Lost My Kitty Today Options

[Nemo's Mommy]

I am shocked and grieving, in so much pain. I took my six month old kitten in today to get neutuered. He had been diagnosed with a heart murmer. When I went in, the vet said it would be OK. They were doing a special surgery that used less anestic and was supposed to be safer. I got the call at 10:00. Nemo had two heart attacks and died. I feel so like this is my fault, because the anesthia killed him. How do I deal with this? How do I accept this? If I hadn't got him neutuered him might still be alive... please help.

[Muffins]

Dear (((((Nemo's Mommy))))):

I am so sorry to hear about Nemo ...

I believe that Rebecca & Cynthia are correct in that lil' Nemo was meant to be here on earth for 6 months. That was his plan. I sincerely feel your pain, and I know that it hurts something awful .... It is heartbreaking...

But, I know for that 6 months, you showered that lil' guy with love, hugs & kisses & treats, and in return I know that you received so much love & acceptance & joy, etc..... (so much more......)

I believe that on the day I was born, it is already known by God when I will be going back to Heaven for eternity; and, I will surely go by Rainbow's Bridge and my sweet Ernie-Bird and I (and all of my other furkids) will be together again.

It's just something that I've always believed in. Some people tell me "I don't believe that", (and, that's their prerogative), but it is what I believe and I wanted to share it with you.

You did what almost all furbaby owners do, and that is to neuter or spay your child.
That's being a responsible owner.

Please stay here with us......You will receive so much love & support from everyone here.
This is where I stayed for a long, long time - and, it is comforting to be "around" friends who really understand the sadness & any emotions that you are feeling.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.....

Love, Denise