I lost my little Fox Terrier yesterday. The ache is terrible and I thought by writting about it it might help. She was all white with a black spot on her head, kind of like the RCA dog. She did everything with me. She loved to ride the lawn tractor when I cut grass. She went fishing with me. She comforted me when I was sick by lying at my side. She would greet me when I came home from work by wagging her tail and licking my hand as if to say,"Oh, I am so glad to see you". Pets never lie to you, or insult you, or do any of the nasty things that people do sometimes. I think there can be a bond with a pet that one cannot have with a person. It is one of the hard things about life that most pets live much shorter lives than we do. This is the second dog I have lost in my life and the other was just as great a pet. So, I have been blessed to have 2 great and faithful companions in my life. Life goes on! Maybe when I can smile, instead of tearing up, when I think of her, I will be ready for another little dog that is out there somewhere waiting for a master.

I am so sorry you lost your precious little girl. You are right there is nothing as wonderful as the love our babies give to us. I too have been so blessed to have been really loved by my wonderful Snookie and Chili Bean. I do hope you will be able to open your heart to another furbaby. I could never be happy without them in my life. Come and post as often as you would like. We all know to well of the pain and sorrow.
Ann

I am so sorry you lost your precious pup ~ what a dear and sweet creature ~ and so lucky you had each other ~ My heart goes out to you in your sorrow ~ And I agree they are our compass in the dark the lighthouse in the storm ~ I lost my Amber tabby after nearly 20 years on 3/28 ~ please know you are not alone ~ we are all those who have chosen to love and celebrate life with our dear cherished animal friends ~ an animal is a friend for life through "it all" ~ Take Care and Be Gentle with yourself ~ The warm memories will sift back in the golden light of your heart soon ~ Peace ~ Kathryn , Angel Ambie and C.C.

I'm so sorry you lost your sweet Tassy. I think you're right, there is something really special between us and our pets that we don't really get with our human relationships. I think it's because they love us so unconditionally and in their eyes, we never "mess up." Please tell us all about your Tassy -she sounds like such a sweetie. She will always live in your heart and memories, and even though she could never be replaced, you will one day find the same love with other special friends. We are here for you when you need us. (((Hugs))) Jenny

Thanks guys for your words. Tassy was born on 1-21-91as a full blooded Fox Terrier. Her name was Lady Royal Tassy. She was always a lady. Whenever she had to go to the bathroom she would come and tap me on the leg with her paw. We understood each others body language perfectly. When I started getting old clothes on she would get all excited as she knew I was doing something outside. She loved going for rides in my truck and going to the woods or stream. When I would come home from work she would greet me as I stated earlier and then after I changed clothes and sat down to watch the news she would stretch out in the chair next to my leg and let out this huge sigh, like everything was finally all right with her world, and go sound asleep. She never barked in the house, because she knew I didn't like it. She was good with kids and would let them pet her. Whenever we gave her a bath, she would slink into the bathroom on her belly (it was funny) ans she would obediantly endure the bath, and then after we dried her off she run around like a puppy. She was a great friend and companion and I will miss her terribly for a long time. I buried her in the woods near a game trail in a coffin I made with her favorite blanket and toys. I would like to think that her spirit could chase critters when they go by. Does anyone think there is an after life for animals? RIP Tassy

You've asked the $1,000,000 question now! This has come up in so many posts by so many people.

There are lots of websites and books on the topic. So far there's not been much scientific evidence that I've been able to find, but like UFO's, there's tons of do%%ented hearsay evidence out there.

Personally, I'm convinced there's something else for them and us. Exactly what that something is I'm not so sure. But I can't believe anything that can give such unconditional love would just blink out like an old lightbulb and be gone forever.

I've read accounts of folks that claim to have had a Near Death Experience where their pets were there waiting for them. I've also read that pet spirits are assigned to people and they keep recycling through different bodies, but still with their same person, throughout that persons mortal lifetime. And I've read that pets souls go to a special heaven separate from the one people go to. Just about any theory you want to endorse is out there. Me, I'm going with my gut, and my gut says I'll be seeing Qorqui again, and it won't be from afar.

Tim

I am sorry for your loss of Tassy. You are so right when you say you lost a friend. My dogs and I have always had that special bond that you mentioned. I also have Terriers and they are wonderful companions. It has been over 2 months since Sasha died and I still really miss her. I agree when you say there is no love like their kind of love. Once you experience it, you realize how special it really is. You can have had the worst day in the world at work, and your dogs will still be so happy to see you.

I truly hope I will see my Sasha again. I think there is a special place for them. She barked at the foot of my bed the night she visited me after her death, so I know her soul or being is still there. Other people that have posted here have also experienced "visits" from their babies.

I am sure after you give yourself time to heal that you will want to have another dog. It will not replace your Tassy, but will be a new friend to love. I have had my puppy Shelby for about a month now and she has brought me a great deal of joy.

Nancy (Sasha's Mom)

I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear Tassy. She sounds such a wonderful little girl and must have been a great companion to you down through the years. Her personality shines through in what you have written about her.

I believe that our pets do continue on after their physical death. I've had two experiences that have shown me that this is true, but I think it is something you have to experience for yourself to believe.

Perhaps if you look into your own heart and think about Tassy, you will be able to decide whether you think your little girl had a soul or spirit. It's a kind of intuitive feeling. And if you decide she did, then that means there is a part of her that will never die and will continue on.

I believe we are reunited with all our animals. A heaven without animals would not be heaven to me. I'm sure God does not discriminate between all the creatures he created, surely he would love them all equally and give them all a place in heaven.

With love
jilly