I Lost My Best Friend Bun-bun.. Options

[george]

A few days ago we returned home after a few days to fine our family pet cat Bun-Bun having trouble breathing, we took her to the vet and quickly he said to put her down because of heart and lung problems. This pet was a family member for 17 yrs, a witness to the growth and development of our family, a family member who was alway there, always gave love alway sat quiet aside as we went on our daily duty's but was always there. I sweet face cat with a heart of gold. She touched our family so deeply and as left a hole in our lives. We regret doing what we did, maybe there was another way, maybe it was her time, maybe it did not have to happen. The entire family has been crying for 4 days, none of us can eat or sleep, or work, or go to school or work. We cant get over this. Maybe we made a mistake. I cant forgive myself for doing this to a family member. This was not our first pet or have we not been threw this type of thing before, it just happen so fast that I regret not giving it more time to develop. Our other pets all crying as much as the people in the family are. I cant bare to think of this as a mistake. I have tried to seek help for grief counseling but have not been able to find any.I am so pissed off at the vet and myself for jumping the gun. I don't know what to do..I failed my family. SOB why wasn't I given more time to think about this. Why can I have that day to do over ?

[sissycat]

No way is she alone. She has all the other pets at the Rainbow Bridge and she still has you. Just because her body is not there doesn't mean she isn't there. She is always with you.
I am glad you have found this site too. If any of us can help even the least little bit it gives us all some comfort cause most of us have been exactly where you are now.

Who knows maybe you will receive a sign from her when you least expect it.

Hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!

[george]

No way is she alone. She has all the other pets at the Rainbow Bridge and she still has you. Just because her body is not there doesn't mean she isn't there. She is always with you.
I am glad you have found this site too. If any of us can help even the least little bit it gives us all some comfort cause most of us have been exactly where you are now.

Who knows maybe you will receive a sign from her when you least expect it.

Hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Thank you. I hope so. Your kind words help me tremendously. It's hard to regain one sense of being, now that part of our family is gone. I hope it gets better with time. Bun-Bun was a loving member of our life's. I see others say the problems they had with loosing there loved ones and I suppose I will gain enough composer to move on but a hole is in all of our hearts with out our beloved Bun-Bun. she never hurt a soul, she was so sweet. I love her with the same love I have for any member of the family. A piece of me me died that day, I cant and will not ever forget the look in her trusting eyes. I love her. I miss her. Thank you for your help. I hope peace finds you as well. Bless you