Missing Lexa Options

[Axel&Lexa Mommy]

Tomorrow will be a week since we lost our beloved Lexa. I am so lost without her. I just can't beleive she is gone, I keep thinking this isn't real.


We only had Lexa for 6 years it was to soon to lose her, my life will never be the same.

[Cheryl83]

Hi,

Firstly, welcome to the forum. I hope you find some comfort here. I sure have.

Secondly, so sorry about your loss. Your pain is still so very fresh and raw right now. I can imagine you're still at the stage where you find it difficult to breathe, to eat, to function normally. At this stage, all you can do is just breathe...take each moment as it comes. Take each emotion as it comes. And embrace it, don't try to ignore it, or push it aside. If you need to cry, cry. If you need to scream, scream. The other piece of advice I give at this stage is to drink plently of water. It is important to stay hydrated... I remember too well the headaches, the dry mouth, the zombie like state, drinking lots of water will help with this.

You're still at the denial stage right now. This will slowly start to fade, although you still might find it returning in waves (as I still do just over 3 weeks on). Grief is a long process, you just have to ride with it. Take time to read this topics on these forums. There is a lot of great advice and support on here. Post more when you are feeling up to it.

Sorry again. It is so hard isn't it. We are all here for you.

Cheryl X