,

I ....




A Precious Poem for a Precious Person<Poem from Only Buddy>Modified

Now that i am missing you

I can write you letters...

telling you how much i feel for you

Now that i am missing you,

Every letter detail in life

Reminds me of you as you would do

Now that i am missing you,

I watch the sun set with hearts as one

Knowing you will see my love for you

Now that i am missing you,

I can dream with Tears that brings Night lights,

Now that i am missing you,

I can look forward to my Trevor all day

I paint a picture so all can see my friend that waits for me.

I will see the flowers dance in the breeze with sun light that pass by me,

I will be the pedals that touch the waters as i Kiss your hand

I will forever miss you my friend...

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This Flower kisses the water so life can Heal intime of need to watch over the ones without speech...


Forgive me for my thoughts Bobbie what a Beautiful Heart Mr. Trevor has given to you...The reflection in the picture
Inprints it's beauty of time for a friend as true beauty shines from within how lucky is Mr.Trevor as such a Beautiful Heart
That Honors him...As Morning light shines with a friend As he Kisses your Hand for he will watch over you as each passing
day brings strength so you can heal.
Bobbie
Hello my sweet, sweet boy,

I'll write a lot more later, but for now have a question that I know you will have a right answer for me. Here it goes: "When do I get to cry for myself? Or is that being far too selfish?"

Let me know whenever you want to my love! You know you are my hero!

I LOVE YOU, TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
Gretta's Mom
Mom

I channeled my answer through Aunt Jeannie (not always the MOST reliable conduit but any port in a storm). You get to cry for yourself ANY TIME, ALL THE TIME - and please start it NOW. I can feel all the tears damming up in your heart and I don't want them to drown you when the dam breaks. Hear me?

I love you, mommy. Always have, always will.

Your boy,

Trevor
My Doxie and Me
Hi Bobbie your Doxie Friend....


Poem Not Written by myself someone with true talent.. Modified;

On The Wings of Hope <Butterfly Poems and Release Reading>
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As ancient Legend goes;

If anyone desires a wish to come true,
they must capture a butterfly and whisper
that a wish to come true.
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Since a butterfly makes no sound,
They can't tell a wish to anyone but the Great Spirit.

Althought this legend implies that we should keep our wishes silent
There are some wishes that need to be expressed for all to see.

To those that have been touched by Illness we are but Angels Wings beneath your feet...
We wish the caregivers strength and tranquility, and thank them for the gift of Love that holds are Hearts
So we may be...To walk with are friends on a Beach with waters that seem to wash passed are feet;

We wish the survivors a long and happy life,
and thank them for showing us how to fight with courage and determination
A will to fight as are friends sit by are side they tell stories of a Beautiful Human that Sings in the Morning light..

We wish those in battle fighting for life sending Energy and Hope and great strength of Angels might..
as all thank them for showing us true bravery in a time where we Kneel with Angels that whisper words of
great Delight when wings brush the ground to hide are Fallen Light...


And finally, we wish for waters that splash are feet as we stand in the sands of time that bring are friends back as light will shine how much love
that we have captured for all to see that have touched are hearts and as we look back we see are own foot prints in the sands of time.. as are friends
shines down in Memorie we Honor the fallen with great words of life...

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LoveMyMickey
My Dear Mommy,

Here is a little poem for you that Auntie LoveMyMickey found:


In Time of Sadness

As the rain falls
So do my tears.
My heart is full of sadness.
As the rain drops, may my tears find
Their way to the sea,
And let this sadness
Pass from me.
Blessed be.


"I LOVE YOU MOMMY!"

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Bobbie
Dear Trevor,

I am truly blessed beyond what I deserve! First, you were in my daily life, teaching me all sorts of lessons about unconditional love and devotion. When we sent you to the Lord, so that you wouldn't have any more pain, you gave to me, over time, some of the most wonderful friends in my life! And I've only met one of them (I would hope so, she's my sister!). The others that have stayed by my side, through thick and thin are three miracles and their dogs (past and present).

Thank you for helping me ask the question. And God bless each of you who gave me the perfect answer(s)!

Going to sleep for the night, my LOVE! Yes, Trevor, you ARE the BEST!

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XOmommyXO
Gretta's Mom
Yay, Trevor. Yay Bobbie, Yay for true friends with caring, loving hearts - just like you, Trevor, baby.
Bobbie
Dearest Trevor and your dear, dear friends,

Mom has not had a good day at all. She has to see the doctor all of a sudden, tomorrow and is very scared about what the news is going to be.

Despite all that, I love you more than ever, Trevor! You showed me true courage and resiliancy (sp) and I MUST remember that tomorrow at the doctor's. Actually I prefer vets, but they won't take my insurance! laugh.gif

I love and am deeply indebted to you friends - you know who you are.

I LOVE YOU, MY TREVOR! wub.gif
XOmommyXO
Gretta's Mom
Dear Mr Trevor

Got another assignment for you .... go find a big, friendly lion by the name of the "Cowardly Lion." He's a guy who got his courage and strngth back while on earth here. he has a magic helmet that can send strength and courage to people and animals here on earth. (Hekmet is a hat.) It looks like an upside-down bowl and has two springy things coming out of the top that look like horns (like those things on the goats you see up there in the Perfect World). On the ends of those springy horns are two little red balls. These are the thing the Cowardly Lion uses to send strength and courage to earth here. Ask Mr Lion to send as much courage and strength to you mo as he can because she REALLY needs it today. I know it's a big job, but I'll set up a message for Mr lion to look for you.

Thank you so much for all you've done for your mom just by being you. Your love for her is the most important thing that's giving her strength right now.

Thank you Mr. Always-There and Always-Loving Trevor.

Your Aunt Jeanne
LoveMyMickey
Aunt Jeanne...Thank you! I found the "Cowardly Lion"!....It took awhile and I really needed courage to wake him up, but all is well.

My Dear Sweet Mommy.....The Cowardly Lion is sending you all the courage and strength that he can find. Best of all Cowardly Lion gave me a medal to send to you for all the courage and strength you have shown during this sad time.

I LOVE YOU MOMMY and I know we will never ever forget each other. wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif

Your Little Son,
Trevor-Forever

My Doxie and Me
Sending Strength and Hope for a friend...

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As you release this Butterfly in Honor of me,
Know that i;m with you and will always be.

Hold a hand, say a prayer,
close your eyes and see me there.

Although you may feel a bit Torn apart,
please know that i'll be forever in your heart.

Now fly away butterfly as high as you can go,
I'm right there with you more then you know.

By Jill Haley
Bobbie
Oh Trevor!

Mommy is simply overwhelmed at the love flowing our direction and the amazing intensity of it all! I am at a loss for words to adequately say THANK YOU, so I just sit and drink it all in, over and over again, each word at a time!

Mommy's news today was not good at all. It makes me sad, scared, mad and determined all at the same time. I know you know how that feels. Mommy has a cancer inside of her and it is in more places than the doctors first thought. Now, mommy has to take lots of medicines for 3 months before she can have her operation and then she will need more medicines afterwards. The odds are lousy (kind of like yours were), but daddy and I are determined to fight this health battle together with you and all our amazing friends here at LS and every one of YOUR friends in Heaven, and WIN!!!!!!!

Meanwhile, I will never stop telling your story, singing your praises and teaching your Life Lessons. Now I know why God kept us apart until it was the "right" time! You were/are my teacher and example to follow and I'd best get a move on and do just that!

Please give my LOVE to every one of your firends, buddies and relatives in Heaven. As I say a humble Thank You to their people here on earth!

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XOmommyXO
My Doxie and Me

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Trevor

I'm not sure exactly what this is but it sure looks like a weapon to use against your mom's evil disease. Thank you for all you bring to the world, Mr Trevor-Forever.

Aunt Jeannie
Bobbie
Hello, Sweetheart!

I hope you had a really good day today. Actually I hope that for you every day! And why not? First, you are in the Perfect World and second, you certainly deserve even better things after all you suffered here on earth. And you were a happy dog, even as the end drew near and that become an almost impossible task. Even in your pain and fright you exuded a confidence that, between you and me, we'd get the job done right (e.g. getting down those awful stairs in the morning). THAT is when I began to truly understand what patience is all about, and am in the midst of forgetting that lesson when dealing with he huge medical institution I have stuck myself in, in hopes of receiving the best treatment(s).

Mommy cried a lot today, for the first time in a long time. I was crying for me and also wishing I had your soft fur next to me to ease the neuropathy pain. I know exactly what my limits are in reaching out to you (BTW - thanks for the white butterfly today!) so I did content myself with remembering what a comforting experience it always was when I would touch and caress your fur.

Waiting is frustrating, reading is terrifying, not being able to reach my doctor is awful and I'm not used to any of that, so I grab your Life Lessons and try to remember specific examples of why each one is a Life Lesson. It's not hard to do. Having your collage in the living room where I spend most of my day, is a tremendous help, too. I can see you when you were happy and content which brings a measure of peace to my heart.

You know, Trevor, your mommy is a mess right now. I don't know what the "right" things (that will help me) are and I worry that my grief (although temporary) will hurt my chances. But I hold you in front of me as the shining example of what CAN be done when love is involved. And I get so much courage from your friends' mommies and daddys. Did you see the Knight and all that protective armour? I'm going to have to put that on from time to time to be even half as tough as you are! Thank you Mr. Doxie! And the poems from Mr. Doxie and LoveMyMickey are so soothing! I'm going to owe a lot back when I recover!

Well, mommy is really tired so I'm going to say Good Night, my love! Have beautiful dreams and so will I!

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XOmommyXO
Gretta's Mom
Trevor

You little Angel you! You just keep on giving and giving and giving. How can we ever thank you enough?

Aunt jeannie
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