My Precious Baby Girl Options

[rainbohdi]

I am new here and not sure if is ok for me to be posting this so soon, but I guess someone will tell me if it's not.

I also don't know if it's ok to say what happened to her because it was so very awful and people might find it too hard to read, perhaps someone could tell me about that too.

I have supportive friends and they are all devastated that she is gone, even moreso because of how she went.

I couldn't have human babies so she was my one and only baby girl and my most precious love. She was 15 but still so agile and full of life and she neither acted nor looked her age. She loved me, her other people and life so very deeply. She made people smile every day, from her extended family to total strangers out on her walks. Even people who'd say they weren't dog people seemed to make an exception for her.

I know I have to go on, but it has been me and her for so long now that I don't know how to be just me. Every second of each day I have to fight the urge to curl up in a corner and die. I just miss her so badly it feels like every cell in my body is distressed, there is an ache and an emptiness I think will be there forever.

I couldn't save my sweet little girl, she trusted me to keep her safe and cared for and I just couldn't keep her safe this one time she needed it more than ever.

I hope everyone else suffering the pain of the loss of their babies is as ok as anyone can be at a time like this.

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[rainbohdi]

it's coming up to six weeks and there are still people to tell ... telling people that your precious little bundle of black fluff was attaked and killed by another dog is so hard ... i feel so guilty for upsetting them.


thankyou so much for you kind and encouraging comments about the plan for bohdi's memorial. i needed to know if it was enough and your comments seem to indicate that it is.


i'm really don't know what to do with myself right now, so i decided to post another two pictures of my girl. she always looked scruffy even after a bath and brush, but it was part of her charm and strangely enough she always felt soooo soft. the second one is an odd one to love, but to me it shows my curious little investigator doing her very important work along the way of her morning walk.





i have to keep looking at photos of her whole and unharmed to counteract the horrific visions of her during and after the attack. so i needed some in here too.

i wish i could curl up and die, but i at least have to be around to make sure that dog is properly dealt so others aren't at risk of attack by it and also to see that the humans responsible for the dog are dealt with too.

i think this is getting harder, not easier like they say it's supposed to with time.

not sure if any of this makes sense, but i just needed some of the chaos in my head somewhere outside it.