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Kristie
post Dec 20 2004, 04:09 PM
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Hi everyone,

I have been on the board many times over the last few weeks but I've been feeling so bad....I haven't been able to post for some reason. I have a new baby (new-ish now) who has had terrible colic for the last three months and who is now teething. He literally hasn't stopped crying since he was born and in the middle of all that new stress we put Kasha down. I've posted about her many times in the past but I don't think I have even begun my journey through grief yet......it's just really hitting me now. I'm mentally exausted (physically too) with my little one crying all of the time and I haven't had the chance to sit and grieve for my little furbaby......it's like I put it off for two months and now it's all hitting me at once.

I am so sad.....I miss her terribly. I keep thinking that I see her in every corner...I keep looking outside for her when I walk past the back door. My other cats are still miserable also...LeStat still won't come out. He sits on my bed 24 hours a day and cries for his sister every night.

I don't know what to do with myself. I can't even get out of the house....I'm stuck here, I'm miserable, and I have no one to talk to about all of this.

I feel like I don't really deserve it because I've been so selfish...not posting, not helping anyone else here for the last few weeks...but I need some support.

Kristie sad.gif
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BabyHannahsMom
post Dec 20 2004, 06:37 PM
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Gee, Kristie -- You're not selfish at all. You've really got your hands full. I wish there were something I could do to help you. Please don't worry about not being here lately or about not responding to the other posts. We all know what it feels like to just be unable to "talk" sometimes, and I guess most of us have also felt guilty about that too! But there's really no reason to. You've always got shoulders here to cry on, okay?

I know you miss Kasha so much and I'm so sad to hear that LeStat still misses her so much that he cries too. That breaks my heart.

Please try to take care of yourself. Keep coming here. You're in my thoughts.
Marcia
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