Bad Day For Me Options

[bubkins]

Dear everyone,i am having a really bad day today,time just drags and i can't stop thinking about this time last week,last month,last year,5 years ago all this time when my baby Louis was still with me,my marriage is in tatters and all i can think about is Louis,Louis,Louis,wish i could just disappear,i would never do anything to myself,that would be so selfish and my furbabies need me here but i miss my boy so much it hurts.

[Gretta's Mom]

Hello Bubkins

You're right - I love all animals. Who could not like cats?!? It's just that sometimes by the time I'm ready to start a post I've forgotten whether the animal is a he or a she (but I don't usually forget the species!!).

Yeah, wine without food but with heartbreak and tears is sometimes not that good a piece of news. Bubkins, you don't have to stop eating because your baby stopped eating just before he passed. Every living being does that. Gretta, too. You've got a lot of life left and a lot of animals to love yet. They'll find you. Don't worry.

I think we'll cry for the rest of our lives, but the tears won't always be desperate toxic ones like they are in the beginning. And NEVER stop using the present tense about your baby. I do the same thing with Gretta - to remind myself the she IS and someday we will be reunited.

Bubkins, try to get some rest tonight and let us know how you're doing in the morning.

Your new friend,

Gretta's mom