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[mommytofred]

so sorry to keep writing like this, but again, it really helps me to talk. it also helps me to be able to help other people too. im sitting here talking to my boyfirend. he told me that in no way do we have to get this new puppy on the 11, but he reminded me that this puppy needs love and a good home. he even told me alot of what you all have told me, that hes notgoing to replace fred, and that my love for fred will shine in this new little guy. thats kind of putting things in perspective for me. im going to take a few days and think about it. ill let you know, again, i cant express enough how much help everyone has been here,and i can only hope that ive helped some people as they have helped me. thank you somuch and god bless.



pamela

[jane]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. As you saw from my post last week, our rescue critters really helped us. It's not that we could replace our cat, whom I still grieve for -- but they kept us busy, prevented us from thinking about ourselves all the time, and are the source of tremendous affection. the pup needs you, and you probably need it. Don't feel guilty to love another pet, you will never forget Fred.