I Miss My Puck Options

[Westiesam/Sharon]

Hi Pucksmom
I and most everyone else here can relate to those bad days and that panicked feeling that crops up all the time at first. I have to say that today it's been 6 weeks and things are getting a bit better. When I get that panicked feeling - I try not to dwell on Sammy right then. It's not always easy. It's still sad when I come home and the pet beds are gone and there are no little feet pounding after me all through.t the house. I watched an episode of Pet Psychic the other night -- the psychic told this lady who lost her dog that the dog was happy and even though it got accidently run over that it was it's time and that the dog still remembered her and loved her, but wanted her to be happy and wanted her to move on. I guess I feel that if this ladies dog wanted her to be happy and move on - then that's probably what Sammy wants for me and what Puck wants for you too. So I try to think of that now when I feel like I'm going to freak out about her being gone forever. I don't know if Pet Psychic's are real or not -- but right now I choose to believe that they are.
I also can relate to how people think you should be over it in a short time -- that doesn't always happen - and that's why we can consider ourselves lucky that we found this forum -- no one will tell us to get over it here -- we can come and cry and scream and shout whenever we feel the need.
I'm sending you blessings that you can slowly find peace with Puck's passing.
Take care of yourself.
Sharon

[smokey/lady/max]

Hi Mommy,

I will always love you, and will always be in your heart

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Your little Puck
xoxoxo

I hope this brings a smile to your face and a little peace in your Heart
Anna
Cyber hugs
xo

[sissycat]

So many of us here go through the family thinking we should be over it!!!! No one can tell you how long to grieve!!!!!
We all go at our own pace and we also have bad days.

Come here often.
HUgs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[PucksMom]

My sweetest Puck- I missed you so much today. This morning as i woke up, I bumped the little box that holds your collar and your favorite mousie, and the little bell jingled, and I looked around, expecting to see you jumping onto the bed to pester me about your breakfast. I haven't been able to stop thinking about you ever since.
the new kitty is doing well, almost acting like a tame kitty. he loves having his belly tickled the way you used to, and has a squeaky little voice too. Batman doesn't think he's too bad for a stinky old tomcat, though he is a long way from curling up with him in the chair for naps the way he loved to do with you.
I love you so so much little boy.
Love,
Your Momma.

Thank you for the pic Anna. a whole bunch of little flickering hearts is what that picture makes me feel.

[PucksMom]

Two weeks ago today I lost you. I have so so many things that I regret.... That I didn't look harder for your little red toy mousie. I found it under the ottoman yesterday when I was vacuuming. You loved that little mousie. And I'm sorry that I didn't leave your first christmas tree up longer. You and batman kept me up all night several times ransacking it, and so I took it down pretty quickly. I wish I had left it up for you.
And I'm sorry that towards the end I started calling you Tinkerbell because your new collar was green and shiny and jingled when you moved....
But most of all, I just regret not cherishing out time together more. I thought we would have so many happy years.

[PucksMom]

Puck- I lost you just over three weeks ago. You keep sending me signs that you're ok, that you're still with me, I still really wish you were here.

Your friend Steve will be joining you soon. He's very sick now, but I know he'll be glad to see you when he gets to the rainbow bridge- he loved sleeping curled up on the crate with you and batman.

[PucksMom]

Hi Puck- today marked one month with you missing from my life.
Batman is doing well. He likes Clark lots and two nights ago he even let Clark cuddle up and nap with him. Clark is a very very nice kitty, but he definitely doesn't replace you. You would never have tried to sharpen your little toes on the sole of my foot the way Clark did yesterday.
Yesterday poor Steve went to the rainbow bridge. Please show him around up there and take care of him.
Momma loves you baby boy.
*tickles and raspberries but most of all, really big hugs*

[PucksMom]

Yesterday was three months. Miss you so much, it hurts to breathe.

[ladywolf]

Yesterday was three months. Miss you so much, it hurts to breathe.

Hi, Puck'sMom--

I'm so glad to hear from you, but not glad to hear that you are still hurting so much. This grieving process is a long and painful one, isn't it? I wish I knew some magic ways to speed it up, but I don't think there are any. Just be gentle with yourself and don't expect yourself to be over it yet.

It IS good to hear from you!

Hugs from Margi and Ladywolf

[PucksMom]

Thank you Margi... I've had pets I've lost before, but never has the loss of one stayed with me for so long... they've always lived a good, long life or had some knownlong term that just wasn't fixable, and so the loss was sad, but never so hard to take.
I hate saturdays now, and I tear up every time I drive past the vet's office. I can still see him in my mind, but I don't feel him here with me anymore.
He was my little four legged child, I was more connected to him than to any of my human family, and I grieve his loss as such.