I Just Can't Cope Options

[olivia]

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[Bobbie]

Oliva, please, please know that your beloved dog KNOWS that what you did was TOTALLY out of love for her. Second guessing and feeling so terribly guilty on hurts you more than you already are hurting. I know. I have been there myself with my late dog, Rudy. I found the most healing thing I could do is write Rudy an actual letter, telling him how sorry I was, how I loved him, missed him and everything that was in my heart. I was sobbing while writing and had to stop many times, but I finally finished a 4 page letter. Sealed it in an envelope and put it in a very safe place. The next day I had to do the same thing again. Now I have TWO letters. Putting everything on paper relieves your mind and heart of carrying such an awful burden and gives you the chance to slowly heal. And remember all the good you did for her and with her.

You have my deepest sympathy.
Bobbie