I Loved My Sissy Cat Options

[sissycat]

Hello to my Sissycat. Today is the 2 month mark since you had to leave.
I just have to tell you again how much I love and miss you. I know you know this already, but it helps me to say it.

SISSYCAT-- I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mama kim

[justme]

today is the 1 month mark for me sissycat...
I'm right here.

Bless you sissycat,
best wishes...

[sissycat]

Thanks Justme! Seems like these anniversarys are some of the worst days. One day, one week, one month etc. We make it one day at a time. (together we make it)
Thanks for being here for me.

Hugs to you!!

[justme]

Your right...Its 4:12am here...I dont want to go to sleep..
I want to stretch the time out..I dont want it to be lunch time...My boys final moments..

I'll be here.

Best wishes...

[sissycat]

I am hurt. Today is the 2 month mark and my oldest daughter came over and I was on here posting to someone. She told me I am a crazy nut for getting on here and talking to people about our dead animals. That really hurt me alot. I set here in tears right now. My own daughter how can they be so cruel. Growing up around me she knows my love for animals and they are people to me. Sorry I think I was just needed someone to vent to. Thanks to anyone who is listening.

Sissy another day is almost gone. One day closer to our reuion!!!!!!!!

Love You!!!!!!!

[goliath]

May you be blessed with sunshine and peace as you remember your sweet Sissy on this angelversary.

Today also marks 9 months since my Goliath left this world for another.

Much love with hugs of comofort,
Beth

[Candy's Dad]

I am hurt. Today is the 2 month mark and my oldest daughter came over and I was on here posting to someone. She told me I am a crazy nut for getting on here and talking to people about our dead animals. That really hurt me alot. I set here in tears right now. My own daughter how can they be so cruel. Growing up around me she knows my love for animals and they are people to me. Sorry I think I was just needed someone to vent to. Thanks to anyone who is listening.

Sissy another day is almost gone. One day closer to our reuion!!!!!!!!

Love You!!!!!!!

Oh how I know how you are feeling. Luckily, I don't get too much grief over my grief from friends as they loved my Candy as if she was their own. But I still like places like this to just express how I feel to others who are dealing with the same emotions. And your expression touches me and others so. It's been a rough month, not sure how getting to two will be.

Hang in there kiddo!!!

Candy's Dad

[LoveThem]

Oh, Sissy Cat:

You know you are safe here....you will not hear words like that here. We believe your love for Sissy and your words to her are just beautiful and we never tire of seeing your messages to her..simply saying...I love you I miss you.

We feel the same way about our special sweethearts who were taken from us. You know we share the same pain as you and the longing...the missing...it is all just as intense.

I just feel sorry for people who don't understand what has happened in our lives. They must have never felt the unconditional love of one of these babies. But because they feel so differently..I would avoid the subject when they are around...so as not to add to the hurt that is already so much a part of us.

Hugs to you and Sissy....you will always be together for she is part of you forever. I'm sorry you had such a painful moment today...in the midst of your "anniversary" pain.

We already know we are not in the majority in this world for if we were, there would be no homeless pets anymore ever. But we do know there are many of us and sometimes forums like this are the only way we can "touch" one another and say we understand because we feel just like you do...we are a family here, Sissy Cat, and you are a very important member to us.

Keep posting...you know we are always here listening....
(That's 2 hugs..one for you and one for Sissy (Angels do hug, don't they?))

[sissycat]

Thanks LoveThem.

I don't think she meant to hurt me by saying that. You are right some people just don't understand and share the SAME kind of love for animals. She is 19 and we have had cats all her life. She now lives on her own and has 2 cats and 1 dog. She likes pets don't get me wrong. Just not in the same way I don't think.
I also do the candle ceremony every monday night that I am able and she thinks I am silly to do that. My 8 year old daughter likes to do the ceremony also.

Anyway thanks for your kind words. You can always make a person feel better.

We always need a hug. I know I do anyway.

Again Thanks and many hugs back to you!!!!!

[sissycat]

Sissy just felt the need to tell you I love You!!! You are always on my mind and in my heart.

Miss you and Love you so much!!!!!!!

[AngelCareOne]

For you and your beloved fur kid Sissy. Please click below, Dear One.

http://www.indigo.org/rainbowbridge_ver2.html

May your grief, loneliness and missing Sissy so much someday be replaced with only the fondest of memories until that time when you're both once again reunited. Much Love to you both!

Always,
Angel xoxoxox

[sissycat]

Hello to my dear Sissycat. Remembering you today. (as I do everyday)
Both your sisters are here. Boogie asleep in my pile of clean laundry to fold. lol And Yu is asleep in her popsicle box. I just can't throw it away she loves to sleep there. Your spot is still at the end of my bed. Just not ready to move the things yet. Pesky rabbits ate one of your mums off your grave yesterday. Hopefully it will come back out. If not will plant something new in the spring.
Miss and love you Sissycat!!!

[sissycat]

Tomorrow will be 11 weeks since I lost Sissycat. I still miss her so much. Sometimes I stop and think--she is REALLY gone.

I also wanna say thanks to everyone you reads my posts. Your replys mean so much!!!!!!!!!

Miss ya Sissycat and Love You so Much!!!!!!

[havana]

Tomorrow will be 11 weeks since I lost Sissycat. I still miss her so much. Sometimes I stop and think--she is REALLY gone.

I also wanna say thanks to everyone you reads my posts. Your replys mean so much!!!!!!!!!

Miss ya Sissycat and Love You so Much!!!!!!

Oh! I just love the way you write about your sweet Sissycat it's just right and makes us feel closer to them don't they? About your daughter? I am sure what she said to you it was not in a bad way it is just that even if she dosen't tell you she dosen't like to see you sad nor suffering, but, please keep writing about sweet Sissycat as much as you like becouse you know we are here also to listen too and we love it, we really do, always here for you Jorge

[sissycat]

Thanks Jorge!!!!!!

Today is the 11 week anniversary. Why do the anniversaries have to hurt so much?

Love ya Sissycat

[ann]

Thanks Jorge!!!!!!

Today is the 11 week anniversary. Why do the anniversaries have to hurt so much?

Love ya Sissycat

Hi Sissycat, Unfortunetly anniversairies are going to hurt as much as we let them. I know the feeling. For me, everday feels like one of "those anniversaries". Today I clean out his grave area. Trimmed the cat nip, cleaned the cross and put more sylicone spray on his plaque. Then I cried uncontrolable on my Dave's shoulder. It was the first time since "that day" that I have done that. I was afraid of his reaction, so I've been crying alone (or here)where no one can see me. I didn't get much from him but a hug and a "oh Ann". He probably thought I have "gotten over it" by now. Little does he know. I think it got him all teary eyed. I wish I could build a path to heaven with all the broken hearts here and get everyones precious babies back. I wouldn't run short of pieces if I could..I too find it hard to believe my boy is gone. I think it's because he's in my vision all the time.. Hugs to you Sissycat..Ann

[LoveThem]

They hurt so much because we love them so much and we miss them so much...it all goes together.

This kind of anniversary represents a day that changed our lives forever in a devastating sad way. A day that has time in it ..without them. How can that NOT hurt so very much?

I can't count weeks when I have a loss..after the first couple of weeks...it is easier for me to dislike the month and until that month comes again...for me there is no other anniversary to make me grieve more. Missing my boy is part of my everyday life but to really remember that last day....I cannot avoid the month but I try to see the other months..as other months and have just the sadness that he was with me those months for over 16 years.

This hurt is when I remember that saying I find a lot of meaning in:

The pain of losing them will never ever be greater than the joy of knowing them. I would rather think of the joy then remember the pain that I cannot do anything about. At least the joy is of good happy healthy memories and I am so glad and grateful my boy was born in my backyard to a feral mom so many years ago. He was the last of 3 to lose and there is something about a home that is completely empty..................

I think it is beautiful you talk to your Sissy cat. She is an Angel and I am sure that these Angels are always listening.

Hugs
Judy

[BlackCatLady]

Hi Sissycat - I just lost my Roman, and time seems to be crawling by. I feel your pain, there seems to be no end to it, and that's the hardest thing about losing a fur baby, we have to go on. We don't want to, but we do.....

[sissycat]

Morning Sissycat,

Here it is another week has passed. I can't believe it. Tomorrow is 12 weeks. I never thought I could make it this long with out you. It has been hard, but we are managing. One day at a time.
You would have had so much fun this summer with your sisters. The squirells come down and tease them then run back up the tree. It is funny to watch lol. Sure wish your were physically here with them to play. I do know you are here in spirit.

I love You Sissycat. Oh by the way there are lots of newbies coming to the Rainbow Bridge just as you did. Help show them the way.

Miss You and Love Ya Sissy

[Omarmommy]

Morning Sissycat,

Here it is another week has passed. I can't believe it. Tomorrow is 12 weeks. I never thought I could make it this long with out you. It has been hard, but we are managing. One day at a time.
You would have had so much fun this summer with your sisters. The squirells come down and tease them then run back up the tree. It is funny to watch lol. Sure wish your were physically here with them to play. I do know you are here in spirit.

I love You Sissycat. Oh by the way there are lots of newbies coming to the Rainbow Bridge just as you did. Help show them the way.

Miss You and Love Ya Sissy

Very sweet Sissycat. I wish these weeks were easier. I'm like you, I have nobody to really share my grief with other then here. They think I'm 'healed' I think...little do they know. I still cry a tear daily...some are more then others. It's nice to see I'm not alone.

Take care.
Marcie