Now This Is A Sign!, (from my Little Nis') Options

[Furkidlets' Mom]

My grief has been simply terrible of late and with still fretting over the lack of signs from my gal, and both Sabin's and Nissa's birthday coming up on the 20th (and woulda been both of their 20th years), followed rapidly by the fifth month of Nissa's departure on the 23rd of this month as well.....my heart has been even more broken than ever before.

BUT....yesterday was a day of sudden 'reprieves'.....unbelievable, yet totally believable as well! While I've been avoiding music as much as possible since Nissa's been gone, my H happened to have our computer playing some in late afternoon. Since I was about to leave the room anyway, I didn't ask him to turn it off for my sake. But before I left, I asked my H to join me in asking Nissa to send me a message because of where I was going later on (see below), and he agreed to do so. Before I knew it, the song "The Year of the Cat" came on.....and THEN I ran for the stairs to get away. Yet, when I got upstairs, my inner voice told me to turn on my radio up there.....just in case there was a message to be had from my girl (considering the song I'd just run away from). So I did, and was tuning it away from the talk show that was on when I heard this snippet from this other talk show....about spiritual stuff....and the value of getting quiet in order to find God more easily. No sooner than they'd started yakking about this concept, the guest speaker mentioned that, related to this aspect, he'd done some reading about someone else's ideas about this....a certain someone named....Greg of Nissa!!!!!!! Now I don't know who in the heck this Greg guy is, and frankly, I doubt it matters a whit.....but his NAME, which I clearly heard (even if it's spelled differently, that's how it sounded).....well, come ON!....not only the Nissa part, but the entire t*itle is only ONE letter short of one of our humourous variations on Nissa's name.....Nissa The Grey!!! ....or Grey of Nissa!! Well!.....how much more obscure can you get?!?!? I NEVER hear her name.....anywhere! And yet here it was, right in front of me, right after I'd listened to my inner voice. Not only that, but I've been intuiting of late that, in order to make contact with her, I felt I would have to return to practising getting quiet....the very topic that had preceded this.

And the messages didn't stop there, either. I'd gone upstairs for the express purpose of getting ready to attend my first service ever at a Spiritualist church in the city. It was to be a "Messages Only" service, the first since the holidays, and I asked my girl to BE there with me and to try and come through again. Well, not knowing what to expect really, I was first struck by the harpist/soloist's choice of songs for the evening, which was about a couple taking pleasure in the small joys of life...and the woman having their CAT on her lap as they all relaxed together. Then, out of a group of about 30-odd people...I got a reading! Not only was it bang-on about my cir%%stances and how I've been feeling...but mention was made of a major loss, the inner strength I really do have inside, AND that my loved ones are busy sending me strength all the time!! There was more, all accurate, but this, to me, was the highlight. MY GIRL WAS THERE.....4 times in one day, bang, bang, bang, bang!

Oh, my Galski.....thankyouthankyouthankyouthankyouTHANKYOU!!!!! You ARE here for me, just as you promised you'd be....always!!!! I LOOOOOOVE you, my Cuddle-Button!!!! Please help me to reach those states of quietude....so that I can FEEL you, know that I'm WITH you and you're with ME, as always, and that this will NEVER, EVER change! My girl, my Love-Dove, my Nissa The Grey of the Clan McGrey....you are a wonder among wonders and Mommy will try even harder now...now that you've given me HOPE, and your big, pink, fuzzy love...ever mine....I love you, my Niski-Pie!!!

[Furkidlets' Mom]

Paula,

Oh, dear one....I knew this thread would find you yearning all the more for a sign from Alley. I'm so sorry for that and for not being able to MAKE it happen for you, or more for myself, either! I've tried all the suggestions made here, as well as NOT trying at all, as I know that signs MOST often come when we're LEAST expecting them...that's a VERY common hallmark of them. But as to what works best, or more often....I'm in the dark, too. But I really did like that idea from Debbie of telling them what the benefits to the both of you would be....keeping that connection and bond open and growing stronger. I think that's one that's worth repeating over and over again. The other thing I'll be trying as soon as I think I can get quieter without being knocked over by the inevitable tears, is a quickie course on animal communication DVD I'd ordered from one communicator I'd used. When I feel ready enough to try it out, I'll be sure to let you know if it helps in any way.

Ugh! Those pictures!! Trust me, I KNOW how frustrating, angering and painful this is for you, having, as you already know, gone thru the same things with cherished (human) pictures on my end. It's absolutely maddening!! And I can't believe, either, that they haven't arrived yet! Is there anyone else back home who you might be able to convince to help out with getting them to you??? Or, perhaps you could try and get somewhat settled inside, then sit down, close your eyes, take a few really deep breaths, releasing as much tension in your body as possible....then visualize the pictures arriving in the mail and really FEEL the GOOD feelings you'd be having when that happened, and try your best to stay in this state, visualizing and feeling, for at least 10 minutes. I truly believe in the power of this kind of co-creation to make our world BE what we wish it to be. Do this every day, or twice a day if you can....and see if that helps you get what you need. In the meantime, I'll be praying for their safe arrival to your waiting hands.

More recently, my H had emailed that female 'friend' of ours who we know has at least one more picture of Nissa from 2 Xmases ago....and, same as you, we've heard nothing, got nothing...and I, too, can't for the life of me understand how someone could NOT respond in an appropriate way to such an emotionally-needy call to action. I'll say it again....pphhff! Humans! How could anyone truly believe that they're superior to other species when they too often act this way??! We both need a prayer-wave to change these picture problems!