My Darling Donnie Options

[DonniesMom]

This is my first post. I wanted to share my love story. My sweet black Labrador was born on September 12, 2008. My husband brought him home when he was six weeks old. We were immediately inseparable. Every minute spent with him was an adventure! He was the sweetest funniest puppy I have ever had, and he grew into the kindest, most loving and wonderful dog I could ever hope for. I lost him to cancer on April 30, 2012. The saddest day of my life. I held him in my arms as he took his last breath and I felt my heart shattering. The sun has not shined the same for me since that day. My best friend no longer waits for me to come home at the end of the day. He isn't here to give me a hug when I am sad. No more cuddles, no more walks, no more handshakes. No more unconditional love for me. I feel so achingly lonely. I miss you so much Donnie. Sleep tight my angel

[moon_beam]

Hi, DonniesMom, thank you so very much for sharing with us how you and your precious Damien are doing, and the wonderful picture of your beloved Donnie. He is sooo handsome.

Yes, I personally know about the feline / canine family bond, and know so very well how your precious Damien is missing his big doggie brother. It is important for you to do what you feel up to doing, DonniesMom, and if staying in bed cuddling with your precious Damien is all you can handle, then that is all you need to do. Comforting your precious Damien will also bring comfort to you in return. Please do not be afraid to share your deepest sorrow with your precious Damien. He knows how deep your sorrow is and he needs to share it with you -- for the tears you cry are not just for you but for him as well. And clinical studies prove that suppressing sorrow only makes matter worse, so for your own health you need to express your grief.

I truly wish there were an easier way through this grief journey, DonniesMom. If I knew of one I would most certainly share it with you. I know I stress this but it is vitally important for you to know you are not alone in your grief journey. Grieving can make us feel so totally alone, abandoned, isolated even when we are surrounded by caring compassionate friends and family. Once again please know each of us are here for you for as long and as often as you need us.

Thank you so very much for sharing your beloved Donnie with us. I hope you and your precious Damien will have a peaceful evening. Please know you and your precious Damien are in my thoughts and prayers, and look forward to sharing how you both are doing.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam