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[C_Kidd]

My cat of 12 years passed this morning about 2 am. She was showing signs of being sick a few hours before. I thought maybe she was just a bit under the weather. I gave her some milk and figured i'd check in on her and if she was still down i'd take her to vet early morn. After about 2 hours and checking on her often. She passed away. Right now i'm in such a dark place. I feel sooo bad for not taking her to the vet when she first looked sluggish. I miss her already.. Was one of the toughest things i had to go threw. I never thought this far ahead or ever of her passing. My best friend is gone and i'm having a really ruff time. I'm trying to keep my head up but .... it hurts alot.

[moon_beam]

Hi, C Kidd, please permit me to add my sincerest sympathies in the loss of your beloved companion. Losing a beloved companion is never easy regardless of the circumstances or how long we have been blessed with the privilege of their company.

Both Clay and Donna have so eloquently shared with you what is in my heart also, and I just want to add my affirmation to what they have already written. This grief journey is a one day at a time journey that is filled with many ups and downs twists and turns and turnarounds - - emotions that are often described as being on a nightmare roller coaster ride. One of the many things to remember is that you are not alone in your journey. Each of us are here for you for as long and as often as you need us.

C Kidd, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, and please let us know how you're doing.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

[Ken Albin]

My sincere condolences for your sudden loss. I know the shock of such a sudden death is heartwrenching.

[C_Kidd]

Ty all for your kind words. I will be having her cremated today. I pray she's not disapointed and me and knows how much I loved her. I haven't been to sleep yet. My mind is really wandering. Hard to lay my head down without her. She was very talkative. Every night she curls up next to me in bed. We always have conversations. She would answer me as if she understood my every word. I miss my baby, I'm so hurt right now.

[wchamilton]

Ty all for your kind words. I will be having her cremated today. I pray she's not disapointed and me and knows how much I loved her. I haven't been to sleep yet. My mind is really wandering. Hard to lay my head down without her. She was very talkative. Every night she curls up next to me in bed. We always have conversations. She would answer me as if she understood my every word. I miss my baby, I'm so hurt right now.

I think we all know that feeling, all too well... after the loss of such a beloved companion it's hard to take an interest in anything else.

You need to make sure you're taking care of yourself. Grief over the loss of a pet is a stressful event and it takes a tremendous toll on you, both physically and mentally. Even if it's just little things, make sure to eat and drink, and as hard as sleep may be you want to try your best to get some, even if it's only for a couple of hours. You're going through a very difficult time and you want to make sure to keep your strength up.

We're all here for you during this time.