I Lost My Cat, Xyoie, On Tuesday, But . . . Options

[mcase17]

I am having so much trouble dealing with whether or not she was actually deceased! I am starting to think I am losing my mind. She was 14 and had cancer, and was very ill towards the end. I woke up at 4 in the morning and checked on her, and just from looking, I could tell she was gone. Of course, I put my hand on her, no breath. My husband went to work that day and I had her in a blanket until he got home. I checked on her a few times. She never moved. She was becoming stiff (I think), here come the doubts . . . If anyone could please help me, I would appreciate it! Thanks!

[petmum]

even as i told my daughter that our "buddy" was gone, she asked if I was sure...it really made me think.....just like you.....maybe....just maybe....he was still alive...it was hard for me to truly believe what i was telling her......but he has gone & we are waiting for his ashes....the nxt round of feeling horrible and i'm not looking forward to the kids asking me "are you sure they're "buddy's" ashes? What if they got it wrong?" this is such a painful time.......all i keep saying is, "this SUX!!!!!" I hope u r feeling better mcase17. {{{HUGS}}}