My Precious Baby Girl Options

[rainbohdi]

I am new here and not sure if is ok for me to be posting this so soon, but I guess someone will tell me if it's not.

I also don't know if it's ok to say what happened to her because it was so very awful and people might find it too hard to read, perhaps someone could tell me about that too.

I have supportive friends and they are all devastated that she is gone, even moreso because of how she went.

I couldn't have human babies so she was my one and only baby girl and my most precious love. She was 15 but still so agile and full of life and she neither acted nor looked her age. She loved me, her other people and life so very deeply. She made people smile every day, from her extended family to total strangers out on her walks. Even people who'd say they weren't dog people seemed to make an exception for her.

I know I have to go on, but it has been me and her for so long now that I don't know how to be just me. Every second of each day I have to fight the urge to curl up in a corner and die. I just miss her so badly it feels like every cell in my body is distressed, there is an ache and an emptiness I think will be there forever.

I couldn't save my sweet little girl, she trusted me to keep her safe and cared for and I just couldn't keep her safe this one time she needed it more than ever.

I hope everyone else suffering the pain of the loss of their babies is as ok as anyone can be at a time like this.

rb

[moon_beam]

Hi, Rainbohdi, when there are legal issues involved in a tragic event it does prolong the agony. I'm speaking from first hand experience from different circumstances, but I do understand how you're feeling when you say: "i think this is getting harder, not easier like they say it's supposed to with time." Your feelings truly do make very much sense to me, Rainbohdi, - - I truly wish you were not having to go through any of this.

Thank you for sharing your wonderful pictures of your precious Bohdi with us. What a cutie she is!! Oh - - how well I know the "explorer" picture!! My Oslo was an explorer too when we went for a walk on our property. Everything needed a good sniff, and when he got a scent he followed it for as far as I could go with him, and then I had to softly tell him we needed to head back - - so, he sniffed and explored all the way back home. I can just hear your precious Bohdi saying, "Hey, Oslo, over here - - check this out!!!" I know they are enjoying exploring all the wonders of heaven's perfect garden without any fear of getting lost or hurt for the angels are watching over them.

Rainbohdi, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers each and every day. I know this Sunday is going to be one of many mixed emotions for you. I hope you will feel your precious Bohdi's sweet Living Spirit with you at all times and in all circumstances, and especially on Sunday. I hope you will be able to get some peaceful rest tonight, Rainbohdi, and I will look forward to knowing how you're doing whenever possible.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam