Missing Lexa Options

[Axel&Lexa Mommy]

Tomorrow will be a week since we lost our beloved Lexa. I am so lost without her. I just can't beleive she is gone, I keep thinking this isn't real.


We only had Lexa for 6 years it was to soon to lose her, my life will never be the same.

[moon_beam]

Hi, Michelle, it is hard going through the routines only to know that there's a HUGE part of those routines physically missing. It does seem like even the structure of our home - - be it an apartment, a single dwelling home, a hut, a tent, - - or whatever - - mourns the loss of the physical presence of our furkids. Scientific studies have shown that all living creatures have an "energy" that becomes a part of the "whole" of the home or group. When any of that "energy" is lost - - for whatever reason - - the remaining home or group members go through a re-structuring of the group. And when the energy is missing because of a death, that makes the re-structuring very painful - - both physically and emotionally.

Michelle, this adjustment time is a one day at a time journey, and this journey is sometimes so unpredictable. Each day seems to have its own agenda for awhile which leaves us feeling like we have little or no control over what happens or how we're feeling from one minute to the next. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, Michelle, and please let us know how you're doing.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam