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30 May 2006
I returned here because I was told someone named Juanita was posting to LS. While she is a very nice person, I wanted to make sure those of you who know me by my real name do not think I am involved with LS again. I am not. I only come here now to post that I am not the Juanita posting to LS. That is another woman.

I wish you all well as you grieve the passing of your beloved babies and cherish the company of your living ones.

Abby's Mommy
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9 May 2005
I am writing this post to ask people to no longer send me pm's of support and requests to come back and participate at this site. I will no longer be picking up or responding to pm's from this site. If anyone wants to get in touch with me, perhaps my close friends here will pass along the messages.

After this recent fiasco, I appreciated so much those of you who did pm me with your understanding and support. There are so many wonderful, caring people here. You know who you are.

While I did not intend to make this a drama, I think since it is my last post, I am going to have my say. I am not being run away by the resident bully here but am choosing to leave. I no longer wish to be a participant. This forum is no longer serving a positive purpose for me.

Unlike others here, when I state it is my last post, it truly will be my last post. It is not my intention to be rude, so if you post a positive reply to me just know that I thank you, because I won't be posting to do so. Any responses to this post are going to be ignored by me. Others, don't waste your time with yet another personal attack. I will not dignify your comments and attacks with a response.

I came here at a time in my life when losing Abby made me feel like I was ready to have my life over with as well. She meant the world to me. She was like one of my children and I loved her more then my own life. There is a hole in my soul without her. No one here has the right to question the depth of a relationship any of us have with our pets.

I and others have had a prolonged grief period. No one here knows or has the right to question why that was so. Yet a few of you feel it is your God given right to do so. Perhaps I misunderstood that this was a forum for support, encouragement and comfort. Instead, what I publically see now is criticism, demeaning and degrading attacks on others here in this forum and out right lies to further ones own agenda.

Also, no one here has the right to question my taking pictures of Abby in repose. I tried to explain to a person on this forum that those pictures brought comfort to my husband and I and while we have only looked at them twice since she died, they are a comfort to us because our last memory of her living was of her struggling for every breath she took in her last 24 hour period. The pictures of her in repose comfort us because she is at restful, peaceful, sleep and not struggling. How dare anyone to question my doing that. I would never post those pictures to any online site because they are too personal and private and additionally it would never be my intention to offend anyone or make anyone uncomfortable. NO ONE has the right to question my having them.

However, 2 blazing emails came in to me before I could get them stopped demeaning me for taking those pictures and calling me a "nutcase" and referring to Ann and I as "psycho 1 and psycho 2, a match made in heaven." The emails also were far more abusive then that. Language I found out is not allowed here, when I tried to post what had happened. Mr. Cohn, I am sorry for not having read the rules. I didn't think I'd ever have to because of the person I know myself to be.

While I do not intend to inflame this situation again, the truth has to come out. Others of you were not left unscathed in these emails either, but were referred to by name, under attack by this person as well. But, I assure you all that they are still in my email and can be sent as proof to anyone who would doubt. I sent them on to management so, Mr. Cohn knows the truth. I find it no less then convenient that my accuser has "deleted" what I supposedly called them. That person full well knows they were not called names by me so please, to you I say, in your juvenile, inadequate manner, quit grandstanding and trying to defame me publically on this forum because I find your games to be beneath everyone here, except for you.

For all of you who have been offended by what has gone on here, I am so sorry. I chose not to post and make those matters worse but after reading a post this a.m. calling Pamela (not by name but please poster, you think everyone here is so mentally deficient as to make your veiled comments in your cutesy manner and our not know who you were referring to?) "that homeless lady", I have decided this is no longer a place I can be. Pamela, I am so sorry you were attacked with such unkind, ugly words.

I chose recently to remove all my posts and all my pictures of Abby. I did that to preserve her memory from the meanness, abuse and ugliness of this forum and certain people. She was so much better then this place and those people.

Mr. Cohn, I mean you no disrespect whatsoever with this post. I admire and respect the job you do here and how difficult at times that it can be. I thank you for being here at the darkest time in my life, but for me to continue to stay keeps that dark veil over Abby's memory and I will not allow that to happen.

I wish almost all of you God Speed on your journey to recovery in your losses. Many of you have helped me so much to cope with losing the light and love of my life, my Abby, and I hope and it is my deepest prayer that I have helped some of you as well. I am not leaving because I or others have healed from our losses of our beloved babies. I am leaving so I can heal from the abuse of this place.
2 May 2005
Why did my last post get deleted?

Thank you,
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2 May 2005
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