My Murdered Dexter, The depression won't go away Options

[zoeysdad]

Hi Amy,

I'm glad you've found room in your heart for Scrappie; I hope you have many happy years together.

I'm truly sorry to hear about Dexter and the terrible way he died. The man who committed this unforgivable act will pay for his dastardly deeds someday. There's a place in hell for people like him. The sooner he reaches his destination, the better.

To hear that he is continuing to torment you really gets under my skin. It's sad that you must live in fear in your own home because of a low-life like him. The best we can hope for is that his time left here on earth is very limited.

You're in my thoughts and prayers,
__Jim

[deedee]

I am sorry about Dexter. I am glad that you are pursuing it - it is way too easy for people to abuse animals. It's nice to see that they can't always get away with it.

As for Scrappie, Dexter is probably very happy for both of you. I doubt that Dexter wants to see you hurting so badly. The fact that you can love more than one is just great. You will love Scrappie for being Scrappie - there can never be a "replacement" for Dexter.

dee dee

[QuakerParrot]

A Really bad day... I miss him so much... I sat at his grave and cried for over an hour. I took my last rose of the year, a red one, and put it on his grave. It frosted hard last night here in central Ohio and there won't be anymore roses for his grave this year. Soon the snow will cover it. I think about the insects in there and it really bothers me a lot. I have thought so much today about telling my husband to put him to sleep, maybe I should have tried to save him? Maybe we should have brought him home and seen if the drugs would help? Would it only have prolonged his pain? Would he have been in agony at 2:00am with no way to get him help? Oh God, I feel so empty.. so horribly sad and alone, so guilty...

MAY I GO NOW?

May I go now?
Do you think the time is right?
May I say good-bye to pain filled days
and endless painful nights?

I've lived my life and done my best,
an example tried to be.
So can I take that step beyond
and set my spirit free?

I didn't want to go at first,
I fought with all my might.
But something seems to draw me now
to a warm and loving light.

I want to go. I really do.
It's difficult to stay.
But I will try as best I can
to live just one more day.

To give you time to care for me
and share your love and fears.
I know you're sad and afraid,
because I see your tears.

I'll not be far I promise that,
and hope you'll always know
that my spirit will be close to you
wherever you may go.

Thank you so for loving me.
You know I love you, too.
That's why it's hard to say goodbye
and end this life with you.

So hold me now just one more time
and let me hear you say,
because you care so much for me,
you'll let me go today.

I can't type anymore right now, I can't even see.

Amy

[Muffins]

Amy:

I received a post today from the ASPCA...............
The American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals..............

This might just be what you need to help you!!!!!!

I think that it's:

www.ASPCA.org OR TRY ASPCA NEWS ALERT.ORG (i THINK THE 1ST ONE)....

And, in today (or yesterday's) post, they were looking for "unnecessary cruelty to animals" cases.............

Might be worth a try...........
I sure would....

God Bless............

I hope that this helps you, my friend!!!!

Love, Denise

[crazycatwoman]

Im sorry for what happened to Dexter, good innocent animals shouldnt suffer at the hands of evil people

I am so happy your trying to get Justice for him. He makes me happy when i look at him ...he is so cute ...he reminds me of my dog Picasso..... Maybe they are together, you never know

Please keep us updated about what happens with your neighbors, and if at all possible i would just keep all my animals in , because they will probably really try to do something once they start getting in trouble

Im sorry about you crying at his grave, i cant even go near Picasso's. He was buried this last Sunday ( oct 3), i have to walk past his grave all the time when i leave my house but i just look the other way or i get completely hysterical so i know what your going through

You will be in my thoughts

amber

[DJ - Edgar, Jess...]

Sorry to jump back a few posts - but I just read that you wonder if Dexter is sad in heaven, thinking you don't love him anymore. ARE YOU KIDDING???!! Every post of yours, every tear you shed, every time you type his name, your love for him echoes out to every heart and every mind you interact with!!

I imagine the only thing Dexter is thinking is "I had NO idea I was so loved - how wonderful my parents really were!!! I can't wait until they catch up!!!"

You ask if you are you crazy? Yes!! WE ALL are!! Love is crazy - missing people who are gone on to a better existence is crazy!!! Opening up our hearts again to risk love one more time is crazy!! Thank GOD for crazy people!!

And (in the spirit of that) I forgive you for being Republican (HAHAHA)