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Jess
post Jul 19 2009, 08:12 PM
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I'll be flipping through the channels on TV and come across a movie I haven't seen in awhile; or I'll pick up a book I haven't read in awhile; or I'll find an article of clothing in my closet that I haven't worn in awhile. And I'll think to myself, 'The last time I saw this / read this / wore this, Sydney was still alive." It's like everything is a reminder of that happier phase of my life when my baby was still here with me. And instead of smiling at the happy memory that is conjured, I just feel so sad that I'm not in that phase of my life anymore. Just wondering if anyone else experiences this "The last time I did this . . ." phenomenon.

I have been having a lot of trouble with my grief again lately. It will be 12 weeks on Tuesday since my Sydney passed and I hate it. I miss her so much it is killing me still.
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gailie
post Aug 1 2009, 10:04 PM
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i'm sorry for your loss.

my beagle died 2 weeks ago and i've already thought of xmas. a few years ago my mom bought me a little beagle ornament with wings and this year it will signify miss lucy being in heaven. what i do is put ornaments in memory of my 3 schnauzers, my baby, my mom, and now my beagle, at the top of the tree, nearer to heaven.

and yea.. when i first take them out of the box, i shed some tears. because it's very sad.
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- Jess   Anyone Else Do This?   Jul 19 2009, 08:12 PM
- - eagle   Jess, Yes, I do that two weeks after I had to let...   Jul 19 2009, 09:02 PM
|- - AngelBear'sLuv   QUOTE (eagle @ Jul 19 2009, 10:02 PM) Jes...   Jul 20 2009, 05:30 PM
- - sissycat   Yes, Holidays have been a big reminder for me. I...   Jul 20 2009, 10:45 PM
- - ceaserthings   do that all the time!!   Jul 20 2009, 11:49 PM
- - I miss mouses   QUOTE (Jess @ Jul 19 2009, 08:12 PM) I...   Jul 21 2009, 05:04 PM
|- - Jess   QUOTE (I miss mouses @ Jul 21 2009, 06:04...   Jul 21 2009, 07:20 PM
|- - I miss mouses   QUOTE (Jess @ Jul 21 2009, 07:20 PM) This...   Jul 22 2009, 05:15 PM
|- - Jess   QUOTE (I miss mouses @ Jul 22 2009, 06:15...   Jul 22 2009, 08:45 PM
|- - I miss mouses   Hi, Thank you so much for that! Again I apol...   Jul 23 2009, 06:04 PM
|- - Jess   QUOTE (I miss mouses @ Jul 23 2009, 07:04...   Jul 23 2009, 09:05 PM
|- - I miss mouses   Funny...I say a version of that every morning when...   Jul 24 2009, 02:52 PM
|- - Jess   QUOTE (I miss mouses @ Jul 24 2009, 03:52...   Jul 27 2009, 07:03 PM
- - patricia   all the time! in fact everyday. every time i w...   Jul 21 2009, 07:59 PM
- - jasonsmom   Christmas will be tough. Last year, we had our 2 ...   Jul 22 2009, 06:05 PM
|- - Jess   QUOTE (jasonsmom @ Jul 22 2009, 07:05 PM)...   Jul 22 2009, 08:58 PM
- - ryancat   QUOTE (Jess @ Jul 19 2009, 09:12 PM) I...   Jul 24 2009, 05:53 PM
- - Jay T   very much so jess, i think the same thing about th...   Jul 30 2009, 08:40 PM
- - petmum   I remember those feelings oh so well. I couldn...   Jul 30 2009, 08:59 PM
- - ragdollfloozie   Dreading this weekend because I have to clean the ...   Jul 31 2009, 09:09 AM
- - phoebekitty   Oh, this happens to me also. The tall cat tree th...   Aug 1 2009, 12:15 AM
- - gailie   i'm sorry for your loss. my beagle died 2 wee...   Aug 1 2009, 10:04 PM

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