I Lost My Best Friend Bun-bun.. Options

[george]

A few days ago we returned home after a few days to fine our family pet cat Bun-Bun having trouble breathing, we took her to the vet and quickly he said to put her down because of heart and lung problems. This pet was a family member for 17 yrs, a witness to the growth and development of our family, a family member who was alway there, always gave love alway sat quiet aside as we went on our daily duty's but was always there. I sweet face cat with a heart of gold. She touched our family so deeply and as left a hole in our lives. We regret doing what we did, maybe there was another way, maybe it was her time, maybe it did not have to happen. The entire family has been crying for 4 days, none of us can eat or sleep, or work, or go to school or work. We cant get over this. Maybe we made a mistake. I cant forgive myself for doing this to a family member. This was not our first pet or have we not been threw this type of thing before, it just happen so fast that I regret not giving it more time to develop. Our other pets all crying as much as the people in the family are. I cant bare to think of this as a mistake. I have tried to seek help for grief counseling but have not been able to find any.I am so pissed off at the vet and myself for jumping the gun. I don't know what to do..I failed my family. SOB why wasn't I given more time to think about this. Why can I have that day to do over ?

[sissycat]

Yes, time------------
Your Bun Bun knew how much she was loved. You were a great parent to her.

Wishing you some comfort. Hope your talk with the vet helps.

Hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[george]

Yes, time------------
Your Bun Bun knew how much she was loved. You were a great parent to her.

Wishing you some comfort. Hope your talk with the vet helps.

Hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thank you very much, I am getting ready to call the vet. Bun -Bun had saddle bags (we called them) her stomach was so wide from the rear it looked like saddle bags when she walked around. I miss that picture. I know this regret is going to end some day. It's just tough right now. I appreciate the help all the wonderful people have given me. It is hard to go thru this alone. My wife is worse then me. They spent lots of time together. She was the anchor of our house, she was always there , always looking for a family member, always ready to rub on your leg, ready to give you a meow hello. I know this was the right thing to do. I would never hurt her. I love her deeply. She was my Bun-Bun. I love her.