My Loss, Dasher Options

[dancer]

My 16 year old kitten passed 8/24/2014 I am so alone and at a loss without her in my world, not sure how to get through each quiet day

[moon_beam]

Hi, dancer, thank you for sharing with us how you're doing. Sadly, most people think that immediately adopting another companion will "cure" the deep sorrow of grief. Although some people do find it comforting to adopt quickly after a beloved companion has transitioned home to the angels, they still have difficulty "bonding" with the new companion because their hearts are still grieving the physical absence of their previous companion. Only YOU, dancer, can decide when / if the time is "right" for you to embrace another precious companion into your heart and home. You are very wise to recognize that, for now, you need time to grieve for your beloved Dasher.

I hope today is treating you kindly, dancer, and that you will have a very peaceful evening blessed with your beloved Dasher's and Dancer's sweet Living Spirits to comfort you. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, dancer, and please let us know how you're doing.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

[dancer]

Hi, dancer, thank you for sharing with us how you're doing. Sadly, most people think that immediately adopting another companion will "cure" the deep sorrow of grief. Although some people do find it comforting to adopt quickly after a beloved companion has transitioned home to the angels, they still have difficulty "bonding" with the new companion because their hearts are still grieving the physical absence of their previous companion. Only YOU, dancer, can decide when / if the time is "right" for you to embrace another precious companion into your heart and home. You are very wise to recognize that, for now, you need time to grieve for your beloved Dasher.

I hope today is treating you kindly, dancer, and that you will have a very peaceful evening blessed with your beloved Dasher's and Dancer's sweet Living Spirits to comfort you. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, dancer, and please let us know how you're doing.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Hello Moonbeam, The tragic loss will be with me forever. At this time I never want too feel the way I am ever again. Baby steps for now. I visit Dasher and Dancers grave often a few times each day. I bought my home after going through chemo and radiation, for the 3 of us too have a place of our own too be laid too rest. This day has come for both Dasher and Dancer, a day I didn't believe would come so soon. Facing reality in my life is difficult. I am working every day possible too not stop and think/feel, its the only way for me today too survive. Life has changed as planned for me, I just never thought I'd be alone in my world.. Thank you moonbeam I feel your heart and kindness and look forward too your emails Judith Dasher and Dancer