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 Jan 7 2010, 10:53 PM
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Hi All--
Darnnit, every time I look at Ladywolf now, I'm thinking, "she's dying, I wonder how much more time she has...?" I keep staring at her swollen back leg and wondering if it hurts her, if it's growing or shrinking, if, if, if. When I take her for a walk, I watch her movements constantly to see how much she's being affected by the tumors as she walks. I wonder how much she is missing Poppers. I feel as if I am not doing enough for her, when in fact, I am more or less dedicating my LIFE to her right now. But there's little pleasure left in my interactions with her, because I am spending all my time with her WORRYING now! All this has happened since the vet confirmed that she has cancer--everything changed, somehow. I'm moving through all the stages of grief constantly, and don't know how to be with her in a "normal" way anymore. Does any of this make sense to you folks? I hate this. I don't want to look at my beloved beauty and see only "dying wolf." It's all making me a little insane, and very very sad. Help, please! Thanks! Margi and Ladywolf |
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Jan 29 2010, 07:30 PM
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Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 549 Joined: 8-December 09 From: Pittsburgh, PA Member No.: 6,258 |
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Hi Margi I haven't been here lately had things going on with my mom. I just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and lady wolf. I hope she is doing well. Thinking of you both Anna & Angel Max xoxo |
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ladywolf How To Savor The Time With A Dying Pet? Jan 7 2010, 10:53 PM
sissycat I can't say i've been in your shoes, but I... Jan 8 2010, 12:05 AM madi Gees Margi, I do feel so sorry for you. I can only... Jan 8 2010, 02:00 AM Westiesam/Sharon Hi Margi
I'm sorry for what you're going t... Jan 8 2010, 07:28 AM Rhapsedy Hi Margi,
I know exactly what you are going thru.... Jan 8 2010, 09:03 AM Westiesam/Sharon Rhapsedy - you said it way better than what I was ... Jan 8 2010, 09:58 AM
ladywolf QUOTE (Westiesam/Sharon @ Jan 8 2010, 07... Jan 8 2010, 01:44 PM ladywolf Here's what NOT to do to make your life happie... Jan 8 2010, 02:55 PM madi Gees Margi, you really needed that didn't you?... Jan 10 2010, 07:56 AM ladywolf QUOTE (madi @ Jan 10 2010, 05:56 AM) Gees... Jan 10 2010, 06:43 PM luvmypets Margi,
I am so sorry to hear about Ladywolf. I k... Jan 8 2010, 03:08 PM moon_beam Hi, Margi, right now you are in shock at learning ... Jan 8 2010, 05:27 PM tanbuck Margi, I know just how you feel and I'm so sor... Jan 8 2010, 08:26 PM Westiesam/Sharon Hi Margi
How is ladywolf tonight? I'm still p... Jan 10 2010, 08:52 PM ladywolf QUOTE (Westiesam/Sharon @ Jan 10 2010, 06... Jan 10 2010, 09:19 PM goliath Hi Margi................Just wanted to let you kno... Jan 10 2010, 11:05 PM ladywolf QUOTE (goliath @ Jan 10 2010, 09:05 PM) H... Jan 12 2010, 12:35 AM Brutus Hi Margi...I bet Ladywolf just loves those wonderf... Jan 12 2010, 09:48 AM magdalene Take pictures, lots and lots of pictures. I treas... Jan 12 2010, 02:53 PM Westiesam/Sharon Hi Margi
Hope you and Ladywolf are doing great... Jan 13 2010, 07:18 AM smokey/lady/max
Hi Margi,
I seen this and thought of you and l... Jan 15 2010, 07:25 AM ladywolf QUOTE (smokey/lady/max @ Jan 15 2010, 05... Jan 15 2010, 08:46 AM janika That is so beautiful. Dear Anna is working her mag... Jan 15 2010, 09:24 AM ladywolf QUOTE (janika @ Jan 15 2010, 07:24 AM) Th... Jan 15 2010, 06:13 PM smokey/lady/max Hi Margi
I knew you where the right person to hel... Jan 15 2010, 08:36 PM ladywolf QUOTE (smokey/lady/max @ Jan 15 2010, 06... Jan 15 2010, 09:01 PM smokey/lady/max Margi,
Like I said I thought of your situation ri... Jan 15 2010, 09:10 PM ladywolf QUOTE (smokey/lady/max @ Jan 15 2010, 07... Jan 15 2010, 09:20 PM ladywolf Ladywolf has been kind of stumbling around today, ... Jan 17 2010, 10:47 PM janika Dear Margi and Ladywolf
So sorry to hear about yo... Jan 18 2010, 03:56 AM ladywolf Jan and everyone--
Thanks for your words of wisdo... Jan 18 2010, 08:52 PM smokey/lady/max
Hi Margi,
I am so glad that your ladywolf is do... Jan 18 2010, 10:56 PM ladywolf Thanks, hon.
Ladywolf was quite frisky today. We... Jan 21 2010, 12:56 AM madi Hi Margi, just came here to ask how Lady wolf is d... Jan 22 2010, 03:55 AM Brutus Hi Margi...sounds like Ladywolf is doing well on h... Jan 26 2010, 09:52 AM ladywolf Thanks so much, Madi, Sonya and everyone--
I... Jan 26 2010, 07:31 PM Berta Marji and Ladywolf, this is the first time I have ... Jan 26 2010, 11:32 PM Flossie's Mom I understand how you feel........... been there do... Jan 27 2010, 08:13 AM ladywolf [quote name='Flossie's Mom' date=... Jan 27 2010, 02:03 PM ladywolf Berta--
I am so sorry for your situation with you... Jan 27 2010, 02:09 PM Rhapsedy Margi,
I have read some dog cancer stories and so... Jan 27 2010, 03:16 PM ABT QUOTE (ladywolf @ Jan 7 2010, 10:53 PM) H... Jan 27 2010, 06:30 PM ladywolf QUOTE (ABT @ Jan 27 2010, 04:30 PM) Hi Ma... Jan 27 2010, 06:42 PM ladywolf QUOTE (smokey/lady/max @ Jan 29 2010, 05... Jan 29 2010, 09:46 PM smokey/lady/max
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Hi Again Margi,
I w... Jan 29 2010, 10:17 PM ladywolf QUOTE (smokey/lady/max @ Jan 29 2010, 08... Jan 29 2010, 10:20 PM Rhapsedy QUOTE (ladywolf @ Jan 29 2010, 10:20 PM) ... Jan 30 2010, 06:02 PM smokey/lady/max
Just napping with mommy and dreaming of snow in A... Jan 29 2010, 10:54 PM ladywolf QUOTE (smokey/lady/max @ Jan 29 2010, 08... Jan 30 2010, 12:04 AM |
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