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Mink&WillowsMom
post Feb 2 2011, 02:31 PM
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Many of you have been following Sable's saga. (In Lost & Missing, "Do Finders Have to be Keepers?") This morning I took her to the vet's to let her go. Such a sweet girl. Three years ago I found her on the freeway, near death, stranded in the grassy median. Brought her home, and after a week of thinking it over, she decided to live. Fattened up to 10 pounds, though remained with weak kidneys, and arthritis in her shoulder. She purred me to sleep, and purred me awake, always sleeping right next to my head. After about a year, she seemed to 'wake up' a bit, and get off the bed to sit in the livingroom, or go lie in the sun on the back porch.

Over this winter, she was back to sleeping about 23 hours a day. I'd been noticing a decline, but of course it's always gradual. Last week I suddenly saw that she was really winding down, getting ready to go. I realized she'd stopped eating. Still, she purred. She and I talked about euthanasia, and I asked her to tell me when she was ready. Last night I got home from work, and through the evening every so often she'd let out a meow/howl of pain. She was able to get to sleep again around midnight, so I was able to get sleep last night, then first thing this morning took her to the vet.

I'm almost finished digging her grave. I'm grateful the sun is shining, since it's still below freezing. That's my biggest concern, she hated being cold. I know she's out of her body now, but still. She's wrapped in a fleece blanket, and has a little cardboard coffin box too.

It took a long time for us to bond, but we did. My love for her was quiet and full of compassion. I loved her morning serenades, purring me awake. For pics, and to read more of her story, click here: Sable's Story Part I and Sable's story part II.


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post Feb 5 2011, 03:10 PM
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Hi, Kim, thank you so much for sharing with us how you and your fur family are doing. Each one reacts differently to change, and there is no "wrong" way to pay homage to a family member who has joined the angels. I'm glad your precious Willow and Rohon are doing better along with your precious Luna.

I am so glad that you are finding more peace in your grief adjustment journey, Kim. Thank you for sharing your precious Sable with us. I hope that you and your fur family will have a peaceful weekend, Kim, and I will look forward to knowing how you're doing whenever possible.

Peace and blessings,
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The most blessed way I have of knowing God's comforting love and grace is to look into the eyes and heart of God's creatures' sweet angelic face.
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- Mink&WillowsMom   Sweet Sable   Feb 2 2011, 02:31 PM
- - janika   Dear Mink&WillowsMom Your dear Sweet Sable is...   Feb 2 2011, 03:04 PM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   Now I'm at that last step of closing up the bo...   Feb 2 2011, 03:08 PM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Mink&Willow'sMom, please permit me to ...   Feb 2 2011, 03:27 PM
- - Cheryl83   I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Sa...   Feb 2 2011, 03:38 PM
- - Diamond-Bear   Hello, Mink&WillowsMom. Please accept my deep...   Feb 2 2011, 08:55 PM
- - JoanneL   So sorry about Sable's death. She was so luck...   Feb 2 2011, 09:44 PM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   Rereading her story, I'm reminded the first pa...   Feb 2 2011, 10:23 PM
- - Juturna   Please accept my sincerest sympathy on the loss of...   Feb 2 2011, 10:49 PM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   It's 10:35p, and I'm stalling. Sable live...   Feb 3 2011, 01:38 AM
- - corinnajane   Wishing you luck, hon. Just wanted to say: What...   Feb 3 2011, 09:02 AM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Mink&WillowsMom, I hope today has been a d...   Feb 3 2011, 06:06 PM
- - JoanneL   To Mink and Willow's mom ( and Sable's) Ho...   Feb 3 2011, 09:37 PM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   I'm doing pretty well emotionally. I have a v...   Feb 3 2011, 10:54 PM
- - Juturna   Glad to learn that you are doing well emotionally....   Feb 3 2011, 11:59 PM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   I went to bed at 8:15p, with the option of getting...   Feb 4 2011, 05:10 AM
|- - Juturna   QUOTE (Mink&WillowsMom @ Feb 4 2011, 05...   Feb 4 2011, 05:32 PM
- - rainbohdi   what an amazing story, both of you are amazing. i...   Feb 4 2011, 01:24 PM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Kim, thank you so much for sharing with us how...   Feb 4 2011, 05:49 PM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   Thank you all for your support -- I SOOOO apprecia...   Feb 4 2011, 11:13 PM
- - JoanneL   Mink and Willow's mom Glad you will be able to...   Feb 4 2011, 11:44 PM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   I wouldn't say the other cats are grieving; at...   Feb 5 2011, 02:05 AM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Kim, thank you so much for sharing with us how...   Feb 5 2011, 03:10 PM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   I know it makes sense to feel relieved she died be...   Feb 6 2011, 03:10 AM
- - Flossie's Mom   It makes perfect sense to me..... I had a lot of t...   Feb 6 2011, 08:53 AM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   Thanks Flossie's Mom, I appreciate your though...   Feb 6 2011, 09:19 AM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Kim, like Flossie's Mom I, too, greive for...   Feb 6 2011, 09:51 AM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   I miss her.   Feb 8 2011, 02:34 AM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Kim, I know, - - those three words say it all ...   Feb 8 2011, 04:12 PM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   Willow's showing an interesting change since S...   Feb 11 2011, 12:16 AM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   This morning I woke at 5am to see Rohan sitting ne...   Feb 11 2011, 11:45 AM
- - moon_beam   Hi, Kim, it is not unusual for the remaining furki...   Feb 11 2011, 03:05 PM


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