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[snrein1016]

Hi All,

I don't have much to add from what has already been said. My heart is totally broken, and the pain is overwhelming. I actually can't believe how much it hurts, how much pain people can take and still survive.



Love and blessings to anyone else who is experiencing this.

Suzanne

[moon_beam]

Hi, Suzanne, thank you so much for sharing with us how you're doing. First I want to tell you that I am so very sorry that your trip to Ireland turned out to be a horrible disaster for you. I believe the timing is the culprit with it happening so soon after your beloved Poe joined the angels. Please let me try to reassure you that what you are feeling is very normal deep grief when you share with us: "I seems like it hurts just as much as it did at the beginning. I just want him here with me. I feel like he took a little part of my heart with him."

Yes, your beloved Poe does hold a part of your heart with him in eternal joy - - so that he will have a part of you with him as he patiently waits for your appropriate time to join him in eternal joy. If you can think of it this way: I'm sure you have seen the "broken heart" necklaces - - one piece you keep for yourself and the other piece is held by your closest friend or loved one - - when you are together those pieces fit together as one heart. So it is with you and your beloved Poe. While each of you are temporarily physically separated from one another for awhile, each of you hold each other's heart in trust until you are reunited.

Suzanne, please let me try to reassure you that two months is just the beginning of your grief adjustment journey. It really is way too soon for you to expect yourself to have any kind of consistent control over your emotions. This grief journey is frequently referrred to as a horror roller coaster ride with all the ups and downs, twists and turns and turnarounds. It is important that you focus on taking one day at a time, sometimes one moment at a time, and allow yourself the opportunities you need to openly grieve for your beloved Poe. I promise you, Suzanne, that one day you will find the pain in your heart begin to ease, and when this happens, you will be able to smile again when you think of your beloved Poe and all the wonderful treasured memories you share together. Until this day comes for you, please know we are here for you.

I hope today is treating you kindly, Suzanne, and that you will have a peaceful evening blessed with your beloved Poe's sweet Living Spirit to comfort you. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, and please let us know how you're doing.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam