I Lost Mira, My Best Friend, I'm in a personal hell. Options

[AugustusS]

Hello. I desperately need someone to talk to here and there and just don't understand this site. I posted in a spot and don't know if this spot is right either. Nobody will reply. Please help. I'm a nice guy I just need some support with losing my angel. It was such a tragedy I'm just in agony ans hell.

[erinpuglover]

Hi Augustus,

I just thought I would add my condolences. I would never wish the pain felt during the loss of a pet on even my worst enemy. I'm so glad you shared your story about Mira. I do hope you are able to figure out the issues with the site because I would love to see a photo of your beloved.

Give yourself space and time to feel and grieve as you need - not as anyone else thinks or says is appropriate. It's been 5 weeks since I lost my pug winnie in my arms, where she took her last breath, and it's still heart wrenching. That being said, nothing compares to the first few days of wrapping my head around what happened and if there was ANYTHING else I could have done. Know that so much of that is grief speaking and working its way through you - you did everything in your power to help your Mira and she knows this.

I too have continued to struggle with the idea that I've lost all the opportunities I had planned for my pug girl and our family. It's so insanely difficult to accept that all the things I had pictured us doing together were suddenly stolen from me.

I still don't have the strength to put away her toys, her bed or even her water bowl. It reminds me that while she is not physically here with me, her spirit is at my side.

Sending you love and my heartfelt sympathies. Know that we are all here for you anytime you need to share what you're feeling.

[AugustusS]

I am trying to quickly respond to people to convey my deep gratitude but my ability to write is at times fleeting. Please, for the time being, don't judge my lack of words as a poor attempt or lack of gratitude because quite frankly, I hate to keep saying "gratitude" consider what I feel for you all is kindred and I am so blessed to have the support. I will write more soon. Thanks sooooo much!!!!