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Zita'sMom
post Apr 16 2009, 10:40 AM
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QUOTE (Bue's Mommy @ Apr 16 2009, 02:31 AM) *
Hi Jan, the vet had me buy dry food with a low ash content. I'm not sure what the protocol is today?
The vet also said if I did feed them canned food, it should be chicken or turkey, this was a long time ago.
Twubby, and Ian had about 4 blockages between them, so the food did help.

I'm glad to hear your baby is on the mend Jan.
Till this day, if one of my feline crew goes into the litter box, and comes right back out, my heart stops.
None of my current kittez has ever had it. I have 2 girls, and one boy.

Take Care


Hi Bue's Mommy

The vet has given me prescription food - this food has medication in it. Zeus doesn't like it though. Then after there is preventative food. I'm sure there are better foods for cats that are holistic, maybe raw foods etc. but I am very nervous to try anything given that Zeus almost died last week. Even if the nutritional value of the vet food is so-so, it is specifically made to prevent that sort of blockage, so for now that's what I'll stick to.

I just spoke to a friend whose cat had the same thing. She brought him in for surgery and he died in euthanasia. Zeus is so special, I am so glad he made it. The poor boy is so resilient. He didn't show his pain until he was near death. That's the scary thing.

I just send out my wishes and prayers for his continued healing. He is just 5 years old, and I'd like him to have many more happy, healthy years....

Jan.
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post Apr 18 2009, 12:48 AM
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Hi all, my Rohan had blockage last August, hospitalized twice in one week and very nearly died. I knew it really took the stuffing out of him, and even now months later, I know he's not back to normal. I need to take him back to the vet to see how his kidneys are functioning. He's never regained the weight he lost last summer. He plays well, and is in good spirits, but his fur has never been smooth again. He has the rumply fur of a cat with weak kidneys. I've been in denial over it, but when I look at him sometimes, and really see him, he looks fragile. Breaks my heart.

He flat rejected the vet food, so I had to balance food risk vs. developing a fatty liver. One big change is that his diet is almost completely wet food; the vet said that extra moisture was the single biggest way to prevent crystals. He has the uncommon kind, not oxalate but the other (can't recall the name at the moment). Stress was a huge part of why he got blocked -- I'd been traveling and was gone for nearly a month -- it was a huge stress for him. When I got home I found out I'd been fired, so I switched to all-dry food, and that was the final straw.

I'd like to switch to an all-raw diet. I started at one point, but they really didn't like it, even when it was just tiny bits mixed in with their regular food. I hate handling raw meat, so it was a challenge I fell away from when they kept rejecting it. Ideas?? ~Kim


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post Apr 18 2009, 11:55 PM
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QUOTE (Mink&WillowsMom @ Apr 18 2009, 01:48 AM) *
Hi all, my Rohan had blockage last August, hospitalized twice in one week and very nearly died. I knew it really took the stuffing out of him, and even now months later, I know he's not back to normal. I need to take him back to the vet to see how his kidneys are functioning. He's never regained the weight he lost last summer. He plays well, and is in good spirits, but his fur has never been smooth again. He has the rumply fur of a cat with weak kidneys. I've been in denial over it, but when I look at him sometimes, and really see him, he looks fragile. Breaks my heart.

He flat rejected the vet food, so I had to balance food risk vs. developing a fatty liver. One big change is that his diet is almost completely wet food; the vet said that extra moisture was the single biggest way to prevent crystals. He has the uncommon kind, not oxalate but the other (can't recall the name at the moment). Stress was a huge part of why he got blocked -- I'd been traveling and was gone for nearly a month -- it was a huge stress for him. When I got home I found out I'd been fired, so I switched to all-dry food, and that was the final straw.

I'd like to switch to an all-raw diet. I started at one point, but they really didn't like it, even when it was just tiny bits mixed in with their regular food. I hate handling raw meat, so it was a challenge I fell away from when they kept rejecting it. Ideas?? ~Kim


Hi Kim

I'm so sorry about Rohan, it's very scary. Zeus hates the food he's on as well. I feed him and he leaves it sit, meowing and meowing at me. He never complained about food before so the stuff must be pretty bad. I am so afraid to try anything alternative, especially at this very critical time. I don't know if it's the medicine that makes the food taste bad. Zeus has been under lots of stress too as have I for quite awhile. I am giving him a lot more attention since I almost lost him. I am so lucky he is alive at all. I cannot believe it came that close.

I am so nervous and don't know what to do. If he were on a holistic diet, it would have to be specifically for his particular problem. And I would need to see a lot of research or facts proving this is really the right thing. If anybody has info I'd appreciate it too.

Thanks Kim.

Jan.
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post Apr 19 2009, 09:46 AM
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The first vet was all about selling me the food, but the second and third vets were very clear that moisture was the single most important element about his diet. Cheap wet food he'll eat is better than dry healthy food he won't eat. They suggested I add water or even low sodium chicken broth to his wet food. One vet suggested adding a little clam juice, but since I think that's gross beyond words (childhood prank, long story) I was relieved Rohan thought it was gross too.

Until last summer, I had never even heard of urinary blockages, despite having lots of male cats. But we only fed them wet food. I think that's the key. Most dry food now is just carbohydrates (corn meal, etc.) that cats don't have the digestive tract to digest properly. (The person who invented dry cat food in the 1950s based the ingredients on a human diet.) Cats' digestive tract is way too short to break down grains -- their natural diet is nearly all small animal protein.

I do feed them some dry food, but I switched to Natural Instincts, which is grain-free. The wet vet food -- I may as well have been opening the can and scooping it into the trash. Since I have four cats, and have little control over who eats what, I had to put everybody on it, and all four looked at me night after night, "Are ya kiddin' me??" So now they get Friskies and Meow Mix wet. As I said, I want to move them to an raw diet -- I should get some discipline back for another attempt.

Make sure lots of water is available, and indulge them with running water. I have three bowls around the house, and both my boys have me well-trained to turn on the faucet and let them drink from a thin stream of water. Also, I tore apart a small tabletop fountain and set the pump in the bottom of one bowl with a little piece of plastic tubing so it shoots up a little stream of water. That's their favorite bowl to drink from -- the noise attracts them.


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post Apr 19 2009, 12:40 PM
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Please see this and this, as well as these:

"It's For the Animals" book excerpt
Dr. Hamilton's book
Holisticat page on FLUTD (some of the many ways this can be addressed, BUT herbals, homeopathics, other supplements should never be tried, willy-nilly, w/o an animal being under the care of an experienced holistic vet; we used a number of these same protocols for Nissa, but ALL were based on HER individual needs, conditions and particulars, as some didn't suit her or would have been riskier or even dangerous for HER -- why you shouldn't do this on your own)
Article on FLUTD/link to diet
Discussion on FLUTD, diet, better canned foods in Canada, links to raw food Yahoo group, other related material
RawMeatyBones site
Basics of Feline Nutrition by Lisa A. Pierson, DVM (of note, her discussion on crystals - I had many educative discussions with Nissa's 2 holistic vets about this, did urinalyses every month for years (by my choice, & learned a lot by seeing the test results verifying their solid knowledge of dif. aspects of cystitis/FLUTD, etc.), sometimes doing a culture as required...and can attest to the validity of bacteria most often NOT being a cause, or even present; a number of other factors play large parts in which natural trtmnts. are needed for a particular case -- but that's what I was paying both vets to figure out and then educate me on; never did do direct-from-the-bladder samples, though, as Dr. H. found them unnecessarily stressful to most cats, and I was instead instructed on properly-done "free catch" methods, with our local holistic vet easily accounting for that in the lab results)
Another discussion from someone with much experience to share (check out her bio. info. on the left)

After you read these, you will see what a huge factor a healthy diet is in both treating and curing many ailments in animals, including FLUTD related illnesses, and why these prescription diets are basically crap, to be blunt. I don't blame ANY cat for having the good sense to not want to eat them. We'd tried these many years ago, for Sabin -- not only didn't do squat for his own irritation, but as most cats do, he hated them. Took him off them w/i a very short time....and began my re-education into diets and never looked back. He never had another urinary episode again, after homeopathic trtmnt. and a good (better) diet change. Had they had as many of the newer research and info. on WHOLE food raw diets back then, that's what my kids would have been eating, I'm sure. I only used Dr. Pitcairns. recipes for homemade foods because at the time, it was one of the best ones available. Now even I know that the grains in it weren't optimum, and wouldn't repeat it if I could help it.

There are also now quite a few online support groups for feeding raw diets (some links were in some of these articles) and I'd suggest you check some of those out as well. Just Google for lots of them. There's little point in asking most people who don't follow such diets for advice on them, as they're not as educated on them as those who've actually walked the walk and seen the proof for themselves, in their own, healthier 'pets'.

If you've not had good experiences yourself with human naturopaths, that doesn't necessarily translate into what working with a GOOD holistic vet. can do for you and your animals. For myself, I've seen good homeopathic &/or naturopathic docs (for humans), and very bad ones, too. This is no dif. than in ANY sector, where you have to do your research to find good professionals, or use word of mouth for recommendations. (I've given my own over and over again, ad nauseum) This is why I not only chose Dr. Hamilton for our primary (distance, homeo.) vet (you can't get much better than one of the TOP ones in the world!); note: his fees were less than our local, $$$ vet's), as well as our local one for certain matters, but also why I've posted so many topics here to finding other GOOD holistic/homeo. vets....and why I KEEP repeating that a homeo. vet need not be living in your location to do great work and help with all aspects of health concerns. You might even try Dr. Gardner in Washington State, as a former member here has been having good success with her, too, and for LD calls (if and when needed; she'll also do some consults via email), she's not even that far from BC, whereas I was calling all the way to New Mexico. Most of Dr. H.'s clients only called him every few months, not needing anything more frequent with his expert trtmnt.....mind you, many clients were already following better, smarter, natural protocols already, so didn't have as many problems anymore (he stresses best diets, too, of course). Whereas I CHOSE, myself, to check in more often, but he didn't ever suggest I needed to, except sometimes during a few acute episodes. I was just erring on the side of the preferred method for ME and MY peace of mind. His service, btw, as you'll find with most really good homeo. vets, was superlative, even if he was away on conference, or sometimes even on his own holidays! What more could you ask for?


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post Apr 22 2009, 11:10 AM
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FABULOUS NEWS!!! I'm going to share this here and on Rohan's page. His tests came back COMPLETELY NORMAL!!! His kidney functions are excellent. As the vet said, "I wish my own health tests came back this clean." I had the full blood panel: CBC, white count, thyroid, kidney function, etc. etc. and everything is completely spot on for a healthy cat. Oh hooray! Ever since Roh nearly died last summer, I've been afraid for him. NOW I CAN LET THAT GO. Oh, this makes me weep with relief. Jan, may Zeus' follow-up tests be the same.... Kimberhappymama


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post Apr 22 2009, 10:55 PM
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Hi F's Mom

Thanks for all the resources. I have to admit I am still pretty undecided and pretty confused. I really can't afford some of the costs of places like Tree of Life after already paying a thousand dollar emergency bill, and without knowing for sure my living situation since I am waiting to resolve our separation agreement.

I spoke to the vet tech at my vet clinic - she is a friend of mine - and she really insisted that Zeus stay on this diet which is designed to dissolve crystals, until he is out of the danger zone, and has testing to see where he's at. I do feel commercial diets are not best longterm and I don't know about the testing etc, but I trust that there are concerns there. I am so pressured and stressed with many life issues going on that I just want Zeus to stay alive, even if the diet is not best, not tasty, or has other problems. I just need Zeus to stay alive right now so I will keep him on this since I don't have the time or the financial resources to do otherwise.

At least he seems to be eating it more happily now and I wonder if his appetite has also been off since he is normally not a fussy eater.

I do appreciate the info, the links etc. and I have told the vet tech that once we are out of this danger zone and know he doesn't have long term damage, then I want to look more closely at holistic diets.

Happily Zeus is acting pretty much like his normal self and I'm just so glad he is alive right now.

I am blessed in that way, and regardless of diet, please continue to send him healing thoughts.

I am hoping all will be well.

Jan.
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post Apr 22 2009, 10:58 PM
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QUOTE (Mink&WillowsMom @ Apr 22 2009, 12:10 PM) *
FABULOUS NEWS!!! I'm going to share this here and on Rohan's page. His tests came back COMPLETELY NORMAL!!! His kidney functions are excellent. As the vet said, "I wish my own health tests came back this clean." I had the full blood panel: CBC, white count, thyroid, kidney function, etc. etc. and everything is completely spot on for a healthy cat. Oh hooray! Ever since Roh nearly died last summer, I've been afraid for him. NOW I CAN LET THAT GO. Oh, this makes me weep with relief. Jan, may Zeus' follow-up tests be the same.... Kimberhappymama



Yay, yay, yay Kim!! What a relief after such a scary episode. That is so good to hear. It will be a couple of weeks until I can do the same test, so wish me luck!!!

And again, I am so happy that your Rohan is doing so well.

No doubt it is all the love and healing you give him because of your special connection with him.

Jan.
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post Apr 24 2009, 02:56 PM
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Hey Jan,

Hope Zeus is doing well! I would just be very wary of presciption diets. I am assuming you are referring to Hills? Personally, I wouldn't feed my cat anything made by Hill's or Science Diet. They are one of the worst foods out there, content wise. They usuallly have a lot of corn, by-products, and high carbs. I think they also use those toxic preservatives BHA and BHT. I would look at the label. Here's a brief article that talks about Hills (who makes prescription and science diet) http://www.ourdogsonline.com/content/sciencedietscam.html

I am a little worried they are feeding you a low-protein diet, which is totally unappealing to cats. It causes more problems then it helps. And the whole low protein thing was studied on dogs, not cats. It's more important for you cat to get good quality high protein canned or raw diet. If you are worried about kidney problems, your vet can prescribe a phosphate binder to go in the food, and I believe there are even some home recipes to make a phosphate binder.

Plus, when you feed your cat a diet that is supposed to attack one type of crystal, it often causes the other type.

From
http://www.fabcats.org/owners/flutd/info.html

[i]Altering the diet is the easiest way to modify the urine. Previously, much interest has been placed on changing the acidity, magnesium, and calcium content of the urine. However, it is now believed that the single most important factor is the rate of water turnover. The aim is therefore to increase water turnover and dilute any noxious components within the urine. Rather than altering the content of a dry diet, it makes much more sense to simply feed a wet one!

There is an excellent book called "Your cat- Simple new secrets to a longer, stronger life by Elizabeth M. Hodgkins, DVM. It one of the best books I have read about cat care, and the most up to date health information and treatments for cats.

Just some info I thought you might find useful.

Keep us updated on dear Zeus.
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Some really good info. there, NM, for Jan's consideration. Just wanted to correct one thing -- the original low-protein studies were actually done on RATS, who are primarily herbivores and have much different protein needs. An excerpt from Dr. Hamilton's book explains it more fully...

"In rats, extra protein prevents the progression of renal failure. (Michael Lieb & William Monroe, Practical Small Animal Internal Medicine [Philadelphia, W.B. Saunders, 1996], 312) Though this has not been show to occur in dogs or cats, this data is used to support protein restriction in these animals....It is commonly thought that when there is any evidence of kidney disease, the protein level should be reduced. This is not correct for most animals. Protein reduction has little impact upon the progression of kidney disease. In fact, reducing the protein level in the diet may reduce the effectiveness of the kindeys. This is because the amount of blood filtered through the kidneys (the glomerular filtration rate) is tied to protein in the diet, and reducing the protein reduces the filtering thus decreasing the excretion of toxins." And we certainly found this to be born out with Nissa's kidney dysfunction. We only reduced her protein amounts by a mere 20% or less, only in the later stages of her illness and mainly because of old age, rather than from her kidney function, which was maintained very well until shortly before her transition.


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Ahhhh..... that is very good information, also! The one I was referring to was one I came across in the book (Your cat- Simple new secrets to a stronger, longer life- By Elizabeth Hodgkins) was in the section about CRD (chronic renal disease). It talked about in the 1940's how Dr. Mark Morris Sr., ran some tests on dogs with CRD and lowered their protein intake. They added more grain to the dog's diet and less protein, and then, since it seemed somewhat successful at that time, started modeling the cat's diet after those studies. This has a horrible effect on the health of the cat, because of it's carnivore nature, and the cats rapidly declined. She said the vets then chalked it up to CRD just being a fatal condition, and that's what caused the decline. Later on it was discovered it was the phosphorus was what needed to be restricted, not the protein.

She writes, "No one thought to question whether dietary protein-restriction in an animal adapted to high protein intake had a negative effect on the outcome for the cat with CRD. The truth is, it is possible to manage chronic renal insufficienty in the cat far more succesfully than we have in the past under the old belief systems. Ironically, the centerpiece of this improved management regime for cats with CRD is to avoid protein restriction." She them goes on to talk about phosphorus and phosphate binders.

She also goes on to write, "It has become very apparent to me that a significant part of the deterioration of our CRD patients in years past was due to the protein starvation that was imposed upon them by those of us who followed the dogma of the day." She is referring to her vet peers in this sentence.

Another interesting thing she writes, "We desperately need better science, conducted outside the influence of the pet food industry, in investigations that are broad enough in scope and design as to be genuinely instructive about how to use nutrition, to manage feline disease such as CRD as effectively as possible."

Good info & interesting discussion going on here...
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Well, and I got slightly off the subject there with CRD, but it is related, as it relates to the kidneys.

But back to UTD-

She also says the problem is not, and has never been, the level of magnesium in the diet of UTI cats. The problem is the extremely low-moisture, alkaline-urine-producing, high-processed-carbohydrate formulas of dry cat foods.

She says that every week she sees new patients that been on "prescription diets" for this problem, without success. And she says that even worse, the prescription diets caused them to develop a different type of crystal, because their urine had become too acid. For these cats, she says the "cure" was as devastating as the original disease.

She also talks about the scientists and how they failed to consider the natural prey of cats contains significant magnesium, but is composed of entirely different types of ingredients. But the problem here really is dry food. Dry food with high cereal and low moisture, cause UTI. And she says that cats eating meat-based wet foods simply do not develop UTI.

I hope that helps~
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post Apr 25 2009, 07:45 PM
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jan! oh my gosh! i am reading as fast as i can. could you please tell me how zeus is doing now? i'm gonna keep reading ...

i hope and pray that zeus is better and i'll read all posts on this thread now.

many biggggg comforting hugs!!! wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif

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dottie xoxoxox
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post Apr 25 2009, 11:19 PM
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QUOTE (Nemo's Mommy @ Apr 24 2009, 03:56 PM) *
Hey Jan,

Hope Zeus is doing well! I would just be very wary of presciption diets. I am assuming you are referring to Hills? Personally, I wouldn't feed my cat anything made by Hill's or Science Diet. They are one of the worst foods out there, content wise. They usuallly have a lot of corn, by-products, and high carbs. I think they also use those toxic preservatives BHA and BHT. I would look at the label.


Hi Nemo's Mom

I haven't checked on all your links yet, but he's not on Hill's. It's Medi Cal Dissolution Formula, both canned and in a package. The first ingredients are meats but I will check the label more closely.

I wish Zeus was the only issue I had right now so I could look into everything more closely.

The vet insists this is the right diet for him right now, but I have no doubt there is something better than canned or packaged. I need to still work closely with my vet since Zeus is still in the danger zone.

On the up side of things, he is purring and happy and looks like his total normal self right now. And no worries about meat content because he got outside the other day and caught something. I don't know what but it was fleshy because he puked it up later. Charming. But he is peeing normally right now and acting like his happy self, so hopefully he is okay and doesn't have long term damage. Crossing my fingers!

I'm still interested in holistic solutions but I wish I had help from a local vet for this too. At this very point in time I'm just not able to do a lot of reading and research, but I will check into all that you post here.

take care and thanks so much everyone for the info.

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QUOTE (AngelCareOne @ Apr 25 2009, 08:45 PM) *
jan! oh my gosh! i am reading as fast as i can. could you please tell me how zeus is doing now? i'm gonna keep reading ...

i hope and pray that zeus is better and i'll read all posts on this thread now.

many biggggg comforting hugs!!! wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif

always,
dottie xoxoxox


Hi Dottie

He "looks" his normal self, but the disturbing thing was he "looked" his normal self the day before I found out he had a urinary blockage so bad it almost killed him.

This after the water filter burst, and I just had to give up Ellie weeks earlier. Not to mention passive aggressive (well not even passive) stuff that x-h is pulling right now.

I am really so tired. I wish some nice things would start happening to me.

Jan.
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{{{{{Jan}}}}} All that is gosh awful! I'm so sorry you're going through so much and sure do wish I could wave a magic wand and make all the bad things in your life disappear. There is one thing I can do for right now then off to bed for me cuz it's after 2 AM where I am. Here are three videos so you can sit back and relax for at least 12 to 15 minutes. I hope and pray this gives you a bit of a break and perhaps a little smile or two ...

Let me explain a few thing before you click and watch. OK?

The word "nom" (or "Nom" or "NOM") means that the animal is enjoying what it's eating or it can also mean the food itself.

You'll see words like "Srsly" and "Orly?" and "Brglr." I'm sure you'd get it - "Seriously" and "Oh, really?" and "Burglar." "Mahm" is "Mom." Oh, "TMI" is "too much information." Stuff like that. So make sure to use your pause button because some of them go by kind of fast.

Finally, you'll want to watch to the very end of each video cuz it ain't over when you think it is. Here goes ...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RsWcU6ZQBgU
Hope you caught what came after the credits on the one above ...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_X67rniPLkM
Psssttt ... Don't miss the "LOL Burds" ("birds") in the last two seconds of the one above ...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-lC39S8vKE

Sweet Jan, I hope you enjoyed and it took your mind off your troubles at least for a short time. Please know you remain in my thoughts and prayers!

Big Comforting Hugs!!! wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif

Always,
Dottie xoxoxox
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Nemo's Mommy
post Apr 28 2009, 04:45 PM
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Oh Jan,

I am sorry things are so rough right now. I am sure that has to be so frustrating with the passive-aggressive stuff your ex is pulling. Are things going a bit better now?

~NM
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