All Alone Today Options

[radgirl]

My daughter is in school today and today would have been a "Mama and Magic" day. IT's beautiful out and it has just made me so sad. I am so angry with the babysitter, she did not help look for her, lied about when she let out, and let us look in sheds for two days before finally admitting she left her out all night.She seems more concerned we will bad mouth her in the neighborhood, yet acts liek everything is back to normal........

Today is just such a lonely day.........sitting here by myself. I can't wait until we leave on our trip---I think a change of scenery is the only way to completely get my mind off things. We made it out several playdates recently, and I've been fine of those days....but today was just a huge step back.

why does society make you feel like you should forget about a pet in two days?? I feel like a failure for feeling this way.......

Radgirl

[Juturna]

Dear Radgirl,

The visual reminders can intensify the deep grief. Please be gentle with yourself at this time. I totally understand the loneliness.

Also, know that anyone who expects you to forget about an animal companion in a matter of days, has never experienced the true joy that a furchild can bring. They have missed a precious bond in their life.

One day at a time for now.
With peace and healing thoughts,
Juturna