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Scarlett
post Jun 17 2009, 11:47 PM
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Grief is a strange thing. I thought I was working through my grief - although I was not sure I would ever really heal. Now I realize the past 3 1/2 weeks was really all just a stage of shock. Losing my Callym was just raw and hurt.

Now I find myself weeping in bed at night, and waking up feeling really lonely. The permanence of his loss is starting to really hit home. I think my grief is entering a new phase. I am realizing that this is not just about shock and disbelief, that this is not a trial separation for a few weeks or months - Callym has passed on. It's hurting and is painful all over again. I am functioning okay in day to day life, but the hurt is so deeply embedded as I really learn to accept my darling has passed on. I don't want to accept this.
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Candy's Dad
post Jun 19 2009, 05:40 PM
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I feel the same way. It's been a year since I lost my Candy and it still hurts. I miss my little girl.

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- Scarlett   Shock Is Now Turning Into Realization   Jun 17 2009, 11:47 PM
- - petmum   wow Scarlett you hve put into words exactly what i...   Jun 18 2009, 12:38 AM
- - nicole'smom   I know how you feel, Scarlett. You said it so well...   Jun 18 2009, 01:59 AM
- - Bue's Mommy   Hi Scarlett, it's just about 2 yrs for me. Al...   Jun 18 2009, 02:59 AM
- - Sammie girl's mom   Scarlett, I understand wholeheartedly how you fee...   Jun 18 2009, 10:12 AM
- - patricia   hi scarlett. boy i couldnt have said it better mys...   Jun 18 2009, 12:01 PM
- - Scarlett   Well, reading these replies is a comfort. Clearly ...   Jun 19 2009, 01:22 AM
- - petmum   {{{HUGS}}}   Jun 19 2009, 02:46 AM
- - Candy's Dad   I feel the same way. It's been a year since I...   Jun 19 2009, 05:40 PM
- - Scarlett   Every day I miss Callym more and more. I thought t...   Jun 21 2009, 01:55 AM
- - ceaserthings   I understand...I miss my Ceaser very much and it i...   Jun 21 2009, 07:31 PM
- - petmum   {{{HUGS}}} just for you   Jun 21 2009, 10:42 PM

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