So Sad!, Loss of my friend Options

[Victoria]

Boy is today a ruff day. Goose is still holding his own bless him. But I got a call this morning about Bodie from my friend. She was crying and said that he was breathing very hard. He has had a liver failure for the last two months. I told her it was time to put him down. They were going to do it this friday as her husband was out of town. I ask if I could pray for her and bodie, and while I was praying that God would take him quickly he pasted on. I drove up to her house and cleaned Bodie up so she would not have to. Its just so sad to lose our beloved pets. It just makes that day thats not to far it the furture for Goose and was not so long ago with J-dog to jump right up in my face. I crying all day long.

[goliath]

You are the most wonderful kind of friend that anybody could ever hope to have. Especially with your recent loss of J-Dog and struggle with worry over Goose, it had to have been very difficult for you to tend to a friends need. It is quite understandable that this kind of situation would stir up your emotions and sadden you all over again.

In one of your other replies you mentioned people who do not understand the deep grief and sadness we experience when we lose a loved furry kid. It is said that those people who have not experienced the true love for an animal have not had an integral part of their soul yet awakened.

Bless you for being you and for knowing how to be a true friend. May you find comfort, peace, love, and understanding wherever you go.

Much love and hugs are sent your way on this sad day.

[LoveThem]

I am glad to hear Goose is holding his own. You are being blessed with more time with him which is priceless.

I am sorry to hear about your friend's dog. The fact that he passed quickly did save her from the final decision. I agree with everything Goliath said to you. The things you did for your friend were absolutely wonderful. What's left is to hug her a lot and she knows you understand what she is going through because you just went through it with J-dog.

Goose has our prayers to continue holding his own and being around to receive your hugs and love and for you to look into his eyes everyday and see the love that he has there for you.

Anyone who has you for a friend is a very lucky person. Hugs to you and to your friend from many here who have the same pain inside them.

Take Care and remember to give Goose a hug from us.

[Victoria]

I took this picture a couple of weeks ago. So you can put a face to a name.
Goose and Dinky:
IMG]http://i41.photobucket.com/albums/e284/VICTORIARAW/DogsdinkandGooseFeb08010.jpg[/IMG]

[LoveThem]

Victoria: I was not able to see your photo of Goose and Dinky as posted so I copied it and am posting it here so everyone can see your babies. They are so precious!

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[goliath]

Your pic of Goose and Dinky is as sweet as can be. Two peas in a pod.

Thanks Judy for bringing Goose and Dinky's pic here so we all can see it. You know how I love to see pics with stories. It helps me to feel just a little closer to the stories being told.

Hugs to Victoria and Judy

[Victoria]

Thanks for fixing that!

[LoveThem]

Victoria: This is the way your link looks above:

IMG]http://i41.photobucket.com/albums/e284/VICTORIARAW/DogsdinkandGooseFeb08010.jpg[/IMG]

But if anyone did want to see that picture then they could do as I did:
start at the: http: and copy the link into a browser address and you can go there.

http://i41.photobucket.com/albums/e284/VIC...oseFeb08010.jpg

The above link if copied exactly as it shows will take anyone to the picture. I just went there and copied the image jpg file to my computer and then attached it to a reply.

Your link is correct but to work...it cannot say anything before "http:" and at the end it can't say anything after the filename that ends in .jpg. Your picture IS there but to go see it...computers are so fussy and demand perfection in a link.

So I got it cause your link portion is correct and I understood not to put anything before the http or after the jpg. From many years of playing with computers.....

Glad to help. Hope this isn't confusing..just wanted you to know what will work for any future pictures.

LoveThem

P.S. I see when I post this reply that the link I typed is now underlined which means it is "live"..which means (and I just tried it), if anyone clicks on the link that is underlined..they will go to your picture...neat, huh? It is the same one posted above to look at.

[Victoria]

Update on Goose. He is still hanging in there. As long as we give him his fluids. What a blessing he has been. He seems to be putting his best paw forward. He is being so loveable to us. As if to say I'll be going soon and you the best owners any dog could have. What a great blessing in the wake of J-dogs death. I know it won't be to much longer but we are enjoying Goose so much. He has never been a dog that complains. I just wish J-dog could of dyed easyer if thats possible. Any way we are just loving Goose in his twilight....

[goliath]

Thanks for the update on Goose. I am so glad to hear you are just enjoying Goose so much right now. It is what we do with our furry kids today that make the memories of tomorrow.

Hugs

[LoveThem]

Glad to hear about Goose. I see Goliath's reply and love and totally agree with her last sentence.

Just give him lots of hugs and tell him what a wonderful boy he is (I'm sure he'll never get tire of hearing that ).

As far as these babies are concerned...the time we have with them is always much too short but we can't change that very much usually.

Every day with them is a priceless gift. We can look into their eyes and see the love there and smile and hug them and tell them how special they are.

Hugs to you and Goose..your bond will last forever.

[Bue's Mommy]

Dear Victoria, part of the allure of animals is that they love us for who we are for real. Don't hide your tears about your other baby, they will help you through the greiving process.

Most of us come here because we are greiving, and can't get what we need from humans to help the hurt go away. So we come here to share our experiences. I'm not even sure how I found this place, but I'm so happy I did. Everyone here is so giving, if the whole world had the mindset of the people here, we would truely have a utopic society.
I have mulitple animals too, since Bue is gone they have taken up the slack big time.

Hang in there with Goose, do what your heart tells you to, if they tell you no way, and your heart says way, do what your heart says, I did that with Ian, and he lived another 5 yrs.. Jack Russels are a very enrgetic dog, I wish you the best of luck, and know we are here for you, ok?

Post a more pics of your baby it could help you.
This is Ian

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[goliath]

I also find this forum very comfortable and rewarding. This is where I come when I get home from work to relax and find a little bit of peace of mind.

I have many co-workers who care about me very much. We do talk about my hurts as well as my joy and happiness in my journey to recovering from such a heartbreaking and unexpected death of my sweet Goliath. There are many very loving human beings both here as well as outside of here that I surround myself with that provide the nurturing I need to heal.

The love that is carried in my heart is extended to all I come in contact with. It is my love for Goliath that keeps my heart beating and loving. To all of you here I will say thank you for lending me your ears and hearts. All of you have helped me come a long way in my journey of healing and I will always be grateful to each and every one of you.

Peace and many blessings are sent to all of you with love from the bottom of my heart.

[Victoria]

Update:
Well Goose is starting to have more bad days then good ones. Its very hard, I cry every night. I know it will be soon. I walked to the back of our property today as the snow has melted. Its the first time since I lost J-dog. Made me cry..... I miss that dog so much. And now I have to do it again.. I'm glad you all listen to my heart, it is comforting.. I'm at work and I'm crying again

Goose is starting to stummble like he's dizzy. And breathing heavy. We are still doing SQ fluids. He is still eating.

[LoveThem]

Sorry to hear Goose is having problems. Have you called your vet about what is happening now...as an update report? Maybe he knows something that could help.

Hugs to you and Goose

[goliath]

Awwwwww Victoria I am so saddened to hear that Goose's health is declining. For this to be happening so close to your loss of J-Dog is hearbreaking for me to even read. I can only imagine what you must be going through. One loss is devastating enough to cope with let alone another, especially only 5 months apart.

Just know that we are here to listen to you. The love shared in the people who truly care are found in this forum where we help support each other in our grief. I have never encountered a place filled with so many compassionate, understanding, and loving people all in one place.

Keep us posted as best as you can Victoria. In the meantime I will be sure to keep you and Goose in my prayers.

Much love and warms hugs
Beth

[forduffy]

Victoria,
I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Goose and I hope that you both are ok.

[Victoria]

Ok I need so encouragement! Goose is doing better but it very much like a roller coster. Up one day down the next. The vet said its the nature of his problems. He said he is doing very well with the levels of his test. The vet said most dogs would of pass already. This is so hard just watching and waiting. He is leaking a little too so pee is getting all over the house and thats hard too. I know it should be no big deal because we still have him around. Sorry for complaining so much

[goliath]

Ok I need so encouragement! Goose is doing better but it very much like a roller coster. Up one day down the next. The vet said its the nature of his problems. He said he is doing very well with the levels of his test. The vet said most dogs would of pass already. This is so hard just watching and waiting. He is leaking a little too so pee is getting all over the house and thats hard too. I know it should be no big deal because we still have him around. Sorry for complaining so much

I am so glad to see that Goose is doing better. The ups and downs show his will to live. His will and your hope have given you more days together than what you had expected. That's a miracle in of itself.

As for the peeing in the house, carpets can be washed and floors cleaned. I do understand the frustration though because my Gidget started peeing in the house after Goliath passed away. She became depressed in looking for him because she didn't know where he was. We are working together on solving that matter. Would he allow you to put a diaper on him? He may feel embarrassed himself since he can't help it. You may feel less frustrated yourself. ( Just a thought Victoria.)

No doubt this up down up down roller coaster you are living is a difficult ride. But it will get smoother as time goes on. As you make Goose as comfortable as possible you will also find comfort and hold the love and hope in your heart. I am an optimist to a fault and never give up on what I truly seek in life.

Keep coming here where there is hope and words of encouragement. Live in this moment as yesterday is a cancelled check and tomorrow is just a promisary note. Today is what matters. Yours and Goose's bound hearts will keep you together forever.

Much love and many hugs to you Victoria. Keep coming back and sharing your hopes and dreams as well as your doubts and frustrations.

[LoveThem]

Victoria: I agree with everything Goliath just said to you. And, as I was reading your post about Goose leaking, even before I read Goliath's suggestion of a diaper, I thought about when my female dogs were in heat and they were in the house, I had a special washable thingy that fit around their tail and covered that area so it was like wearing a diaper or a pad. But then Goose is a male so it would have to be more of a diaper.
Doggies usually let you do anything you want to them so maybe it is something you can try even if for part of the day.

It is heartwarming to hear your vet say how Goose's spirit is keeping him going and with you longer. My Little Guy was sick as a kitten and pulled through and fought off pneumonia at about 8 weeks old and lived the longest. Sounds like Goose has that same kind of spirit.

Take Care and our prayers are with you and Goose.
Hugs to both of you

Judy