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aviatrix
2 weeks ago I lost my Bear. He was hit by a car. My boyfriend called to tell me, and I couldnt even go home because I didnt want to see it. He was only a year old, border collie/pit bull mix, the best dog I've ever had. A friend had brought him with his siblings halfway across the country, and although I knew I didn't need another dog, that puppy crawled into my lap and I knew he would be going home with me. He was very special, always happy and playful. Its so hard to lose one so suddenly, and its so hard to believe that they are really gone. I have cried every day since then. Sometimes I feel better, and then it comes back. I had to donate his toys to the Humane Society becuase seeing them made me cry. I have his collar - almost ripped in half - and I cant bring myself to throw it away. I can still see those happy eyes, and the tail that made his whole body wag. I miss him.
Pamela
My boy was hit by a car also, it is an awful experience. I am sorry that you had to go through that too, I did'nt want to see either, but I had no choice in the matter. Again, I am so sorry. Pamela
IndysMom
So very sorry for your tragic loss.
What a terrible way to lose your precious Bear.
Thinking of you during this very difficult time.
Fran
CheriAnn
I'm also very sorry that your Bear had to leave you this way. It's hard enough dealing with the pain when your furbaby gets older and develops health problems (like my Rachael), but to tragically lose a furbaby so young is devastating.

I would also suggest that you keep Bear's collar, maybe tucked away somewhere for now until you are stronger. I know that ANY part of Bear will mean the world to you when you are stronger.

You're in my thoughts,
Cheri
deedee
I am so sorry for your loss. It is so devastating! I agree about keeping the collar tucked away somewhere. I kept a bit of Oswald's fur (I have done that with all of my cats), and I am glad that I did, even though it was very painful at first.
Nanpacific
I am so sorry about Bear! It is so hard to loose such a good friend I know. We all seem to have good and bad days. I wish we all did not have to go through this pain.

I also have Sasha (my Scottie's) hair in a photo frame with my favorite picure of her, and her collar draped over it. I slept with her collar under my pillow for a while.

My thoughts are with you.

Nancy (Sasha's Mom)
Rusty's Mom
I am so sorry to hear about Bear. Thinking of you and wishing you the strength to get through this.

Lynn
Caroline
I am so sorry about the loss of your baby Bear. I lost my Lucy exactly one week ago and I miss her so much. Bear was so young, it doesn't seem fair. I am sure you gave him a wonderful and loving year. My thoughts are with you right now...
Caroline
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