Should I Keep Coming To This Site?, Sometimes it hurts Options

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Let me first say that I'm eternally grateful for the support that I have received on this site. It's wonderful that sites such as this one exist. When I first started coming here, this site was my lifeline. Lately, however, reading other's stories seems to intensify my grief. And I can't always offer support because I'm hurting too much to be very optimistic.

I know that many people have been on this site for quite a while. And if it's helping them, that's wonderful. What I'm wondering is if they've ever needed to take a "break" from the site, if there were times when it made things worse. It is one month today since Duke passed and today has been really, really hard for me. I can't word things very well when I'm in this state of mind and the last thing I want to do is offend anyone. Please know that I'm not passing judgement on anyone who has stayed with this site for a long time. We all grieve differently and I'm looking for opinions. I don't know what to do. I'm wondering if other people have felt this way.

Tracy