My Sweet Spooky 5/17/97-12/23/10 Options

[Christina R.]

I lost my sweet dog Spooky 48 hours ago and I don't know what to do with myself. She was amazing and my constant companion for 13 1/2 years. I am so utterly pained right now. I'm just broken ....

The pain seems to get worse and my sobs seem to get louder ... I can't believe this has happened.

My sweet little girl was a Chihuahua/Min Pin mix and we were attached at the hip. I was her person ... and she let everyone know that. She's weathered so many storms with me and given me so much love and comfort - it's hard to fathom my world without her in it.

I had to have back surgery two months ago and have been laid up in bed ever since and she happily stayed by my side night and day. Unexpectedly, two and a half weeks ago she started having trouble walking. I've been living with my parents for the past 2 1/2 years, going back to school to start a new life for myself ... and when Spooky's problems started, I had to ask for help to get her in and out of the bed. It was torture watching my baby girl struggling to walk and not be able to help her. Torture. My brother, her veterinarian, thought there she might have an infection in her spine, but every antibiotic we tried didn't help. Her condition declined so fast, it was awful. This week she couldn't walk at all and I prayed she would get better ... but it didn't happen. I cannot express the agonizing frustration I experienced not being able to lift her off the ground ... my stupid back.

Her last day here, my poor little girl was unable to walk, she could only sit up for a few minutes at a time, and she wouldn't eat and couldn't get her tongue to work right - just drinking was a chore. My little girl ... I know she didn't understand what was happening to her - she looked so scared every time she fell over. My brother thinks little Spooky had some sort of tumor in her brain that was causing her to lose her motor function. He told me I would know when it was time to let her go ... and I did. 48 hours ago, I gave my sweet baby girl the gift of peace and freedom from her failing body.

I'm just so broken up about it. I miss her so much and the loss is tremendous. I feel like a whole has been punched through my world and I'm in pieces.

I'm broken and feel so alone. How do I move on from this when I can't breath without thinking of her.

[Cheryl83]

Christina,

I am so very sorry for the devastating loss of your beautiful little girl. It hurts to even think of the pain you're in right now - the raw, unbearable agony; the feeling of being kicked in your stomach; the feeling of it hurting to even breathe. Trust me, I have been there, and trust me when I say that it does get easier. Not easy, but easier. I know that's hard to believe right now. I didn't believe it when people said it to me. But time - and tears - really are healers. It's important that you allow yourself to grieve and do whatever you need to do - cry if you need to cry, scream if you need to scream -- let it all out. It's also important to know that you're not alone. Everyone on this wonderful forum understand what you're going through, so whenever you feel the need to talk, just come online. We are all here for you, and will be wondering how you're doing. Just like your precious Spooky is STILL here for you. An angel watching over you. In your heart, and in your memories, always.

Take care and take each day at a time.

Cheryl xx