Crying, Its still so hard Options

[jennieg0607]

It is still so hard I cry everyday! I don't know how not to cry. She was so special and I just wish she was here beside me. My family is just so deep in depression right now. We did get a new kitten, my brothers kitty had 1 kitty and he was going to give it to the pound and I just couldn't let him do that! Every time I hold her I wonder what Kyra would have thought of her. And it just makes me so upset. I look at her pictures everyday and just can't take it. How do you get over all this pain? I just want to hold her again.

[CheriAnn]

What a beautiful little girl you lost! I am SO, SO sorry
I can see how very special she was just by looking at her picture.

I know this is very painful. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to take that pain away right now. Believe it or not, all that crying you are doing is actually helping you heal. Don't worry about all the tears, and let them flow. Keep talking to your precious angel Kyra. The more you let the pain out, the better you feel in time. I spent MANY long weeks and months crying when I lost Rachael. As time passed though, I found I started crying less and less. So, as much as it hurts, allow yourself to miss her very much and mourn her loss.

I'm happy to hear that you rescued the kitty! What a special person you are.

Please hang in there and have faith. You will ALWAYS have your precious Kyra in oyur heart and in your memories.

Cheri

[SJ J & S]

I agree with everything Cheri has said.

I have been coming to this board for two years now and notice time and again how shocked people are at how long the grieving process is taking.

We are suprised how deep our emotions are, and how much love we have to give.

Be gentle and patient with yourself and each other, lots of hugs and time to talk and listen.

[Ann H]

Dear Jennie, It just hurts so very much when we lose our precious babies that we loved and love with all our hearts. I know that this is not something any of us want to hear but it does take time to began to heal. Those tears you are crying really are doing good. Come and talk to us about your darling Kyra.

I am so glad you were able to take the kitten who might have been put to sleep. Every baby deserves a chance to live a loved and happy life. How is the kitten getting along with your other kitty? Take care and come and talk any time.
Love, Ann

[drifty1027]

I am sorry about your loss. I know it hurts so bad. But you have come
to a wonderful place for help because all of us are here for the
same reason. We have lost our babies that meant the world to us.
Our lives have been turned upside down. Nothing will ever be the same
as it was when they were with us. But as time goes on we don't forget them
but have to learn to live without their physical presence. We will hold
them in our hearts forever. It will take time, a long time to go through the
grieving process. It has been only a little over two months for me losing
my Lacy. I am better than I was but I still have days when it hurts so much
and I cry. So don't not let yourself cry. Like everybody else said, it is good
for you to cry. It is not something that you will get over fast but time
does ease the pain.

What a beautiful girl your Kyra was. Just remember she is at Rainbow
Bridge with all of our kids and we will be there one day with them.

Julie
Lacy's mommy

[jennieg0607]

I know eventually I will start to feel somewhat okay! I know the Lord had a plan for her and it was time to take her back to her true home. Yet, I am still so angry, I blame only 2 people, myself and the person driving the car! I hate myself and the other individual and I know how wrong it is, but she was my baby girl and I couldn't stop her from dying. I should have been there, I should have been the one holding her. I just couldn't do it, I couldn't see her that way. I will be attaching a picture of my 2 baby's, my son and Kyra, look into her eyes! They were beautiful and full of deep thoughts. I am so upset because, she was saved from an abusive family and came to me, just to perish! Oh, how I wish I knew what those beautiful eyes thought!

The Kitty's are not getting along all that well yet. My Abby is 14 years olds, she is Norweigin Forest/Maine Coon Mix and pretty large. My other kitty is 3 months old and is very tiny, they have not gotten into a fight. Abby just hisses and growls at Sassy, she is just letting her know who the big cheif kitty is in our family.

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[Ann H]

Dear Jennie, I cropped your beautiful picture and made it smaller but my husband said not everyone would appreciate making their picture smaller. So I have taken it off and am so sorry if I offended you in any way. So I came back in and took it off and I apologize for doing so without asking first. I am sorry please forgive me.
Ann

[Rusty's Mom]

Dear Jennie,

What an adorable picture of your handsome son and sweet Kyra. Please don't blame yourself for what happened. It was an accident. Remember that - an accident. There was no way that you'd have known it would happen. Kyra knew how much you and your family loved her.

I wish there was something I could say to make your pain lessen. Time will help. You'll never forget Kyra but in time, you'll remember the happiness you shared instead of the tragedy of losing her. Try to hang in there and be strong ...............You can do it for your precious son.

Take care.

Thinking of you and wishing you strength and peace.

Love,
Lynn

[Jazzygirl]

She was so beautiful. Jennie, I see peace and love in those eyes. She was an angel sent to you and now she's an angel up above, forever watching over you. I too wish I could take away your pain, but I can't. I only know that coming here has been a huge source of healing for me and I hope it will be for you too.
Take care
Audrey

[Ann H]

Dear Jennie, Thanks for your e-mail and I am glad that I did not offend you and you still wanted me to crop your beautiful picture of your precious son and your lovely Kyra. I am putting it back on this post.

Like I said before you can save it to your d drive, or if you have something called my pictures you could save it there, or to a disk, or cd, Then you can go back in and edit your original post you put and change the picture.
Ann

Oh I am so glad you were able to put the picture on your post so now I will remove the one off from mine. I am proud of you Jennie.
Ann