I miss my Daisy so much. I just felt that I had to say that. It is not getting better with time, and each night I feel terrible grief when I realize that I will never see her on earth again. I just want to hold and pet her again and have her greet me, wagging her tail and licking me when I come home.

I felt safer when she was here. Although she was small, she was a great protector.


I loved her so much and can only hope to see her again at the end of my days.



Daisy's Mommy

I would say it was six months before i noticed a chink in the wall of grief, we all think 'this is too much, i must be abnormal, why arent I out down the pub with my mates laughing and living again by now?'

Try looking in the mirror every night before going to be and saying

'every day in every way i am getting better and better'

an old saying but one that works, your just telling your brain its ok to start getting/feeling better now, just a little.



I know that feeling too, i spent my whole childhood absolutely petrified of the dark, cried myself to sleep for years.

Then along came my babies, i would hear a noise and look at them, if they hadnt noticed it then it obviously wasnt something to worry about.

Course when they left, they took with them my security, slept with the curtains open for weeks,but eventually it got just too much with the sunrise waking us up at 4am every morning specially seeing as i wasnt getting to sleep till 2 having been up all night crying

I faced my fears and just wouldnt allow them to control me again the way they did, id have to have someone standing over my bed bashing my head in now before id believe that someone was in the house

Be kind to yourself and allow as long as YOU need, dont judge yourself by anyone else, were all different and doesnt mean one loves their lost pets any more or any less than the other, were all just different - thank God.

I'm sorry it's been so hard. Grief is an excruciating process.

I have forgotten whether you have other furkidz... and if you do, do you "lean on" each other? Do you have other supportive people in your life? I know I couldn't have gone through Little GIrl's death alone. The agony of being physically separated from her..... there are no words to describe.

Just know that you'll be with Daisy again , and that we're here for you. Write any time!!

Sending you prayers of comfort,

Kathy