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Scarlett
post Jun 17 2009, 11:47 PM
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Grief is a strange thing. I thought I was working through my grief - although I was not sure I would ever really heal. Now I realize the past 3 1/2 weeks was really all just a stage of shock. Losing my Callym was just raw and hurt.

Now I find myself weeping in bed at night, and waking up feeling really lonely. The permanence of his loss is starting to really hit home. I think my grief is entering a new phase. I am realizing that this is not just about shock and disbelief, that this is not a trial separation for a few weeks or months - Callym has passed on. It's hurting and is painful all over again. I am functioning okay in day to day life, but the hurt is so deeply embedded as I really learn to accept my darling has passed on. I don't want to accept this.
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Bue's Mommy
post Jun 18 2009, 02:59 AM
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Hi Scarlett, it's just about 2 yrs for me. Althoiugh it doesn't feel like I lost him yesterday, it
still hurts, alot.


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