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ladywolf
post May 1 2010, 08:18 PM
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Thanks, Donna--

We've had a peaceful day. Oddly enough, I don't feel the need to SAY much to Ladywolf, either externally or internally--we just look into each other's eyes, and it's ALL THERE!

The ladies' tea party was much more riotous than the ~~-kicker bar. Let's hear it for outrageous WOMEN!!!

Love--Margi and the Wolf
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post May 2 2010, 10:21 AM
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Hi, Margi, so glad to know that you and Ladywolf had a good day yesterday and that you both are "hanging in there" together. I know each day together is precious to you both, and that you will savour each moment of them. Did Lady wear a hat, too, to your birthday tea party?

Thank you so much for keeping us posted as to how things are going with you and Ladywolf. I hope today is a good day - - a SPLENDIFOROUS day- - for the both of you.

Peace and blessings,
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post May 3 2010, 01:14 PM
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Thanks, Moon Beam, for the birthday wishes. It was an okay day, but the weather was terrible and that always impacts my mood--in fact, the weather was so harsh and windy the following day, yesterday, that I just spent it in bed feeling sad. (I usually go swimming for the first time in the season on my birthday--but NO WAY this year!)

I'm in kind of a down mood in general right now--don't feel like doing anything much at all. I turned down substitute teaching this a.m.--it was just too EARLY and I was sound asleep, and my back hurts, and I just couldn't face it--and I NEVER turn down teaching 'cause I need the money so badly. I guess I was just trying to take care of myself--and I didn't know what to do with Lady after last week's failed efforts to get her into Janice's house for dog-sitting. I just feel very...subdued..right now, I guess. I'm sure this too shall pass.

I miss the old wolf, and the young, strong woman who used to run with her!

Margi and Lady

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post May 4 2010, 08:32 PM
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Hi Margi
Hope you and Ladywolf are doing alright. I'm in the middle of making a decision as to whether or not to get another Westie puppy right now. We may be able to get one in June or August. The next two weeks will tell the tale....I truly can't believe I'm getting myself into loving another little furball -- my loss of Sammy was so traumatic -- but maybe Sammy up in heaven is playing a role right now---anyway -- hugs to you and Ladywolf -- I'll keep you posted on our journey to a new pup.
Take care
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post May 5 2010, 12:26 AM
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Hi Sharon--

Oh, of course you should get a new puppie! Why not? Sammy would see your love reincarnated in the form of love for the new one, and would totally approve, of that I am sure!

I, on the other hand, will not get another critter for some time to come. I am considering joining the Peace Corps, or something similar, after Ladywolf leaves me, and I will need some time to be dog-free and footloose. I've had dogs (and cats) continuously now for forty years--it's time for a break, hard as that will be for me!

I really do strongly encourage you to get another pup. You have so much fur-kid love in you and nowhere to focus it right now...

Much Love--Margi and the final Wolf
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post May 5 2010, 04:50 PM
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Hi, Margi, greetings to you and Ladywolf on this very warm day here in the Blue Ridge Mountain region of Virginia. I do so understand how the weather can affect how you feel, Margi. Since the automobile collision my whole body feels like a weather barometer, and I am more prone to cluster type migranes from the head injury during extreme weather swings, not to mention the "regular" type migranes that I am prone to (the steering wheel was pushed up into my face - - my seatbelt did its proper thing but couldn't protect me from the force of the head-on collision - - and airbags weren't a part of the auto industry in 1985).

I'm glad you and Ladywolf are still being able to enjoy good quality time together. Each day and each moment of every day is precious to you both - - memories that Ladywolf will take with her and memories you will embrace with your heart when Ladywolf is no longer physically with you.

Have you applied for the Peace Corps yet? How exciting!! I hope you are able to do this - - that it works out for you. I hope you will still be able to keep in touch with us - - wherever you are and whatever you do. But for now it is a privilege to share your and Ladywolf's journey together now.

Thank you, Margi, for sharing with us how things are going for you and Ladywolf, and please know you both are close in my thoughts and prayers.

Peace and blessings,
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post May 5 2010, 09:29 PM
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Oh, Moon Beam-- What a dreadful thing that accident was in your life. How unfair!

I haven't applied to the Peace Corps yet--I am waiting to find out if a pre-existing medical condition would keep them from taking me, and they are taking a LONG time to let me know!

Meanwhile, I wait to find out if I get to teach a for-credit English class at the local community college in the summer, which would change my life in some important ways. I am REALLY sick of substitute-teaching the little ones. My last class was an absolute horror, in fact, I was shocked to be called today to teach next week--I thought that word would have spread throughout the whole SCHOOL about what a horror that class was! sad.gif I came really close to just walking out!

Life is very challenging right now. Sounds like it's always challenging for you--but you, like me, are a strong survivor.

Love to everyone--Margi and Ladywolf
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post May 6 2010, 01:09 PM
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Hi, Margi, it truly sounds like we do have a lot in common. I really wish I could do something worthwhile and tangible to help you, Margi, but unfortunately I can't give you a job. I am so o o sorry that life is so challenging for you in not so positive ways. I do so o o o o hope that you will get to teach at the local community college this summer and that it opens doors of opportunity for you. And I hope things begin to turn around for you toward more positive experiences really soon.

I know Ladywolf is by your side giving you comfort and encouragement, and I am glad you still have her with you, Margi. And I hope in some way you know that you have my encouragement coming to you across the miles as well.

Margi, please know you and Ladywolf are close in my thoughts and prayers, and I will look forward to hearing from you whenever possible.

Peace and blessings,
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post May 7 2010, 09:33 PM
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Moon Beam and everyone--

Thank you so much for everything.

It's been a bad night so far for me and Ladywolf. Now I guess I can't take her anywhere anymore, so I've had to drop out of my EMT class... One by one, our pleasures disappear...

Margi and the Wolf
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post May 8 2010, 03:17 AM
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I'm so sorry Margi...sending good thoughts your way.

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post May 8 2010, 08:25 AM
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Hi Margi and Ladywolf
I do so hope that today is a better day for you both. Treasure each moment together Margi, I know it's hard when you can't do the things that you enjoyed doing together, but just being with her will mean so much to her, and also to you. Have you ever thought about writing about all your wonderful experiences with your Ladywolf and other dogs in a book. I know you are perfectly well qualified to do so and it is clear on here that you have tremendous writing skills. She will be your inspiration and you can use these quieter days together to make a start, maybe, just an idea, but I think having something positive to focus on helps to get us through the harder times.
Sending love and hugs to you both.

Jan and Pixie and my Angels xx
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post May 8 2010, 09:02 AM
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Hi, Margi, yes, one by one the "quality of life" pleasures do disappear in the "twilight" time of our journey together with our furkids. I am so sorry that you and Ladywolf are now at this point. There is no way to be "philosophical" about a loss, Margi, - - whether it be the "anticipatory" or the "after" grief journey. My mom gave me a plaque many years ago with a saying on it "The best gifts in life are tied with heart strings." Our furkids certainly qualify, don't they?

Margi, I know I always end my letters saying this, but it is so o o o important for you to know you are not alone in your journey with Ladywolf - - even though I cannot be physically with you - - or all the other wonderful people in this forum - - please know I am with you in spirit reaching across the miles to you and Ladywolf, and I hope this can be of some comfort to you.

Please know you and Ladywolf are close in my thoughts and prayers, Margi, and please, please let us know how things are going.

Peace and blessings,
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post May 8 2010, 10:30 AM
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Hi Margi, you and your gorgeous Ladywolf are in my thoughts, I hope she's had a better day today. xx


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ladywolf
post May 8 2010, 05:34 PM
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Thanks, Ladies, for all your good wishes--

Ladywolf seems to be down for the day today. I don't know if she's really taking a turn for the worse, or if she is recovering from her traumas of the past couple of days (falling repeatedly, not being able to get up from a friend's slippery floor, etc.) She's alert and perky and eating; she just hasn't tried to climb up from the bedroom floor yet, and it's almost 4 p.m.

So I don't know what to make of it all--but we're not having a fun day.

Should I be on vigil? I have no idea, but obviously, I'm watching her closely and hanging with her.

Hugs--Margi and the Big Bad Wolf
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post May 8 2010, 05:58 PM
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I check in often to see how you and Ladywolf are doing but unfortunately most days I am unable to offer any words of wisdom as I recall my vigil so many times when my wonderful Flossie struggled with the many medical issues she had over the years and then our last summer together. Knowing her time was coming and trying to savor every moment, watching her every move....... guess it is the price we pay when we make the commitment to them isn't it? I wouldn't have it any other way...... and I'm sure you wouldn't either.

Thinking of both of you today and everyday as you travel these troubled days together. She is worth all your efforts and knows you are going to always be there for her.
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post May 9 2010, 04:31 PM
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I finally got around to reading your story. My heart goes out to you, especially when I can TOTALLY relate. It's so hard to see our babies go through these cycles of good and bad days. Just when you think they are getting better, BAM, they crash and get worse. It's incredibly difficult. My heart goes out to you and your wonderful dog.

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post May 9 2010, 05:06 PM
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Margi,

I just wanted to let you know that I am with you and Ladywolf on your journey. You and your wonderful dog are in my thought and prayers. I know how hard this has been for you, as I have been following your storey. I know how difficult it is to take care of a sick fur-kid and seeing them change due to their illness - it is hard. Believe me I know. My heart goes out to you. I am not the greatest with words, but I wanted you to know that I am here.

God Bless.

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post May 9 2010, 08:15 PM
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Thank you, Christine, Karen, everyone--

Today I went to a Mother's Day Tea with four friends who have never had children, but who all have pets. And then I did a FREEDOM RIDE with Ladywolf--that's when I pile her into the car and we head out to a dirt road where you can really haul bass if you want to, and I rolled down all the windows and played the Eagles really loudly and figured, "Heck, if Ladywolf can't walk, she can at least still RIDE!!!"

It was a good day, even though Lady seems to have some kind of new, open wound that I don't understand...

Margi and the Wolf
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post May 9 2010, 09:42 PM
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Margi,
A freedom ride, what an awesome idea! I'm sure she loved it! Think of all the SMELLS!
I have read your story, and I'm thinking of you as you go through this. It is so hard to continue on with life, as we are made to do in order to survive in our society, when our hearts are with our friend at home. I don't know what else to say having just gone through it myself--except that know that you are not alone. And I want to THANK YOU for all of the support you have given, including to me, even though you're going through it yourself.
Hugs to Lady, she sounds like quite a gal. How lucky you both are to have found each other. That's how I feel about my Stew, "what if we had never met...what a sad life that would've been!"
Love
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post May 9 2010, 10:47 PM
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Thanks, Kelly. Deciding to take on a high-percentage wolf-hybrid was actually a huge decision for me, a long time ago...

Lady is resting comfortably tonight, and so am I. Oh, the ups and downs!

My vet gave her about a month. That was back in early January. At that point, I switched her over entirely to people food, and the rest is history...

hugs from margi and ladywolf
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