Well, I have posted here about my boy Brutus dying. It has been 6 weeks now since the terrible tragedy. I also posted that he was going to be a daddy and I was thinking out keeping a pup....well the pups were born and only one male is left. The other 3 males unfortunately died right after birth.

I had gotten some wonderfula advice from several of you on the message board about possibly keeping a puppy of my wonderful Brutus. I am now struggling with something different..."What if the puppy doesn't look ANYTHING like my Brutus?" I wanted a puppy that has at least some of the same features as my boy. What if that doesn't happen?

Maybe the one boy that survived is a "sign" from Brutus that I AM to actually keep this little boy of his? I don't know? I am kind of rambling at the moment. Please forgive the rambling thoughts. I am very confused. He is precious though and looks dark in color as his dad.

Confused,
Thanks.

Hi, rallytally, thank you so much for letting us know how you're doing. Unfortunately only you can make the decision about adopting this little boy furchild. My mom used to say "when it doubt, wait." I know this is a difficult decision for you, since this little boy furchild is the surviving heir to your precious Brutus. The fact that you are confused is an indication that you are uncertain if you are ready to commit your heart and home to another precious companion. Adopting too soon can be a disaster for both you and your new furchild.

Rallytally, I'm sorry for not being able to be of more assistance to you. I wish you the very best in whatever decision you make about adopting this heir to your precious Brutus. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, and look forward to knowing how you're doing and how things are going with you whenever possible.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Hi Rallytally,

It is OK to be unsure about adoption. Sometimes praying or meditating can be helpful in leading us. "When the water is muddy, it is often best to sit and wait for the sediment to settle."

Please let us know how you are doing and what you decide. No one can make this decision for you.

With peace,
Juturna

I think you have to go with your heart. Try to think how you will feel if you do not adopt him and never see him again. If you are still unsure, then, it may not be the right time for you. I am getting a puppy who is from the same breeder but will not look anything like the dog I lost. I have read that it is the most fair thing for the new pet. I personally did not want a constant reminder that we had lost our Zoe. You may be different and sounds like you do want a dog who will look a lot like his daddy.

Sorry, no one can tell you what is right for you or when it will be right to have a new furchild. Just listen to your inner voice and maybe Brutus, also will tell you what to do.
Good Luck

Joanne

Thanks everyone for the input. I know for a fact that I want another puppy, I am just not sure if this one is the right one or if I should get one from someone or somewhere else.

Yes, I do want one that has at least "some" of the same physical characteristics as my boy Brutus, but definitely want it to be it's own personality. I am afraid actually, what if I can't love him like I loved Brutus? What if I raise him and I am disappointed? What if? These are questions I keep asking myself because my boy was trained EXACTLY how I wanted him. He was perfect in my eyes. I believe these questions would be in my mind no matter how much time has passed or no matter what furchild I decide to get. Brutus was the first dog that I ever had that would listen and I could let roam around and he would stay near me. So I was so attached and in love.

I have my Huskies and they are trained as well but they run away being the breed they are...they are more independent. So, keeping this furbaby is making me scared!

Is this a normal feeling??????

Hi, Rallytally, there is uncertainty in EVERY relationship, so yes, being "scared" when entering a new relationship - - in whatever form that is - - is perfectly normal.

What a puppy looks like can be totally different once they begin growing and come into their "manhood." So even adopting an heir to Brutus is no guarantee that he / she would continue to look like their father as they mature. I agree with Juturna, "When the water is muddy, it is often best to sit and wait for the sediment to settle." And Joanne, "If you are still unsure, then, it may not be the right time for you." However, the ultimate decision is up to you, Rallytally, - - no one can make this decision for you.

Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, and will look forward to knowing how things are going whenever possible.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Okay, well, the last time I was here, I was undecided about what to about keeping a puppy from my dear Brutus. I have decided that I will keep the puppy, for I have grown very close to him and believe in my heart that my Brutus has sent me his little baby to help with my grieving process.

I have learned along the way, thus far, that this will definitely be difficult, for I am nervous about the training process being done all over again with a new furbaby. Yikes!

I do have a question, since everyone here has been so supportive and helpful. Which name in your opinion, seems more unique and fitting for a Rottweiler: "Titus" or "Kratos"? I love the Greek mythology names.

All opinions are welcomed!

Thanks in advance.

Hi, rallytally, I'm so glad you now feel peace with keeping the son of your precious Brutus. Oh yes - - the journey of the infant years once again - - each day to be cherished, another lifetime of "Getting to know you, getting to know all about you, getting to like you, getting to hope you like me . . . " (A song from the musical "The King and I). May you both have a long and happy and healthy lifetime together.

As for the names, I would be partial to TItus for it's meaning is "honorable." But the choice of a name is very personal. I know you will settle on a name that will be a perfect fit for him.

Rallytally, thank you so much for sharing with us how you're doing. Perhaps sometime you will be up to posting a picture(s) of your new little fur child. Please know you and your little boy are in my thoughts and prayers.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Thank you so much moonbeam. You always have compasssionate words to offer. I wil post pictures as soon as I take come of him. He is 5 weeks old right now, so I am waiting a little longer before posting.

H Rallytally,

Just wishing you the best of luck with your new fur-child. How very special and precious that he is the son of your darling Brutus.

I'm with moon_beam -- I think Titus would be an awesome name for him.

I'm soooooo looking forward to seeing pictures of him. Puppy Rottweilers are the cutest little things.

All the best, Cheryl x