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MikeB
post Nov 6 2010, 10:21 AM
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My best buddy, Frank, a dachshund, was with me for 15 1/2 years and died just last Sunday, Halloween. A nearly constant companion, we travelled together, put in many miles together, been through times good and bad together, we were truly "mates". He was with me at home and at work and all who met him cherished him. The condolences, cards, and flowers have been supportive but the hurt is immense and the sense of loss almost overwhelming.
Frank suffered from Cushing's disease for a couple of years but that did not slow him down. His vision deteriorated, but that did not slow him down.
To pay him tribute, I sat alone last evening and put some thoughts on paper to honor him. I will share this with you:

11/6/2010
Dear Frank:
Where ever you may be right now, I hope you are comfortable and not alone. You are not really alone because I am with you in spirit every moment of the day and night. We are still together, as we were for over 15 years.
You know how much I miss you; you know I can never forget what a loyal, understanding, loving, and tolerant friend you were. You were there in the happy times and the sad times, never faltering in your loyalty and love. We had such fun together over the years, seen so many places and things. From the day you were gathered up, a tiny bundle, from a house in Campbell, California when I probably first said, “I love you man” until just 5 days ago, when your little body had to say goodbye, we were hardly ever apart.
I am honored that you chose to be my pet. I am honored that your last breaths were taken upon my shoulders, where you belonged and always wanted to be. And you are forever welcome there. I am so sorry you had to go.
I see and smell reminders of you around the house, your house, my house, Denise’s house, and Jazzy’s house, our house. Denise misses you so very much also. And if you happen to run across Jazzy, tell her we still miss her and love her.
Life has changed down here, with you up there. But my memory of you, though it makes me aware and sad for the loss, is one of joy when it recalls our lives together.
If it is possible, where you are now, think good thoughts of me. I tried my best to give you a wonderful life and I think I did a good job, but believe me, you repaid me so many times over. I was so lucky to have had you in my life.
Many people, those fortunate enough to have met you, and those that only have heard about you, have honored your life by remembering you since you departed. You brought joy to many people, you comforted patients, frightened by the prospect of surgery, and you brought laughter to all with your quirks and antics. Storekeepers, motel managers, veterinarians, neighbors, anyone who came in contact with you, will remember you, Frank, and, though sad at your leaving, will be better and happier for having met you.
Be well and happy in the spiritual world where you now dwell. I ask God to bless you, though I know he will do so without my asking. You are so deserving of those blessings.
Frank; you may trust that I will never forget you. Your spirit awaits me, your mortal remains will always be at my side to remind me of my true best guy friend ever.
And as the first day, it will always be, “I love you Man”!
All my love,
Poppy Michael
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- MikeB   My Best Friend And Constant Companion Has Departed   Nov 6 2010, 10:21 AM
- - janika   Dear MikeB What a wonderful Tribute to your darli...   Nov 6 2010, 11:27 AM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Michael, please permit me to offer you my sinc...   Nov 6 2010, 04:06 PM
- - madi   What beautiful words, thanks for sharing with us a...   Nov 7 2010, 12:53 AM
- - JanEeee   What a dear and beloved companion Frank was, he ce...   Nov 7 2010, 07:59 AM
- - MikeB   I have appreciated all the support I am receiving,...   Nov 7 2010, 11:53 AM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Mike, thank you so much for letting us know h...   Nov 7 2010, 04:14 PM
- - ziggymonster   Mike I am so sorry to hear about your Frank....you...   Nov 7 2010, 07:01 PM
- - MikeB   Thank you for your support ziggymonster. Yes, the ...   Nov 7 2010, 08:41 PM
- - LostInDespair   Mike, Your words are so beautiful. They could have...   Nov 8 2010, 03:14 AM
- - MikeB   Thank you for your thoughts and I respect and shar...   Nov 8 2010, 10:19 AM
- - Aaron   Mike, please accept my condolences for the loss of...   Nov 8 2010, 03:31 PM
- - MikeB   I am reminded every day of Frank's effect on o...   Nov 8 2010, 11:14 PM
- - janika   Dear Mike Frank is so adorable. No wonder he is l...   Nov 9 2010, 01:46 AM
- - JanEeee   What light shines through Frank's bright face,...   Nov 9 2010, 10:54 AM
- - MommyluvsuLukas   Hello Mike, I would first like to say that I send ...   Nov 9 2010, 11:15 AM
- - Aaron   Frank is a handsome looking guy with his white bea...   Nov 9 2010, 12:37 PM
- - MikeB   Thank all of you for your support. I do have wonde...   Nov 9 2010, 05:22 PM
- - MikeB   Early tomorrow morning, on the way to work, I will...   Nov 10 2010, 09:59 PM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Mike, most folks do find comfort in having the...   Nov 11 2010, 12:02 PM
- - MikeB   Frank, at least his mortal remains, are back at ho...   Nov 11 2010, 09:09 PM
- - MikeB   Today, when I spoke to someone about Frank's d...   Nov 12 2010, 09:06 PM
|- - Cheryl83   QUOTE (MikeB @ Nov 13 2010, 02:06 AM) The...   Nov 13 2010, 10:05 AM
- - janika   Very true, our Angels for all time. Here on Earth ...   Nov 13 2010, 02:53 PM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Mike, I'm just being able to catch up on p...   Nov 14 2010, 12:05 PM
- - JanEeee   Yesterday I released my sweet kitten's ashes i...   Nov 14 2010, 03:47 PM
- - nicole'smom   I was very touched by your words about Frank and t...   Nov 15 2010, 12:27 AM
- - MikeB   Allow me to share the words of Isla Paschal Richar...   Nov 16 2010, 03:45 PM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Mike, truer words are seldom spoken - - a part...   Nov 16 2010, 04:31 PM
- - MikeB   Though now the good remembrances are beginning to ...   Nov 24 2010, 02:53 PM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Mike, of course you will never forget your pre...   Nov 24 2010, 03:39 PM
- - MikeB   It is just now 4 weeks since Frank departed. I con...   Nov 28 2010, 11:36 PM
- - Aaron   There's no doubt that you gave Frank the best ...   Nov 29 2010, 01:11 PM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Mike, the one month anniversaries are among th...   Nov 29 2010, 07:35 PM
- - MikeB   It is now almost 6 weeks, and daily Frank's pr...   Dec 8 2010, 11:35 PM
- - MikeB   7 weeks since Frank died and I still miss his comp...   Dec 18 2010, 07:53 PM
|- - Sassy   QUOTE (MikeB @ Dec 18 2010, 07:53 PM) 7 w...   Dec 27 2010, 01:49 PM
- - Aaron   QUOTE My best friend is gone but never forgotten. ...   Dec 20 2010, 11:59 AM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Mike, I know what you mean about missing Frank...   Dec 20 2010, 05:02 PM
- - MikeB   It is, today, 9 weeks since Frank's death. Adj...   Jan 2 2011, 11:44 PM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Mike, there is a saying "Absence makes th...   Jan 3 2011, 05:52 PM
- - MikeB   It is now over 4 months since Frank died. He is st...   Mar 10 2011, 03:53 PM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Mike, thank you so much for sharing with us ho...   Mar 10 2011, 04:19 PM
- - Juturna   Dear Mike, I read about your precious Frank. What...   Mar 10 2011, 09:55 PM
- - Gretta's Mom   Frank's dad I just read your beautiful letter...   Apr 29 2011, 05:36 PM


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