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 A Visit From Daisy, It's been a month |
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 Apr 30 2006, 03:39 PM
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Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 334 Joined: 2-April 06 Member No.: 1,515  |
Last night, both my husband and I dreamed that Daisy came back. In my husband's dream, Daisy was licking his face and he wanted to tell me that she was back. In my dream, Daisy was laying on the pillow next to my head and I wanted to tell him that she was back. Both our dreams occurred between 4:00 and 6:00 a.m.
We have both been so unhappy since her death, him even more than me if that is possible. Has anyone else had an experience like this? It seems more than a coincidence to me. I believe that she came to tell us that she was alright and that we should not be so unhappy. Yet, I still am. I miss her so much. Daisy's Mommy, Anne |
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Apr 30 2006, 04:37 PM
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 Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 74 Joined: 7-April 06 Member No.: 1,530 |
Daisy's mom,
You are so lucky that she came to visit you both. I believe it's Daisy's way that she's there with you and she's not gone after all. It's their way of appeasing us, calming us. If only we can see them, huh? That's what I wish too, that I can touch my baby! Take care! LuckyNono's mom |
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 Apr 30 2006, 05:59 PM
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Group: Moderators Posts: 776 Joined: 26-February 04 From: Massachusetts, USA Member No.: 245 |
Hi Daisy's Mommy:
There's no question......you and your husband received a very, very special gift from your beloved Daisy  in your dreams!!!! Daisy certainly was in your dreams -- she was letting you & your husband know for sure that she is just fine where she is now. There's no more pain, and she has plenty of friends to play with, lots of food & water. Our sweet furbabies don't want us to be unhappy. I know that my Ernestine hated it when I was sad -- she'd always "know", and come to where I was. The same goes for our present two furkids, Ms. Lucy and Mr. Yoster ---- They just "know". I'll bet that when Daisy was here on earth, and if you were sad, depressed, crying......that she was right there with you -- trying her very best to comfort you. (and, without doubt, I'm sure that sweet Daisy succeeded!!) And, as well, if you were happy & joyous, I'll bet that Daisy was right with you again....wagging her tail & being happy, too --- Because YOU were happy!! Was your Daisy like that, when you felt different emotions? We are all soooooo very, very blessed to have had that amazing unconditional love & acceptance that ONLY a furbaby can give.....(not only furbabies, but, any kind of animal/pet -- some swim, some hop, some slither, some fly.....etc... )THERE'S NOTHING LIKE IT --- WE'RE THE LUCKY ONES!!! Of that, I have NO DOUBT!! Your Avatar of Daisy is so very, very beautiful & precious. (Though, I didn't see the Avatar on this post). She looks like she was the sweetest!  Anne, it has only been one month since Daisy left this earth. It is really very early in the grieving process, and it's extremely normal for you to be feeling sad & missing Daisy. I would be surprised if you felt different. You will always miss Daisy.....and, some days/nights will be worse than others, BUT....it will, one day, feel better.. I promise you that! Daisy is with you every single minute of every single day --- right inside your heart!!! No, I know that we cannot feel them or pet them like before - but, she will always be with you. There's no question, I still love & miss my precious Ernie-Bird very much, BUT..... I know without a doubt that she is up at Rainbow's Bridge & having a blast with all of her pals up there.I'm sure that she & Daisy are enjoying the warm sun & chasing butterflies!! Please, keep coming here to LS, and letting us know if Daisy comes to visit you & your hubby again....... God Bless You & Yours, Love, Denise -------------------- Our Beloved Girl, Ernestine (AKA) "Ernie-Bird"
April, 1984 - February 7, 2004 ***AFFA*** Forever, you will ALWAYS live on in our hearts! DEPARTED FROM EARTH, NEVER FORGOTTEN.... Love, Mom & Dad xoxoxoxoxo ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* "He who is cruel to animals becomes hard also in his dealings with men. We can judge the heart of a man by his treatment of animals." Immanuel Kant "Think occasionally of the suffering of which you spare yourself the sight" Albert Schweitzer |
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Apr 30 2006, 07:50 PM
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Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 334 Joined: 2-April 06 Member No.: 1,515 |
Yes, Daisy was just like that. If I ever cried, she would come running to lick my face. She was even more upset when my husband was unhappy. And if the mood was good in the house, Daisy was joyous.
Thank you for writing back. This site really helps. I couldn't have made it at all without it. Daisy's Mommy |
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May 1 2006, 04:56 AM
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 Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 49 Joined: 15-February 06 Member No.: 1,420 |
Daisy's mom
YUP I think for sure it was a visit they love us so they do come to try to give us comfort. I have found that writing these things down helps alot I don't think I will ever forget my visits from Tillie but then again somedays my memory is not so good lol. I am so happy for both you and your husband and a tad bit jealous. Tillies mom |
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May 1 2006, 10:43 PM
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 Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 32 Joined: 7-April 06 From: Nashville, TN Member No.: 1,525 |
Daisy's Mom,
Tillie's mom helped clarify the difference between a "dream" and a "visit" for me. I think some are dreams, but it is very clear when you have a visit. You SEE every detail. You FEEL soft fur. You SMELL your special furbaby. You HEAR her breathing and wagging her tail. It is a VISIT! You and your husband were very blessed to both experience the visit from Daisy!! I know, if you were like me when mine occured, it does not last long enough and you are left with your empitness and lonliness again. I awoke to find myself drenched in tears and just missing her more. I was thrilled to have held her and stroked her young, healthy, fluffy white body, but I was completely overtaken with grief again because it just wasn't long enough. Daisy, indeed, did visit you and was showing you both that she is young and healthy again. She will come again when the time is right. Crystal's Mom (Missing Crystal 3 weeks, 4 days) -------------------- Safe in the hands of our creator, but remaining in our hearts forever.
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May 2 2006, 06:14 PM
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Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 334 Joined: 2-April 06 Member No.: 1,515 |
Crystal's Mom,
I agree with you completely - there is a difference between a dream and a visit. I didn't think Daisy would really visit, but because of the timing and similarities of my husband's and my experience, I believe it was a visit. As you said, it was not long enough and I missed her all the more when I woke up. It seems like she made a long journey back just to make us less unhappy. Although I hope she visits again, I don't feel like she will come again until it is time for me (or my husband) to join her - then whoever goes first will hopefully hear a familiar bark and will know that Daisy has come to take him or me to our final home. My little Daisy. I miss her so much. Daisy's Mommy |
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May 3 2006, 02:19 PM
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Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 24 Joined: 17-April 06 Member No.: 1,545 |
I haven't experienced that, but I wish I would. I want to "see" my Little Kitty so much and I miss her so badly. My husband did think he heard her meowing the night after she died. He got up at 315 in the morning and raced outside looking for her. That wasn't a comforting experience for us. I would love to have a sign from her that tells us she's happy and loves/misses us.
I do believe that she visited you and that's very special. -------------------- Missing my "Little Kitty"
January, 1994 - April 15, 2006 |
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