I Love You, Trevor Options

[Bobbie]

To my sweet, loving, bravest little dog in the world. To you, my Trevor,


Mommy still thinks about you every minute of every day and hopes that you are having the time of your life. I miss you my little hunky bunky and can't wait to be together again. Uh, oh, my eyes are leaking again. Time for you and me to go to bed.

Good night, my honey, my love, my everything!

XOMommyXO

PS: I LOVE YOU TREVOR!!!!!!!

[moon_beam]

Hi, Bobbie, thank you so much for sharing with us how you're doing. Grieving can actually exacerbate clinical depression, which can prolong indefinitely the deep grief. The stress from grieving can actually change the chemical balance in our brains, sometimes leading to the need for temporary medicinal intervention. I'm glad you're being able to talk to your counselor, and trust that he / she is offering you support and encouragement.

Bobbie, with everything that you and your beloved Trevor went through, particularly during the last two months, it does not surprise me that you feel like you are "locked into" your grief. It is quite normal to experience a "collapse" both emotionally and physically as a caregiver, so please try to be gentle with yourself. Having to be "strong" to prevent others around you from being insensitive doesn't help. It is important that you give yourself the private time to let go - - to cry, to grieve. And I hope you will feel my arms reaching out to you, holding you, comforting you when you need to feel the touch of someone who knows what you are going through. And I hope you feel sweet Dreamer's comforting presence as well - - your beloved Trevor's and all of your companions' gift of love to you - - only you - - just for you.

I hope today is being kind to you and your little Dreamer, Bobbie. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, and always look forward to knowing how you're doing.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam