I Lost Mira, My Best Friend, I'm in a personal hell. Options

[AugustusS]

Hello. I desperately need someone to talk to here and there and just don't understand this site. I posted in a spot and don't know if this spot is right either. Nobody will reply. Please help. I'm a nice guy I just need some support with losing my angel. It was such a tragedy I'm just in agony ans hell.

[moon_beam]

Hi, Augustus, thank you so very much for sharing with us how you're doing, and what happened with your beloved Mira. Sadly, our society in general, and sometimes including specific individuals in our lives, consider our companions to be "expendable", but for us who come to this wonderful forum know better - - for we know the wonder and majesty of devoted love beyond all comprehensible words in every language that can only be shared with our precious and beloved companions. And because we allow ourselves to surrender to their unconditional love and undivided attention, we also bear the most painful burden of sorrow when they precede us to the angels - - however that event happens.

Please let me try to reassure you that what you are feeling and experiencing is very normal deep grief - - very painful both emotionally and physically, yes - - still very normal. Right now, and for quite awhile to come, you will not have much control over your emotions. Clinical professionals now recognize that the grief journey for a beloved companion is the same as for a human family member or friend. I hope you will have your parents for support during your grief journey, and that you and your parents will be able to support each other. And please know that each of us are here for you for as long and as often as you need us. There are no judgments made here, - - no "time restrictions" on "how long" you feel the need to grieve for your beloved Mira. Even though eventually the deep searing pain will ease, there will always be a place in your heart that will miss your beloved Mira's physical presence - - for in reality she has taken a part of your heart with her to heaven's perfect garden to hold and to cherish until it is your appropriate time to join her in eternal joy. And she has left her heart with you to hold and to cherish as you continue your earthly journey - - - for she is always and forever a part of your heart and memories, Augustus - - no matter how much time passes as you continue your earthly journey - - she is and always will be a heartbeat close to you.

Unfortunately, veterinary medicine has become similar to human medicine in terms of financial compensation for services rendered. Here in the States many hospitals will not perform services unless they have proof of a patient's ability to pay - - insurance, etc. - - and deductibles are required to be paid in full BEFORE services are rendered. I don't know what the new procedures are now, and will evolve to be, under the current Affordable Care Act but I do hope there will be a return to a more "humanitarian" concept in medical care - - for both human and veterinary medicine.

There is a topic on this website that gives instructions on uploading pictures. If you haven't already read it, you may want to do so and hopefully it will give you the help you need to upload a picture(s) of your beloved Mira. If you continue to have problems, please do not hesistate to e-mail the L S Administrator for help. He is always graciously willing to offer assistance.

Augustus, once again thank you so very much for honoring us in sharing your beloved Mira with us. I know all too well from first hand experience what you are going through, and please let me try to reassure you once again that you are among friends here who are here for you for as long and as often as you need us.

I hope today is treating you kindly, Augustus, and that you will have a peaceful evening blessed with your beloved Mira's sweet Living Spirit to comfort you. Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers, and please let us know how you're doing.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

[AugustusS]

Noooooooooo!!!!! This site is killing me. I just poured my heart out for an hour writing and I tried to upload a smaller pic and I got distracted and now it's all goneeeeeeeeee.... Omg. I was thanking you all and saying so much!