Missing Daisy, Happiness instead of grief Options

[Daisy's Mommy]

Daisy passed away on April 1 of this year. I miss her terribly, think of her everyday, and feel like crying every night when she is not beside me in bed. Cleo, my parents poodle, is with me now for awhlle, but it is not the same thing at all.

I wish I could remember Daisy with happiness instead of grief. Will this ever happen?


Daisy's Mommy

[RIT & Cleo]

I am sorry to hear you are still feeling so sad....all I can offer is that I do have to focus and think of the happy memories. I write a gratitude journal every day - 5 little or big things I am grateful for. I am grateful to have had my buddy Cleo for 18 yrs. That makes me happy.

[Shortrish]

Daisy's Mommy - I am sorry you're so sad. I unfortunately share your sadness. Today is the fifth week we have been without our Scooter. I'm feeling so sick to my stomach today. I am trying to do better, but think I've gone back to that depression stage. I talked to Scooter yesterday. I hadn't seen seen any signs lately from him. So many here have had such vivid signs from their pets, and dreams too. I've had small signs, but I've needed to desperately have one of those in your face signs. Sometimes, I can swear I smell his scent (the one of his urine in the litter box). It was strong on some days. Maybe this is a sign, I don't know. Just know, you are not alone, and I share your pain.
I'm supposed to go to an early birthday celebration for me today. My birthday is next week. I really don't feel like going, but I will. I just want to be home, and I really don't feel great anyway, but am stuck going.
I've been so busy, I've forgotten about the journal that was suggested.
Having a new furbaby has taken up a lot of my time. He gets into all kinds of trouble. He really needs watching.
Our 3 other cats are still hissing at him, but it has not even been a week yet. And, cats do things in their own time.
Marcel has his first vet appointment on Tuesday. I'm hoping he's just a normal health kitty.
You are not alone.
Scooter's Mommy

[heisser33]

You will start to experience happiness. Just one day sit down or stand and just totally open yourself up to all your surroundings. You will feel Daisy and you will know that she is right there with you and always has been. She absolutely can't wait until you are with her in Heaven. When you finally leave this earth, you will be able to hold and hug her for all of eternity. I know it hard because I like you want her with me now and all of the time. Trust me, Daisy will be with you again, guaranteed.

Kevin