Bad Day For Me Options

[bubkins]

Dear everyone,i am having a really bad day today,time just drags and i can't stop thinking about this time last week,last month,last year,5 years ago all this time when my baby Louis was still with me,my marriage is in tatters and all i can think about is Louis,Louis,Louis,wish i could just disappear,i would never do anything to myself,that would be so selfish and my furbabies need me here but i miss my boy so much it hurts.

[bubkins]

Just wanted to tell you that i collected Louis today from the vet,i can't bring myself to say the words,the box is so tiny Louis is so big,can hardly believe it's him,last week he was here in the hall feeling poorly i could see that but he was here,my ex brother in law came to see me today and he was so shocked as he'd seen him not long ago,my baby baby boy,God i miss him so much.If i could have one thing to say to my baby Louis it would be thank you,thank you for being a perfect perfect boy and i love you more than words can say,we will be together at Rainbow Bridge,blessings baby boy,always.*********************xx

[Peggy's Human]

Dear Bubkins,

Please accept my most heartfelt condolences on the loss of your beloved Louis. I agree wholeheartedly with what our wise and loving forum members have already said and there’s really little I can add to their sage words. I don’t know if it helps but I will also validate that having no appetite for food for the first couple of weeks after a heart wrenching loss is normal. When I lost my sweet, little Peggy, I literally couldn’t eat for 3 days. I kiddingly told my mother that it took me 8 months to get 10 lbs off of Peggy’s weight but she won cause she got me to drop more than 5 lbs in 3 days. I think picking them up from the vets, weeks after the ‘event’ is just as heartbreaking as the initial loss (for me, anyway). Even though we know exactly what the situation is we’re dealing with, bringing them home for the last time physically drives home that painful reality of the situation. It’s horrible and devastating. I am so sorry you’re having to deal with this.

Please know that Louis is well aware of how much you loved him. It’s not possible to love another creature that much and for them to not know. I have no doubt he returned that love fully. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and I hope you have a peaceful day today.

Take care,

Peggy