Our Beloved Burt, Passed away suddenly on December 30 Options

[Bonny'sMom]

I totally understand. It's been just over a month and I still cry. Not buckets of tears like the first couple of weeks, unless I really need to. Sometimes I just need to cry buckets of tears. I still have not picked up Bonny's ashes. I know it will bring on another wave of grieving.

I can't believe I did it, but I did. I adopted two kitties. I was actually sent to them. I believe that Bonny might have helped point me in the direction. I was on my way home from PetSmart and I made a split second decision to go a different way home and ran straight into the animal shelter. Had no idea it was there. I got there a half hour before closing on the weekend and found the kitties that night. I adopted them the following week after giving it much consideration. I told myself that night that I can't make an impulsive decision so I would think about it over the weekend. I couldn't get the kitties out of my mind and couldn't decide between two that pulled at my heart strings. I ended up adopting them both. One is about a year old and one is four or five months. They are great company for each other because my other cat is a bit older. I didn't think I was ready but it just happened. They have been so fun that it's been great therapy for me. You'll know when the time comes. It just happens.

My thoughts are with you.

BonnysMom