How Do You Scream On A Computer, dcm,their gone Options

[donoharm]

she fought so hard to stay with me.vet said she never saw anything like it.the sheer determination and will to live and stay with me,i think thats what kept her going last 6 months.today her heart finaly could not continue to beat.she stayed with me to the last second,the last beat.now both my babies gone,i prayed if god was going to take her to please take me with her.but im stuck here.im tired ,very tired,just like my girl and my boy.rosce,tyche im coming

[SJ J & S]

Donoharm my heart is breaking for you, it wasn’t just tyche that fought so hard to stay but you that fought so hard to help her.

Im sure she and Roscoe are doing all they can from Rainbow Bridge to help you through this awful day and months ahead.

Take time out for your grief, scream into a pillow, its going to be hard but you are stronger than you give yourself credit for, there is a reason we all go through this, we come out the other end being more compassionate and loving to others.

You have experienced deep love and loss and you will need time to adjust, the whole inside seems bottomless but I promise it isn’t.

Be good to yourself, as you yourself have mentioned they are happy but for the fact that you are not.

Love Sue

[Precious' mom]

I am so sorry to hear this.
Please know we are here to help you through this! Do not give up on living. Take comfort that they are in a much better place and though not physically here with you they are in your heart and soul. My Precious has been gone five short weeks and I thought it was the end of life as I knew it because going through his final illness and then death was as bad as seeing my mum pass away from cancer two and a half years ago. I raised Precious from a kitten and shared so many life events with him. He was my little surrogate son! I still hear and see things that remind me of him and cry at times but take comfort in the fact he is with my mother and she is taking care of him until it's time for me to be called Home too.
Life does go on, we are the living and we have to carry on and live without them. Never, ever forget what happiness they brought. Think of the good times, all of them, even the bad times! Take care of yourself and talk to friends and family. Seek clergy if you feel very spiritually depressed. I did and feel so much better for it!
Please let us know how you are...praying for you!!
Lisa

[BooBoo's Mom]

I felt the same way when my beloved dog died in March. I just felt like screaming his name out loud, non stop. I am sorry you are feeling so bad. Remember that this is just a temporary separation and you will see your beloved pet again.

[Ken Albin]

When Daddy Cat died I screamed at God, screamed at the world for the unfairness of it all, and screamed at myself for not being able to turn back time and erase the cancer that invaded his old body. I realized then that this is a part of life I had to face. A few face slaps later and I decided to face reality and understand that there were limits to my abilities to care for him. I did the best I could and then helped him across to the Bridge when there was nothing left for him except pain. I gave him the best life I could and did all I could do to keep him in good health. He had a happy life and a good one. That's all we are able to accomplish. Nothing more. Now I remain and try to give the same good life to other furkids who need me.

Don't be so hard on yourself. Admit your limitations to accomplish miracles and be proud of your efforts to give your furkid a good quality of life. Be strong enough to say goodbye. That is true love. All else is futility.

Ken Albin