Guilt, Grief Options

[Mike]

I am a 50 year old man and my 20 year old cat (Eeyore) is on her last legs with kidney disease.
She lives at my mothers the past 5 years because my wife is allergic to her. I try and see her every day, but I am afraid of her dying. I am afraid my emotions will be so horrendous and my thoughts! Donna is very understanding , we have been together for five years, even suggesting to bring her to live here. Funny, I feel closer to this cat than my wife. I cant explain it, shes been with me through alot.
Thanks pet support for letting me share this. I really appreciate this.
Love to all, Mike

[zoeysdad]

Hi Mike,

I'm very sorry you are having to go through this. All of us here at LS fully understand and share your pain and we will be here to listen anytime you need to talk. Please keep us updated on how things are going....just being able to talk with people who truly care about what you are going through will help more than you know.

I'll join Caroline and many others by sending positive thoughts your way.

__Jim