Good Bye Bue-bue, I Love You So Much, My Last Words To One Of My Best Friends Options

[Bue's Mommy]

Hi Bue's Mommy,
I'm so sorry for taking so long to respond. And I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious Bue. I feel so bad that it was his time to go. It is always too soon.

What a beauty he is! It is obvious that he was very happy and that the two of you loved each other very much. Bue will always be in your heart and mind and that will give you great comfort, but even though he is happy and at peace right now, you may have a ways to go. Do not dispair. It's only been a month which is a very short time when it comes to losing a loved one. Things will slowly get better. It's a rough road with a lot of ups and downs, but a precious journey all the same.

You are in my prayers
John B

" What a beauty he is! It is obvious that he was very happy and that the two of you loved each other very much. "


Thank you so much John.

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[Bue's Mommy]

This is a shameful attempt on my part to put up more pics of Bue, lol. It really is therapeutic for me.

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[Bue's Mommy]

Just another pic of one of my 3 kitties, her name is Puddin.

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[Bue's Mommy]

I love you Bue-Bue, he's a good boy.

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[Bue's Mommy]

Sorry for the blurry pic, here's a good one

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[sarahann333]

I can not get over how adorable your kitties are!! And posting pics really does help so much!

[Bue's Mommy]

Thank youu Sarah, I'm so glad posting is helping you also. For me it helps celebrate their lives, and not mourn so much their deaths.

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[Bue's Mommy]

Bue's sister, and brother Tiger one Nibblez, and Zena are in the backround

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[radgirl]

I saw a few pictures you had posted in another post and Bue really was a beautiful cat!! How lucky you were, and how lucky Bue was to have you for a Mom. I think everyone here has a similiar story about medical problems near the end, animals are so great at hiding things and they also can't talk to us......you did everything you could, please know that........

many hugs, Misty's Mama

[Bue's Mommy]

I saw a few pictures you had posted in another post and Bue really was a beautiful cat!! How lucky you were, and how lucky Bue was to have you for a Mom. I think everyone here has a similiar story about medical problems near the end, animals are so great at hiding things and they also can't talk to us......you did everything you could, please know that........

many hugs, Misty's Mama

Awww, ty Misty's Mama, and many hugs to you also. LOL, I like to think of Bue as being the son I never gave birth to, rofl. He kept the household in balance, my 9yr old female Zena has become aggresive since Bue's passing. She bullies Puddin, and Nibblez now. Bue had a calming affect on her, and any aggression in the houshold. Funny thing is, I never realized Bue looked older until I joined this forum, I always saw Bue as a kitten.

Thank you,for taking the time to look at his pics, and leave such loving, and caring comments. Im going to look for your thread right now.

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[radgirl]

I also saw Misty as the son I never gave birth too. I really mean it, Bue really and a beautiful and adorable cat. You can just see the specialness in his pictures.......I absolutely love the white neck......he must have been so special.......

More later, Misty's Mama

[Bue's Mommy]

Hugs Radgirl, thanks again for stopping by my thread. I know your baby Misty was special too.

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[forduffy]

Hi Bue's Mommy,
What beautiful kitties your kids all are! Bue was so handsome. I'm so sorry for such a devastating loss.
Hugs to you and your babies,
Stephanie

[Bue's Mommy]

Hugs back at ya Forduffy, thank you for the kind words. I'm sorry for your loss too.
I have to admit though, my kitties are hams when it comes to the camera, lol. Do you have any other pics of your baby?

I'm going to try to find your thread Stephanie, but if I can't can you leave me a link please. I want to stop by, and pay my respects.

Thanks Again

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[Bue's Mommy]

To all Pet Owners...

To be posted VERY LOW on the refrigerator door - nose height

Dear Dogs and Cats:

The dishes with the paw print are yours and contain your food. The
other
dishes are mine and contain my food. Please note, placing a paw print
in the
middle of my plate and food does not stake a claim for it becoming your
food
and dish, nor do I find that aesthetically pleasing in the slightest.

The stairway was not designed by NASCAR and is not a racetrack. Beating
me
to the bottom is not the object. Tripping me doesn't help because I
fall
faster than you can run.

I cannot buy anything bigger than a king-sized bed. I am very sorry
about
this. Do not think I will continue sleeping on the couch to ensure your
comfort. Dogs and cats can actually curl up in a ball when they sleep.
It is
not necessary to sleep perpendicular to each other stretched out to the
fullest extent possible. I also know that sticking tails straight out
and
having tongues hanging out the other end to maximize space is nothing
but
sarcasm.

For the last time, there is not a secret exit from the bathroom. If by
some
miracle I beat you there and manage to get the door shut, it is not
necessary to claw, whine, meow, and try to turn the knob or get your
paw
under the edge and try to pull the door open. I must exit through the
same
door I entered. Also, I have been using the bathroom for years --
canine or
feline attendance is not required.

The proper order is kiss me, then go smell the other dog or cat's butt.
I
cannot stress this enough!

To pacify you, my dear pets, I have posted the following message on our
front door:


To All Non-Pet Owners Who Visit & Like to Complain About Our Pets:
They live here. You don't.
If you don't want their hair on your clothes, stay off the furniture.
(That's why they call it "fur"nature.)
I like my pets a lot better than I like most people.
To you, it's an animal. To me, he/she is an adopted son/daughter who is
short, hairy, walks on all fours and doesn't speak clearly.
Remember: In many ways, dogs and cats are better than kids because
they:
1 Eat less
2. Don't ask for money all the time
3. Are easier to train
4. Normally come when called
5. Never ask to drive the car
6. Don't hang out with drug-using friends
7. Don't smoke or drink
8. Don't have to buy the latest fashions
9. Don't want to wear your clothes
10. Don't need a "gazillion" dollars for college.

And finally,
11. If they get pregnant, you can sell their children.

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[Bue's Mommy]

I'm feeling very emotional right now, so get ready for more pics of my babies!

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[kittymomma]

Hi Bue's Mommy! What beautiful catchildren! You post as many pics as you need to! I have been emotional myself for the past two days again. It comes and goes, doesn't it? Posting pics of them helps,like you said "Acknowledge and honor their lives, not so much mourn their deaths."
For they can never really be taken from us and you know Bue is your guardian angel now, to watch over you until you can be together again.
You have given me great solace since I have come here recently, I only hope I can hug you back when you need it!
Susan

[Bue's Mommy]

Hugs Susan, thank you so much for your support. You're right it does come, and go. The one constant thing is that I love all of my kitties, and they love me.

I have this translucent stick with a long piece of material coming from it, I bought it at Petco, so that cats could chase as I ran with it. Bue loved that toy, I played with my other kitties with it for the first time last night since Bue's passing.

I went to a online shelter to look at their ktties, I saw one similar to Bue. I know I'm not ready for another kitty, but I still think about it.

Susan you have given alot of support to others grieving in this forum, I really appreciate your kindness.

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[Bue's Mommy]

Aww, LoveThem, thank you so much. I love the pic on your post of Little guy too.
If you notice 95% of my kitty pics take place on my bed too, lol.
How are you doing? I posted to your thread too.

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[forduffy]

Wow- I love coming to your post and looking at all of your wonderful pictures. You have some of the most beautiful kitties that I have ever seen. I love these pics-they bring a smile to my face after shedding so many tears.