The Pan,when Will It Go Away? Part 2 Options

[angelsflying]

Hello again...its been a while since I posted about my Charlie and his passing. What I want to update about now is...I went to vets office 2 weeks ago to get a copy of all Charlies records, and much to my surprise and dis belief....3 days before I was told my baby was in respitory distress, in his chart it stated: No dyspnea (resp distress) noted during exam, and heart and lungs OK. Also, all the tests I was told that were run, there was nothing in his chart to that effect. Now, Im feeling I was not given all the true facts, and based my decision on what I was told. Im heart broken again, feel betrayed, and full of guilt. Now I question myself, did I put my boy down for nothing? I wrote the vet a letter this past Friday, but have heard nothing back,yet. Tell me, in your opinions, what would any of you do with this new info? How would ya'll feel ? I would love to hear. Though I know that nothing can be changed, and I cant bring him back, I very angry and hurt. Thanks for listening !
Dawn

[toonie]

I can certainly understand your frustration. You should be receiving a reply or at least a phone call from your vet, I just don't see how they could delay an answer when they see how upset this situation is making you. I have seen tests that reveal nothing yet pets were ill so they may have done no wrong. But first and foremost, you deserve a prompt answer, I say if you don't get it soon, it is a bad sign that they are not as caring as they would like you to think. I hope you will have had a reply from them very soon. I really understand your mood. Keep us informed, we care and so so sorry that this has to be going on, all of this is already so terribly hard to accept. I hope that Charlie is carrying you in his heart to keep you grounded while you go through this horrible time.